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Well I think the only justifiable cause for cybering would be to get better at writing. If you write erotic novels or lemony fanfiction, it's a great exercise and it can actually inspire the writer.

If you are bored go get laid u.u If you do it for fun then whatever with me, just know it's a bit silly, even if you're doing it anonymously.
"I can understand your point with the latter half of your response, however, some people simply cannot or don't want to just 'go get laid'. Cybering is a form of, how do I put it.... preference to some. It allows their imagination to take control and fulfill their desires/kinks a lot better than most can be done with an actual person."


Oh well i've always thought that even people considered "ugly" can get laid, it's pretty easy if you actually try (not that i've tried actually but i can think of a few ways). Now if you have a problem like, you have a disease and no one would want to do it with you then I think cybering would be a way of experiencing it through their minds.
"I think I covered that part (about diseases) in my original post. If not then I feel stupid for having not done so by now. Again, I'm not trying to claim that either sex/cybering is better than the other, just the views and opinions that cybering isn't as awful as many people make it out to be."


Well it's not awful at all, I actually don't care but I think that if you have time to cyber, just go out and really do it, there are many people willing. Reality is......I think it's pathetic under some situations like, boredom or doing it just because you're anonymous, and I'm sorry if it offends you or anyone. In the end everyone just does whatever they want haha

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Cheating is relative. Just kidding rofl

Can't you just wait for when you are together to do it? It would make it more special because it doesn't happen every day. Also you can make sexy phone calls (or whatever it's called), it's not cybering and I think it's more justifiable for couples. And you are together, but anonymous cybering with a stranger on the web... srsly.
Cheating is relative. But in the relationship I'm in, wandering off to bang folks would be cheating xp

I'm-a jump on his boner ASAP when I see him again xd We couldn't do phone sex because I'd get too giggly.

I've long since learned my lesson about random cybering. Fortunately the guy doesn't know who I really am, but he knows "Cassidy Peterson" and he refuses to give up - not even on me, but on the character I played when we cybered. I last did roleplay of any sort with him in 2004. It may have been 2003 or even 2002 when we last actually cybered.

What makes it sad is that while we were actively cybering, his character was constantly cheating on mine - with other characters I played! Plotwise I was fine with that, but now when I encounter him he mopes so much about how he misses that one particular character.

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Cheating is relative. Just kidding rofl

Can't you just wait for when you are together to do it? It would make it more special because it doesn't happen every day. Also you can make sexy phone calls (or whatever it's called), it's not cybering and I think it's more justifiable for couples. And you are together, but anonymous cybering with a stranger on the web... srsly.
Cheating is relative. But in the relationship I'm in, wandering off to bang folks would be cheating xp

I'm-a jump on his boner ASAP when I see him again xd We couldn't do phone sex because I'd get too giggly.

I've long since learned my lesson about random cybering. Fortunately the guy doesn't know who I really am, but he knows "Cassidy Peterson" and he refuses to give up - not even on me, but on the character I played when we cybered. I last did roleplay of any sort with him in 2004. It may have been 2003 or even 2002 when we last actually cybered.

What makes it sad is that while we were actively cybering, his character was constantly cheating on mine - with other characters I played! Plotwise I was fine with that, but now when I encounter him he mopes so much about how he misses that one particular character.


Well roleplaying is ok. I'd actually enjoy it because i'm into roleplaying lately, not cybering roleplay tho but i guess it will get to that point someday. I'd enjoy it if it were done the right way, like a story or a book, that looks really nice and it can actually improve your writing skills. I only dislike the kind of cybering that looks pathetic, with no purpose.

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Well I think the only justifiable cause for cybering would be to get better at writing. If you write erotic novels or lemony fanfiction, it's a great exercise and it can actually inspire the writer.

If you are bored go get laid u.u If you do it for fun then whatever with me, just know it's a bit silly, even if you're doing it anonymously.
"I can understand your point with the latter half of your response, however, some people simply cannot or don't want to just 'go get laid'. Cybering is a form of, how do I put it.... preference to some. It allows their imagination to take control and fulfill their desires/kinks a lot better than most can be done with an actual person."


Oh well i've always thought that even people considered "ugly" can get laid, it's pretty easy if you actually try (not that i've tried actually but i can think of a few ways). Now if you have a problem like, you have a disease and no one would want to do it with you then I think cybering would be a way of experiencing it through their minds.
"I think I covered that part (about diseases) in my original post. If not then I feel stupid for having not done so by now. Again, I'm not trying to claim that either sex/cybering is better than the other, just the views and opinions that cybering isn't as awful as many people make it out to be."


Well it's not awful at all, I actually don't care but I think that if you have time to cyber, just go out and really do it, there are many people willing. Reality is......I think it's pathetic under some situations like, boredom or doing it just because you're anonymous, and I'm sorry if it offends you or anyone. In the end everyone just does whatever they want haha
"I take no offense to it. I have done it for many reasons and I've been in a relationship with a beautiful woman for 4+ years now. In the end, as you said, everyone will do what they want for whatever reason they want, so it's not like we have any right to really judge them."

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Well I think the only justifiable cause for cybering would be to get better at writing. If you write erotic novels or lemony fanfiction, it's a great exercise and it can actually inspire the writer.

If you are bored go get laid u.u If you do it for fun then whatever with me, just know it's a bit silly, even if you're doing it anonymously.
"I can understand your point with the latter half of your response, however, some people simply cannot or don't want to just 'go get laid'. Cybering is a form of, how do I put it.... preference to some. It allows their imagination to take control and fulfill their desires/kinks a lot better than most can be done with an actual person."


Oh well i've always thought that even people considered "ugly" can get laid, it's pretty easy if you actually try (not that i've tried actually but i can think of a few ways). Now if you have a problem like, you have a disease and no one would want to do it with you then I think cybering would be a way of experiencing it through their minds.
"I think I covered that part (about diseases) in my original post. If not then I feel stupid for having not done so by now. Again, I'm not trying to claim that either sex/cybering is better than the other, just the views and opinions that cybering isn't as awful as many people make it out to be."


Well it's not awful at all, I actually don't care but I think that if you have time to cyber, just go out and really do it, there are many people willing. Reality is......I think it's pathetic under some situations like, boredom or doing it just because you're anonymous, and I'm sorry if it offends you or anyone. In the end everyone just does whatever they want haha
"I take no offense to it. I have done it for many reasons and I've been in a relationship with a beautiful woman for 4+ years now. In the end, as you said, everyone will do what they want for whatever reason they want, so it's not like we have any right to really judge them."


Like I said to another peep, I would enjoy cybering sometime, but only if it's properly done, like a story or book, something that would actually improve my writing skills because I suck xD If you are in a relationship it's good because it can make you find things you didnt know about your partner, see? It has a purpose. I just don't like the ones that do it just for the heck of it, just go out and do it gonk Cience is both a curse and a blessing lol

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Oh well i've always thought that even people considered "ugly" can get laid, it's pretty easy if you actually try (not that i've tried actually but i can think of a few ways). Now if you have a problem like, you have a disease and no one would want to do it with you then I think cybering would be a way of experiencing it through their minds.
"I think I covered that part (about diseases) in my original post. If not then I feel stupid for having not done so by now. Again, I'm not trying to claim that either sex/cybering is better than the other, just the views and opinions that cybering isn't as awful as many people make it out to be."


Well it's not awful at all, I actually don't care but I think that if you have time to cyber, just go out and really do it, there are many people willing. Reality is......I think it's pathetic under some situations like, boredom or doing it just because you're anonymous, and I'm sorry if it offends you or anyone. In the end everyone just does whatever they want haha
"I take no offense to it. I have done it for many reasons and I've been in a relationship with a beautiful woman for 4+ years now. In the end, as you said, everyone will do what they want for whatever reason they want, so it's not like we have any right to really judge them."


Like I said to another peep, I would enjoy cybering sometime, but only if it's properly done, like a story or book, something that would actually improve my writing skills because I suck xD If you are in a relationship it's good because it can make you find things you didnt know about your partner, see? It has a purpose. I just don't like the ones that do it just for the heck of it, just go out and do it gonk Cience is both a curse and a blessing lol
"I think doing so over the years past that I had taken part in the activity myself, I found myself actually spelling out my words and learning to use proper grammar. My punctuation and misuse of some words at time haven't improved." sweatdrop

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Well, what I can say is you have some very valid points there. I personally just never really saw what the point of it was if someone has a girlfriend, a boyfriend, or whoever around them to actually interact with. But probably because I never really needed it, for about most of the reasons you've posted. And the Role play part I can understand, even though I've never really done that during one, that's also a good point. But I find the first two, but mainly the first one is more negative than positive. Desperation isn't exactly considered something good, depending on the situation of course. And boredom, why not just go outside instead of cyber? Its not that hard.

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Well, what I can say is you have some very valid points there. I personally just never really saw what the point of it was if someone has a girlfriend, a boyfriend, or whoever around them to actually interact with. But probably because I never really needed it, for about most of the reasons you've posted. And the Role play part I can understand, even though I've never really done that during one, that's also a good point. But I find the first two, but mainly the first one is more negative than positive. Desperation isn't exactly considered something good, depending on the situation of course. And boredom, why not just go outside instead of cyber? Its not that hard.
"You're right, it's not and I don't think I was trying to make light of the topic, but some people just are desperate for that type of interaction, about the same as anyone looking at porn or other erotic material would. Tired and true concept of 'getting out' and 'doing something' can be heavily applied to many things outside the topic at hand, but for each reason there is a compromise. Maybe someone likes the human interaction (as I've stated) without the strings attached. Going out and having real sex is great (I know) but also comes with consequences. I don't think it is right to look down on someone for having such a hobby or lifestyle. It's a very 'on the fence' topic for me, maybe because I was personally involved with the topic at hand in the past (I'm quiet older than your average Gaian) but at the time and even now, the whole subject doesn't seem to be that horrible, it gets just as much negativity against it as any other controversial subject."

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Well, what I can say is you have some very valid points there. I personally just never really saw what the point of it was if someone has a girlfriend, a boyfriend, or whoever around them to actually interact with. But probably because I never really needed it, for about most of the reasons you've posted. And the Role play part I can understand, even though I've never really done that during one, that's also a good point. But I find the first two, but mainly the first one is more negative than positive. Desperation isn't exactly considered something good, depending on the situation of course. And boredom, why not just go outside instead of cyber? Its not that hard.
"You're right, it's not and I don't think I was trying to make light of the topic, but some people just are desperate for that type of interaction, about the same as anyone looking at porn or other erotic material would. Tired and true concept of 'getting out' and 'doing something' can be heavily applied to many things outside the topic at hand, but for each reason there is a compromise. Maybe someone likes the human interaction (as I've stated) without the strings attached. Going out and having real sex is great (I know) but also comes with consequences. I don't think it is right to look down on someone for having such a hobby or lifestyle. It's a very 'on the fence' topic for me, maybe because I was personally involved with the topic at hand in the past (I'm quiet older than your average Gaian) but at the time and even now, the whole subject doesn't seem to be that horrible, it gets just as much negativity against it as any other controversial subject."


Well, that's true, I admit. My view on the matter is probably just because of how I was raised though I'd think I would have had my own views on it by now since I'm over past the time of really living with family still. And also the human interaction part, does make sense. And many would people would in fact, like you said, so strings attached whatsoever. Now it more seems like a quick thing to judge since many people do look down on desperation for it.

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Well, what I can say is you have some very valid points there. I personally just never really saw what the point of it was if someone has a girlfriend, a boyfriend, or whoever around them to actually interact with. But probably because I never really needed it, for about most of the reasons you've posted. And the Role play part I can understand, even though I've never really done that during one, that's also a good point. But I find the first two, but mainly the first one is more negative than positive. Desperation isn't exactly considered something good, depending on the situation of course. And boredom, why not just go outside instead of cyber? Its not that hard.
"You're right, it's not and I don't think I was trying to make light of the topic, but some people just are desperate for that type of interaction, about the same as anyone looking at porn or other erotic material would. Tired and true concept of 'getting out' and 'doing something' can be heavily applied to many things outside the topic at hand, but for each reason there is a compromise. Maybe someone likes the human interaction (as I've stated) without the strings attached. Going out and having real sex is great (I know) but also comes with consequences. I don't think it is right to look down on someone for having such a hobby or lifestyle. It's a very 'on the fence' topic for me, maybe because I was personally involved with the topic at hand in the past (I'm quiet older than your average Gaian) but at the time and even now, the whole subject doesn't seem to be that horrible, it gets just as much negativity against it as any other controversial subject."


Well, that's true, I admit. My view on the matter is probably just because of how I was raised though I'd think I would have had my own views on it by now since I'm over past the time of really living with family still. And also the human interaction part, does make sense. And many would people would in fact, like you said, so strings attached whatsoever. Now it more seems like a quick thing to judge since many people do look down on desperation for it.
"Mmhmm. Also I wasn't trying to knock down your reasoning, I know many people have different views and beliefs on various topics. I've talk to many people in private about this topic and it's nice that some turn off their 'how I was raised' or 'how society views it' impressions and open their minds a bit to the whole topic. I'm not asking or demanding anyone else too nor am I trying to debate and argue my points with anyone, there's always going to be people who are hardcore about their own reasons."

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Well, what I can say is you have some very valid points there. I personally just never really saw what the point of it was if someone has a girlfriend, a boyfriend, or whoever around them to actually interact with. But probably because I never really needed it, for about most of the reasons you've posted. And the Role play part I can understand, even though I've never really done that during one, that's also a good point. But I find the first two, but mainly the first one is more negative than positive. Desperation isn't exactly considered something good, depending on the situation of course. And boredom, why not just go outside instead of cyber? Its not that hard.
"You're right, it's not and I don't think I was trying to make light of the topic, but some people just are desperate for that type of interaction, about the same as anyone looking at porn or other erotic material would. Tired and true concept of 'getting out' and 'doing something' can be heavily applied to many things outside the topic at hand, but for each reason there is a compromise. Maybe someone likes the human interaction (as I've stated) without the strings attached. Going out and having real sex is great (I know) but also comes with consequences. I don't think it is right to look down on someone for having such a hobby or lifestyle. It's a very 'on the fence' topic for me, maybe because I was personally involved with the topic at hand in the past (I'm quiet older than your average Gaian) but at the time and even now, the whole subject doesn't seem to be that horrible, it gets just as much negativity against it as any other controversial subject."


Well, that's true, I admit. My view on the matter is probably just because of how I was raised though I'd think I would have had my own views on it by now since I'm over past the time of really living with family still. And also the human interaction part, does make sense. And many would people would in fact, like you said, no strings attached whatsoever. Now it more seems like a quick thing to judge since many people do look down on desperation for it.
"Mmhmm. Also I wasn't trying to knock down your reasoning, I know many people have different views and beliefs on various topics. I've talk to many people in private about this topic and it's nice that some turn off their 'how I was raised' or 'how society views it' impressions and open their minds a bit to the whole topic. I'm not asking or demanding anyone else too nor am I trying to debate and argue my points with anyone, there's always going to be people who are hardcore about their own reasons."


Oh no, I only meant that in a topic, or discussion like this, its good to have an open mind to try and understand their point of view. And would be more than willing to keep one on an explanation on this. Just that my views based on how the subject were brought onto me sometimes get in the way for a more open mindedness on it. Always willing to know more on all point of views, because its important to know more than one side of it.
I'd rather not get too deep into this subject since my RP days have been over for quite some time.
Still, cybering was more or less equal parts of horniness, wanting to write, social interaction (albeit sexual), and fantasizing for me when I used to do it.

That said, whether you enjoy it or not, agree with it or not, making cybersex to be some sort of horrible, disgusting thing is just asinine. You can't reasonably consider it to be bad without also stating many other forms of indirect sexual nature to be just as immature and repulsive. Suggestive dance (particularly just shaking your a** around), sexting, dirty talk, the bar scene as a whole, and even casual flirting would all have to be bundled into the same position as cybering.

One of the most interesting things I find about Gaia itself is that cybering is against the ToS. While I can completely understand this (from a legal perspective), Gaia turns around and provides plenty of VERY suggestive avatar items, profile themes, characters, and their joke of a comic. Take a quick look at some of the monthly collectibles and it's not hard to find at least a few that only leave a tiny bit to the imagination of an avatar.

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I find the entire notion of cybering to be incredibly awkward. gonk

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I find the entire notion of cybering to be incredibly awkward. gonk
I've had to stop because of the language my opposites would use sometimes. I'd just be laughing too hard at the outrageous metaphors ("honeypot"? really?), or else I'd get frustrated at the lack of ACTUAL SEX because he'd go on and on about how much his character was in love with mine.

YES. I KNOW THEY'RE IN LOVE. THEY'RE HAPPILY MARRIED. GET ON WITH THE ******** ALREADY.

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One of the most interesting things I find about Gaia itself is that cybering is against the ToS. While I can completely understand this (from a legal perspective), Gaia turns around and provides plenty of VERY suggestive avatar items, profile themes, characters, and their joke of a comic. Take a quick look at some of the monthly collectibles and it's not hard to find at least a few that only leave a tiny bit to the imagination of an avatar.
Well, there's a difference between toeing the line, and running screaming gleefully over said line at a full sprint xp

Back in the old days the front page even used to link to hentai websites. lol

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Back in the old days the front page even used to link to hentai websites.
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