BDSM: Y'all got issues

[kelsey-chan]

Senator Armstrong

kelsey-chan

Senator Armstrong

kelsey-chan

BDSM and SM are not one bit about being involved with an abusive partner.

It's simulated abuse. It doesn't matter if it's consensual.

Yes, it does matter if it's consensual. If the sex wasn't then it would be abuse. If those who engage in bdsm all consent then it's not abuse.

Just like if all people parties in a ritual killing consent it's not murder?

That's a terrible analogy.

If people get their rocks off of the idea of being whipped, spanked, being gagged, being told to sit on thumb tacks and grind their butts into the ground, it's not abuse if they like it and it's not stimulated abuse either. If the people involved are all in agreeance, all know each others limits, are in a safe place and in a controlled environment, it's not abuse. Just like regular, non kink, non fetish sex.

And yes, it is murder just encase you don't understand the difference. Unless we're talking about a person and not an animal. If the person consents to be the sacrifice and wants to die, then it's not murder. It's an aided death.

[aidyn devereaux]

Senator Armstrong

kelsey-chan

BDSM and SM are not one bit about being involved with an abusive partner.

It's simulated abuse. It doesn't matter if it's consensual.

Except its not. There is no abuse. Period.

[aidyn devereaux]

Hell Rides With GSK

aidyn devereaux

Senator Armstrong

kelsey-chan

BDSM and SM are not one bit about being involved with an abusive partner.

It's simulated abuse. It doesn't matter if it's consensual.

Except its not. There is no abuse. Period.

Remind him that his favorite video game is simulated murder on multiple levels.

i.. have no idea what you're talking about so, um, i'll just let you be the one to do that.

[Astra the Fae]

I think Blackrose_Knight said it best. Even though I misread squirming as squirting.

Anyway, i've had the pleasure of being friends with a female sub. (I think she was). She wasn't mentally ill or had any sort of confidence problems. (Ableist much?) And actually she was completely the opposite. She was very confident and very open. I learned a lot from her about the BDSM community.

Its not abuse. It becomes abuse and even rape when you violate the terms or consent. When you refuse to use safewords (which lets your partner know when to stop).

If it were truly abuse then why use safewords? Clearly you dont know s**t, OP.

[MiameMiame]

BDSM is ******** weird man.

[moon sugar mints]

All I saw from the people who don't understand it:

i am so mad grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr mad face angry face grrr if i put more grs it'll make it better

dramallama
Just get over it and let them live their lives, sheesh! Lool.

[MiameMiame]

MistressxLithia

Wizards of the Toast

Any man who lets himself be cuckholded...just nope. ew. emotion_donotwant

YKINMY. Learn the acronym. Your Kink Is Not My Kink. I know people who are into scat. Not my thing, but I won't invalidate their kink just because I'm not into it.

IDRCWYR,IMETMO
Do you know that acronym?
It means I Don't Really Care What You Reply,I'M Entitled To My Opinion.