dia-chan
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In some areas I'm luckier than most, and in others, it just SUCKS.
I'm on yasmine, first and only pill I've tried and it has worked very, very well for me.
Still, no matter what I do, sex is a struggle to feel pain free. I've gone to the gyno and nothing is physically wrong, I'm always aroused, always had lube on hand (sometimes the sex is better without the lube), always relaxed, and it's that -stretching- when intercourse first begins that is ALWAYS uncomfortable. Been like this for over a year, so maybe I'm petit or unlucky. D:
Anyway, great thread of info!
I'm on yasmine, first and only pill I've tried and it has worked very, very well for me.
Still, no matter what I do, sex is a struggle to feel pain free. I've gone to the gyno and nothing is physically wrong, I'm always aroused, always had lube on hand (sometimes the sex is better without the lube), always relaxed, and it's that -stretching- when intercourse first begins that is ALWAYS uncomfortable. Been like this for over a year, so maybe I'm petit or unlucky. D:
Anyway, great thread of info!
I'm sorry to hear about the discomfort; it's unusual that you've not been able to improve things. Out of interest, have you begun to dread that sensation? Anxiety about painful sex could cause it to continue to manifest.
Also, are you having sex when you have lots and lots of time to take things slowly?
Well, the very first time I was nervous, but that was a long time ago, and I don't really feel that way anymore. It took me so long to get to a point where sex wasn't excruciating, and I was scared that I had that condition that made me clench up involuntarily. Months later, sex got better but was still uncomfortable, and I was relieved to find that my gyno visit didn't hurt at all. Anything the size of a p***s is what really causes discomfort, I guess.
There will be times where it's not at all bad, only some twinges in the beginning, and other times where it can get really uncomfortable. I wondered if it was a lube problem, but it was as though the stretching was what hurt me so much.
Yes, we take things very slowly. I make sure that I'm on top--hurts the less--and we move at my pace. Maybe it's just that it takes heaps of foreplay to get me going (even then, the pain is a spector that comes and goes), but it gets me so annoyed. I know there are women in the world who have sex entirely pain free, where they can have quickies and everything's fine, and it really gets so frustrating that my v****a is so stubborn.
D: I wanna trade mine in!
