Call Me Stephanie
Blood: That is not a healthy relationship at all. You can't control your partner's friends! A relationship is nothing without trust. If you can't trust him not to cheat on you then you have no business being with him. He should be able to have female friends without you thinking he's cheating. Just like you have male friends and he shouldn't think you're cheating on him.
If HE'S given you no reason to think he's a cheater, then you can't just tell him you feel uncomfortable with her so he shouldn't talk to her. That's not fair to him. He has been faithful, he shouldn't pay for mistakes of Exs. Furthermore, he deserves his privacy. You can't expect him to let you read through his conversations or have your Dad babysit him and said girl!
Im not trying to control his friends, but I am trying to protect our relationship. And if I feel threatened by another girl, I think I should have the right to. And the only reason I even had a sneaking suspicion that he was cheating because of the way he acts about her, and because of pictures that I found on his phone. Im pretty sure that that gives me a right to be worried, and to be a bit more defensive. Wouldnt you be?
And he HAS given me reason to think he was cheating. Its not just because of my exs. Its because I know the signs of it. And as far as you claiming that hes been faithful, you have no idea of that, because you dont know him. Im not trying to say that he cant have privacy, and Im not trying to say that my dad has to babysit him. But if I feel that my relationship is threatened, Im going to try and save it. Privacy is one thing. Lying and hiding things is another.