Cybering. The intelligent discussion.

[inkbled]

I've done it and I'm a girl who prefers roleplaying as a guy. Of course the partner knows, and they usually are people playing as guys too. I never felt comfortable as a lady irl anyway, I sure won't really care to be one when doing the cybersex bit.

Plus some of the stuff I'd want to do would hurt someone irl badly, I sure would rather not bring my weird likes into reality.

[2TPO]

"What methods and for what purpose are people introduced into cybering?"

[Aydenfyre]

Some people just happen to have the mental abilities to imagine such things happening to them, to the point where they can get off to these things.

For me, it was about being with someone else I know and care about. I like being loved, and that's just one way to go about it. Other than that, it's just roleplaying, or boredom on my end.

[Angelic M Plus]

Old Prince

"What methods and for what purpose are people introduced into cybering?"

"I became introduced to the concept back in my youth in video game related chatrooms. While it sounds silly, some Pokemon chat rooms became sexual. Either with people pretending to be trainers or characters from the video game and anime. Also, the introduction of Furcadia didn't help it much. I don't consider myself a furry, however."

[Nict]

Are these quotes or is that just some silly new-age posting style?

[2TPO]

Angelic M Plus

Old Prince

"What methods and for what purpose are people introduced into cybering?"

"I became introduced to the concept back in my youth in video game related chatrooms. While it sounds silly, some Pokemon chat rooms became sexual. Either with people pretending to be trainers or characters from the video game and anime. Also, the introduction of Furcadia didn't help it much. I don't consider myself a furry, however."

A satisfactory response none the less. I do wonder however, when introduced to cybering, some approach it while being judgmental. Was it what is expected after labling the act itself taboo?

It just seems to me that either it is accepted or it is not. What may follow after there is, what I assume, personal.

[TheFatMurderer]

There is a 20 page discussion about nerds jacking off to instant messages. People actually typed this s**t.

[Immy Katten]

I am not too much in the favor of cybering. Generally, I feel it is a waste of time. Also, some people get way too attached to cybering, and - like an internet relationship to a proximity relationship - it does relate to having sex in a few ways. I prefer to know people on a rather personal level before I even consider it, and even then it takes a lot of convincing. That said, anyone who has to make cyber-advances on me I know immediately I would not want as a boyfriend.

[Stemboing]

I would be fine with my boyfriend cybering with some stranger. I dont do it because people I prefer porn.

[Angelic M Plus]

Old Prince

Angelic M Plus

Old Prince

"What methods and for what purpose are people introduced into cybering?"

"I became introduced to the concept back in my youth in video game related chatrooms. While it sounds silly, some Pokemon chat rooms became sexual. Either with people pretending to be trainers or characters from the video game and anime. Also, the introduction of Furcadia didn't help it much. I don't consider myself a furry, however."

A satisfactory response none the less. I do wonder however, when introduced to cybering, some approach it while being judgmental. Was it what is expected after labling the act itself taboo?

It just seems to me that either it is accepted or it is not. What may follow after there is, what I assume, personal.

"It had just come up one time, you know joking around when you talk to people, things like sex come up, even at a young age. I say the anonymity of the internet pushes those thoughts forward. For me, it was something slowly eased into with a person I had began to talk to often in chatrooms and later on IMs like ICQ."

[Cassidy Peterson]

arkNEREOUS

Generally, I feel it is a waste of time.

It really is xd

But sometimes there's not much in the way of productive goals to accomplish, and so time is being wasted no matter what, it's just a question of how.

arkNEREOUS

I prefer to know people on a rather personal level before I even consider it, and even then it takes a lot of convincing. That said, anyone who has to make cyber-advances on me I know immediately I would not want as a boyfriend.

The only people I cyber with these days are folks I've known for a bit more than ten years. While I've shared porn links / titles / etc with various folks, it's mostly for laughs, such as when I was working at the mall and one of the security guards loaned me Count Down, a hentai that has a gay robot in it. A transforming gay robot. I've got no interest in actually doing anything with most of the people I make sex jokes with.

[2TPO]

TheFatMurderer

There is a 20 page discussion about nerds jacking off to instant messages. People actually typed this s**t.

That is the one part that I did not know about when I started, which is why I hurt afterward.

[Angelic M Plus]

Old Prince

TheFatMurderer

There is a 20 page discussion about nerds jacking off to instant messages. People actually typed this s**t.

That is the one part that I did not know about when I started, which is why I hurt afterward.

"I don't think the troll knew what he was saying."

[Cyrus Adler]

I tend to think of cybersex as an immediate result of our evolving digital culture. Once people could contact other people across any distance, people stopped forming social links in just their own neighborhoods and started connecting to distant foreigners. When people form an intimate link across such vast distances, there is a need for a stopgap to make up for the lack of proximity. Hence, cybering.

[Dostya]

Someone forgot to copypaste Bloodninja in this thread.