BDSM: Y'all got issues

[MiameMiame]

MistressxLithia

MiameMiame

BDSM is ******** weird man.

Why do you say that? What makes it 'weird' to you? What do you think BDSM entails?

People with n****e piercings, tying one another to bed posts and some weird a** RP-ing I'll probably never understand. What's so nice about being submissive/dominant anyways?

[MiameMiame]

MistressxLithia

MiameMiame

MistressxLithia

Wizards of the Toast

Any man who lets himself be cuckholded...just nope. ew. emotion_donotwant

YKINMY. Learn the acronym. Your Kink Is Not My Kink. I know people who are into scat. Not my thing, but I won't invalidate their kink just because I'm not into it.

IDRCWYR,IMETMO
Do you know that acronym?
It means I Don't Really Care What You Reply,I'M Entitled To My Opinion.

Ah, so you're a troll. Good to know. I will take anything and everything you say with a grain of salt.

I take the whole BDSM community with a grain of salt, so go ahead.

[All and Sundry]

It is unhealthy? Of course.
Do some have serious issues that should require therapy? Of course.
Does that make it any less fun? No.
Many cases of BDSM are abuse. Nothing wrong as long as both people are fine with it.

[Blackrose_The_Knight]

All and Sundry

It is unhealthy? Of course.
Do some have serious issues that should require therapy? Of course.
Does that make it any less fun? No.
Many cases of BDSM are abuse. Nothing wrong as long as both people are fine with it.

can you use sources to back those assertions please?

[MiameMiame]

MistressxLithia

MiameMiame

MistressxLithia

MiameMiame

BDSM is ******** weird man.

Why do you say that? What makes it 'weird' to you? What do you think BDSM entails?

People with n****e piercings,

this has nothing to do with BDSM. I know many who are into body piercing who are 'nilla in their sexual lives.

MiameMiame

tying one another to bed posts

Some people enjoy the feeling of helplessness. For my kitten, she has a very demanding job, especially during tax season, so she enjoys being able to just relax while being restrained, and letting me take care of her needs.

MiameMiame

and some weird a** RP-ing

What are you talking about? Not every couple who is into BDSM 'role plays'.

MiameMiame

I'll probably never understand.

And I'll never why some people find 'nilla sex fulfilling, but I'm not going to tell them they're weird for it.

MiameMiame

What's so nice about being submissive/dominant anyways?

Its a part of who a person is. It would be like being white but saying you're black. You can't hide or dismiss who you are. As a Dominant, what's great for me in terms of my relationship? For starters, having two people I love with all my heart trust me enough to know that I will fulfill their needs and never harm them. Watching my girl grow from a shy wallflower into a vibrant person who no longer hides in the shadows is another 'great' in my opinion. Seeing the stress and strain of the day just fade away from my partners eyes when I give them the release they need, and I don't just mean sexual release. Taking care of them, encouraging them to follow their dreams, and yes, being in control.

Um... oh.. wow lol

[Blackrose_The_Knight]

Wizards of the Toast

MistressxLithia

Wizards of the Toast

MistressxLithia

Wizards of the Toast

Any man who lets himself be cuckholded...just nope. ew. emotion_donotwant

YKINMY. Learn the acronym. Your Kink Is Not My Kink. I know people who are into scat. Not my thing, but I won't invalidate their kink just because I'm not into it.

I don't particularly give a s**t. if a man allowed himself to be cuck holded he's unworthy of being called a man in any sense of the word or human imo. I don't give a s**t if degenerates degenerate I can point it out and say I find it ******** disgusting. I have more respect for men into scat than ******** cuck holded little bitches.

Something tells me you're projecting. it has been my experience, in the more than two decades I have been a part of the BDSM community, that those who vilify submissiuve males, and are males themselves, are doing it because they are ashamed of being submissive themselves. because they were made to feel ashamed by others, they have a need to try and make others feel that way as well.

You're also a sexist because only a sexist would use the term 'real man'. I'll bet you're a homophobe and transphobe as well.

I'm a traditionalist christian conservative do no ******** strawman that as sexism or any other "wah ur a biggot for not calling out degenerates as degenerate scum" so ******** what. don't like it? take a hike and take your snide bullshit with you.


So I'll bet your probably a atheist degenerate, single mother and a drug addict, but does this bring anything to the conversation?

I find cuckholding disgusting I still do, so you aren't going to be able to change my mind on that topic. I also find race mixing ******** disgusting and I am a national socialist. does that offend you even more that you feel the need to try and speak over me or shame me for having christian morals like the toxic liberal degenerate you are?

vincent?

[Blackrose_The_Knight]

MiameMiame

MistressxLithia

MiameMiame

MistressxLithia

MiameMiame

BDSM is ******** weird man.

Why do you say that? What makes it 'weird' to you? What do you think BDSM entails?

People with n****e piercings,

this has nothing to do with BDSM. I know many who are into body piercing who are 'nilla in their sexual lives.

MiameMiame

tying one another to bed posts

Some people enjoy the feeling of helplessness. For my kitten, she has a very demanding job, especially during tax season, so she enjoys being able to just relax while being restrained, and letting me take care of her needs.

MiameMiame

and some weird a** RP-ing

What are you talking about? Not every couple who is into BDSM 'role plays'.

MiameMiame

I'll probably never understand.

And I'll never why some people find 'nilla sex fulfilling, but I'm not going to tell them they're weird for it.

MiameMiame

What's so nice about being submissive/dominant anyways?

Its a part of who a person is. It would be like being white but saying you're black. You can't hide or dismiss who you are. As a Dominant, what's great for me in terms of my relationship? For starters, having two people I love with all my heart trust me enough to know that I will fulfill their needs and never harm them. Watching my girl grow from a shy wallflower into a vibrant person who no longer hides in the shadows is another 'great' in my opinion. Seeing the stress and strain of the day just fade away from my partners eyes when I give them the release they need, and I don't just mean sexual release. Taking care of them, encouraging them to follow their dreams, and yes, being in control.

Um... oh.. wow lol

I am curious about your response. You asked for someone to explain why bdsm appealed. You got a well thought out explanation. Is that not what you wanted?

[All and Sundry]

Blackrose_The_Knight

All and Sundry

It is unhealthy? Of course.
Do some have serious issues that should require therapy? Of course.
Does that make it any less fun? No.
Many cases of BDSM are abuse. Nothing wrong as long as both people are fine with it.

can you use sources to back those assertions please?

It's called an opinion. You have yours and I have mine.
And I don't care about yours, so kindly bugger off.

[Blackrose_The_Knight]

All and Sundry

Blackrose_The_Knight

All and Sundry

It is unhealthy? Of course.
Do some have serious issues that should require therapy? Of course.
Does that make it any less fun? No.
Many cases of BDSM are abuse. Nothing wrong as long as both people are fine with it.

can you use sources to back those assertions please?

It's called an opinion. You have yours and I have mine.
And I don't care about yours, so kindly bugger off.

Well formed, respected opinions are based, and formed in fact. Cite your sources or I call bullshit. What facts have you used to form your opinion?