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No thanks - I'm here to learn and I don't think I know enough. 0.14197530864198 14.2% [ 23 ]
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Death Before Dish0nor
Hello everyone! c:
I'm not really sure what my sexual orientation would be sweatdrop
So any help is highly appreciated.

Okay so here's the deal: I'm biologically female. I'm also straight [attracted to males- always have and always will be]. BUT, I dress up in male clothes. I've always loved their fashion and I've always wanted to be a guy. But being in that mental state of wanting to be a guy..I'm still attracted to males. I sometimes feel like if I were to somehow magically be able to *physically* change into a male, that I'd be the *best guy* ever. The type who's nice, understanding, respectful, old school manners, etc- not to sound sexist or offend anyone here. I just feel like there's not enough guys who'd have all that in a package.

But anyway- What exactly would I be? Genderfluid? GenderQueer? Etc

Edit: I still wear female clothes but only on occasion. As you can see with my current avatar, I also like cute outfits. I guess it's cause I feel that it makes up for the lack of female clothes that I wear IRL, lol.


Weren't you just wearing something pink? o -o
You suddenly shifted to blue.. Or is it just me?

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Death Before Dish0nor
Hello everyone! c:
I'm not really sure what my sexual orientation would be sweatdrop
So any help is highly appreciated.

Okay so here's the deal: I'm biologically female. I'm also straight [attracted to males- always have and always will be]. BUT, I dress up in male clothes. I've always loved their fashion and I've always wanted to be a guy. But being in that mental state of wanting to be a guy..I'm still attracted to males. I sometimes feel like if I were to somehow magically be able to *physically* change into a male, that I'd be the *best guy* ever. The type who's nice, understanding, respectful, old school manners, etc- not to sound sexist or offend anyone here. I just feel like there's not enough guys who'd have all that in a package.

But anyway- What exactly would I be? Genderfluid? GenderQueer? Etc

Edit: I still wear female clothes but only on occasion. As you can see with my current avatar, I also like cute outfits. I guess it's cause I feel that it makes up for the lack of female clothes that I wear IRL, lol.

If you still identify as female but just dress up in male clothes, then you are still a cisgender female, that would just make you a crossdresser. If you, however, identify as male sometimes and identify as female other times, then you could be bigender, or genderfluid, or genderqueer, etc. If, however, you only feel like you identify as male then that would make you transsexual. How you dress also does not determine your gender identity. How you dress is what you like to wear, how you feel inside is your gender identity. Sexual orientation also does not influence gender identity. People who are transsexual and cisgender can be of any sexual orientation. For example, I'm MtF yet I like girls.

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Death Before Dish0nor
Hello everyone! c:
I'm not really sure what my sexual orientation would be sweatdrop
So any help is highly appreciated.

Okay so here's the deal: I'm biologically female. I'm also straight [attracted to males- always have and always will be]. BUT, I dress up in male clothes. I've always loved their fashion and I've always wanted to be a guy. But being in that mental state of wanting to be a guy..I'm still attracted to males. I sometimes feel like if I were to somehow magically be able to *physically* change into a male, that I'd be the *best guy* ever. The type who's nice, understanding, respectful, old school manners, etc- not to sound sexist or offend anyone here. I just feel like there's not enough guys who'd have all that in a package.

But anyway- What exactly would I be? Genderfluid? GenderQueer? Etc

Edit: I still wear female clothes but only on occasion. As you can see with my current avatar, I also like cute outfits. I guess it's cause I feel that it makes up for the lack of female clothes that I wear IRL, lol.


Weren't you just wearing something pink? o -o
You suddenly shifted to blue.. Or is it just me?

seve i never knew u were like this im just shocked >.<
erk.

you're whatever you want to be.

titles are so boring.

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Death Before Dish0nor
Hello everyone! c:
I'm not really sure what my sexual orientation would be sweatdrop
So any help is highly appreciated.

Okay so here's the deal: I'm biologically female. I'm also straight [attracted to males- always have and always will be]. BUT, I dress up in male clothes. I've always loved their fashion and I've always wanted to be a guy. But being in that mental state of wanting to be a guy..I'm still attracted to males. I sometimes feel like if I were to somehow magically be able to *physically* change into a male, that I'd be the *best guy* ever. The type who's nice, understanding, respectful, old school manners, etc- not to sound sexist or offend anyone here. I just feel like there's not enough guys who'd have all that in a package.

But anyway- What exactly would I be? Genderfluid? GenderQueer? Etc

Edit: I still wear female clothes but only on occasion. As you can see with my current avatar, I also like cute outfits. I guess it's cause I feel that it makes up for the lack of female clothes that I wear IRL, lol.

If you still identify as female but just dress up in male clothes, then you are still a cisgender female, that would just make you a crossdresser. If you, however, identify as male sometimes and identify as female other times, then you could be bigender, or genderfluid, or genderqueer, etc. If, however, you only feel like you identify as male then that would make you transsexual. How you dress also does not determine your gender identity. How you dress is what you like to wear, how you feel inside is your gender identity. Sexual orientation also does not influence gender identity. People who are transsexual and cisgender can be of any sexual orientation. For example, I'm MtF yet I like girls.


Ah, Thank you so much! This was really informative c:

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Death Before Dish0nor

Weren't you just wearing something pink? o -o
You suddenly shifted to blue.. Or is it just me?


ahaha, yeah I was. I tend to change outfits depending on my mood. If I feel feminine, then I'll wear pink if more on the masculine side, I'll wear blue.

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erk.

you're whatever you want to be.

titles are so boring.


I agree- That makes life a lot easier.
Death Before Dish0nor
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erk.

you're whatever you want to be.

titles are so boring.


I agree- That makes life a lot easier.
yep. there's so many new types of genders and sexualities out there now, i can't even keep up. i just nod these days and go "okay".

it doesn't matter to me. people are people, you like who you like, you dress how you dress. you go by sir/ma'am or whatever. doesn't mean much to me.

though i don't like people who use the titles in order to get attention or trick others. but that's just me.

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Death Before Dish0nor
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erk.

you're whatever you want to be.

titles are so boring.


I agree- That makes life a lot easier.
yep. there's so many new types of genders and sexualities out there now, i can't even keep up. i just nod these days and go "okay".

it doesn't matter to me. people are people, you like who you like, you dress how you dress. you go by sir/ma'am or whatever. doesn't mean much to me.

though i don't like people who use the titles in order to get attention or trick others. but that's just me.


Exactly- it's all a matter of personal choice and how each individual feels about themself.
haha I was just thinking about somehow making my own 'Jarvis' system [the one in Iron man] and have Jarvis address me as 'Sir' whenever he poses a question or action.
Death Before Dish0nor
mellifluous glass optics
Death Before Dish0nor
mellifluous glass optics
erk.

you're whatever you want to be.

titles are so boring.


I agree- That makes life a lot easier.
yep. there's so many new types of genders and sexualities out there now, i can't even keep up. i just nod these days and go "okay".

it doesn't matter to me. people are people, you like who you like, you dress how you dress. you go by sir/ma'am or whatever. doesn't mean much to me.

though i don't like people who use the titles in order to get attention or trick others. but that's just me.


Exactly- it's all a matter of personal choice and how each individual feels about themself.
haha I was just thinking about somehow making my own 'Jarvis' system [the one in Iron man] and have Jarvis address me as 'Sir' whenever he poses a question or action.
oh god, iron man.

mmn. you would bring up the one guy/superhero i'd rape for a year straight if i could.

Friendly Citizen

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Death Before Dish0nor
mellifluous glass optics
Death Before Dish0nor
mellifluous glass optics
erk.

you're whatever you want to be.

titles are so boring.


I agree- That makes life a lot easier.
yep. there's so many new types of genders and sexualities out there now, i can't even keep up. i just nod these days and go "okay".

it doesn't matter to me. people are people, you like who you like, you dress how you dress. you go by sir/ma'am or whatever. doesn't mean much to me.

though i don't like people who use the titles in order to get attention or trick others. but that's just me.


Exactly- it's all a matter of personal choice and how each individual feels about themself.
haha I was just thinking about somehow making my own 'Jarvis' system [the one in Iron man] and have Jarvis address me as 'Sir' whenever he poses a question or action.
oh god, iron man.

mmn. you would bring up the one guy/superhero i'd rape for a year straight if i could.


lmao, yea.. he's pretty delicious. I wanted to be iron man for halloween but the store-bought [iron man] costumes are kinda tacky looking. So I'll probably end up making my own Dx
That or pimp myself out in a Tron outfit emotion_dealwithit
Death Before Dish0nor
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Death Before Dish0nor
mellifluous glass optics
Death Before Dish0nor
mellifluous glass optics
erk.

you're whatever you want to be.

titles are so boring.


I agree- That makes life a lot easier.
yep. there's so many new types of genders and sexualities out there now, i can't even keep up. i just nod these days and go "okay".

it doesn't matter to me. people are people, you like who you like, you dress how you dress. you go by sir/ma'am or whatever. doesn't mean much to me.

though i don't like people who use the titles in order to get attention or trick others. but that's just me.


Exactly- it's all a matter of personal choice and how each individual feels about themself.
haha I was just thinking about somehow making my own 'Jarvis' system [the one in Iron man] and have Jarvis address me as 'Sir' whenever he poses a question or action.
oh god, iron man.

mmn. you would bring up the one guy/superhero i'd rape for a year straight if i could.


lmao, yea.. he's pretty delicious. I wanted to be iron man for halloween but the store-bought [iron man] costumes are kinda tacky looking. So I'll probably end up making my own Dx
That or pimp myself out in a Tron outfit emotion_dealwithit
i hope i never come across someone cosplaying Iron Man.

i would not be able to resist the molesting and that would end badly.

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Death Before Dish0nor
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Death Before Dish0nor
mellifluous glass optics
yep. there's so many new types of genders and sexualities out there now, i can't even keep up. i just nod these days and go "okay".

it doesn't matter to me. people are people, you like who you like, you dress how you dress. you go by sir/ma'am or whatever. doesn't mean much to me.

though i don't like people who use the titles in order to get attention or trick others. but that's just me.


Exactly- it's all a matter of personal choice and how each individual feels about themself.
haha I was just thinking about somehow making my own 'Jarvis' system [the one in Iron man] and have Jarvis address me as 'Sir' whenever he poses a question or action.
oh god, iron man.

mmn. you would bring up the one guy/superhero i'd rape for a year straight if i could.


lmao, yea.. he's pretty delicious. I wanted to be iron man for halloween but the store-bought [iron man] costumes are kinda tacky looking. So I'll probably end up making my own Dx
That or pimp myself out in a Tron outfit emotion_dealwithit
i hope i never come across someone cosplaying Iron Man.

i would not be able to resist the molesting and that would end badly.


yes, yes..I imagine it would. *backs away slowly*

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I think the real issue is I just don't feel like I'm really a part of the LGBT community, since I've never actually been with a girl. I can wear the colors, but if I haven't had the same experiences, then what does it mean? I don't know.

I think you're thinking about it all wrong. Of course you can acknowledge and celebrate your orientation and support the LGBT community without having same-sex relationships. At least I never look at anyone cross-eyed(haha not sure if this is the right idiom in English) based on their relationships.

ps. joking about molesting and rape is kinda uncool guys.

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