I don't approve of homosexuality and I'm not a homophobic

[The Legendary Guest]

laffett

Distorted_Rage

Oh crap this is going to end in a shitstorm.

I was raised and taught a certain way and believe a man should be with another women.

I do not hate people because they're homosexual
I am 100% positive about my own sexuality
I have an opinion that I have every right to express due to the fact that it is based on my own understanding, upbringing, and it is not a hate speech.
It is foolish to think someone is a bigot or hasn't embraced their sexuality because they think this
way.
Saying that I don't have the right to say such a thing is more oppressive then the gay community goes through. Society (at least in the US) will accept homosexuality and will make other think the same.

*takes a deep breath*

Lets ******** do this.

yeah you are fine man.
I was raised the same way and it can honestly be taken a step further.
and anyone is offended they can go ******** themselves.


I am actually homophobic, the word Phobic doesnt imply hate, it implies fear or even discomfort.
I am homophobic meaning homosexuals make me uncomfortable, I am straight and there is not a damned thing wrong with that. and as me being straight would imply I am not interested in men. now I also have a very strict sense of morals. I do not even look at women with lust in my heart. to me its wrong to even think dirty thoughts. so having some c**k sucker drooling at me in a homosexual frenzy freaks me the ******** out. and it would freak me out almost as much as if it was a woman. only the women I like are not like that and every homo I met is EXACTLY like that, in your face gay. so hence I have a justified reason to be homophobic, and it has nothing to do with hate or intolerance

You do realize that thinking that anybody is drooling over you in any type of frenzy without them actually coming out and stating "I am currently drooling over you in a frenzy" is thinking a dirty thought, don't you? You have a justified reason to consider yourself a liar or a hypocrite now as well, because your own post demonstrates you as such. NOBODY looks at everybody that it is possible for them to be attracted to with lust (and it's not in your heart, your heart pumps blood) so you're nothing special. lol

[village midget]

Distorted_Rage

Let's get something "straight" :




and to be clear...

"prej·u·dice
ˈprejədəs/
noun

preconceived opinion that is not based on reason or actual experience."



Faith/religion is not what is meant by reason.

[village midget]

I AM R U

The Legendary Guest

Bogotanian

(In response to the OP thread title)

A guess to the summation of responses in this thread:

"Yes you are! Yes you are!" finger pointing.

That should be utterly unsurprising to you, Rolito. People are not mistaken for calling a spade a spade.

I am glad to say that I have never seen a spade. It is obvious that our social spheres have been widely different.

heart heart heart heart

[A Mythic Angel]

CuAnnan

laffett

so having some c**k sucker drooling at me in a homosexual frenzy freaks me the ******** out.

You have absolutely nothing to worry about on that regard.
And that you are worried about it is actually something you should address. Because if you were comfortable with your sexuality, the sexualities of others wouldn't bother you

He's showing typical signs of a text-book closet case.
It likely freaks him out because his own sexuality isn't as straight-forward as he thinks it is.
Something in him likely stirs when he talks to, or sees these gay men, and he doesn't understand it. It goes directly against his image that homosexuality is wrong.
Rather than trying to understand his own urges, he lashes out at those who are willing to express themselves.

For people like this, it's a defense mechanism. They figure, "Oh, I can't possibly be gay, I hate dem fags," while deep inside his loans are stirring. This type of person views homosexuality as abhorrent and does everything he can to deny the real him, because he's been trained to believe that anything not hetero is evil and sinful. He becomes incredibly uncomfortable around gay men because they turn him on. It's much easier for these people to hate than it is for them to accept themselves, because their true self is a mockery of everything they've been taught is right.

He even admits the thought of "Some c**k sucker drooling over him freaks him out." If he was truly comfortable with his own sexuality, this would be a non-issue. It freaks him out because somewhere, deep down, he has those same tendencies and urges.

laffett, the truth will set you free, and you'll be so much happier when you come to accept who you really are. I went through this myself when I was younger, and it can be incredibly scary, because you start to realize that it's not them you hate, but yourself for living this lie. You want to make them out to be monsters to validate yourself, but all you're doing is hurting yourself.

[Lucky~9~Lives]

A Mythic Angel

He even admits the thought of "Some c**k sucker drooling over him freaks him out." If he was truly comfortable with his own sexuality, this would be a non-issue. It freaks him out because somewhere, deep down, he has those same tendencies and urges.

The tendency to drool over himself?

[HMS Thunder Child]

I really don't like people saying that the most virulent homophobes are actually gay because that allows straight people to convince themselves that homophobia is actually a gay problem instead of a straight one. Not a fan of that at all.

[A Mythic Angel]

Lucky~9~Lives

A Mythic Angel

He even admits the thought of "Some c**k sucker drooling over him freaks him out." If he was truly comfortable with his own sexuality, this would be a non-issue. It freaks him out because somewhere, deep down, he has those same tendencies and urges.

The tendency to drool over himself?

Not himself, but these other men who "freak" him out.

[Lucky~9~Lives]

A Mythic Angel

Lucky~9~Lives

A Mythic Angel

He even admits the thought of "Some c**k sucker drooling over him freaks him out." If he was truly comfortable with his own sexuality, this would be a non-issue. It freaks him out because somewhere, deep down, he has those same tendencies and urges.

The tendency to drool over himself?

Not himself, but these other men who "freak" him out.

Do people who are freaked out by the thought of being drooled over by cannibals have, somewhere, deep down, the tendency and urge to drool over cannibals?

[A Mythic Angel]

Lucky~9~Lives

A Mythic Angel

Lucky~9~Lives

A Mythic Angel

He even admits the thought of "Some c**k sucker drooling over him freaks him out." If he was truly comfortable with his own sexuality, this would be a non-issue. It freaks him out because somewhere, deep down, he has those same tendencies and urges.

The tendency to drool over himself?

Not himself, but these other men who "freak" him out.

Do people who are freaked out by the thought of being drooled over by cannibals have, somewhere, deep down, the tendency and urge to drool over cannibals?

false equivalency.
******** and eating are not the same thing

[Chahklet]

HMS Thunder Child

I really don't like people saying that the most virulent homophobes are actually gay because that allows straight people to convince themselves that homophobia is actually a gay problem instead of a straight one. Not a fan of that at all.

I agree even though I have seen self hating gays. But I think the point is to pick on them with the thing they hate most. Personally, I wouldn't do it. I'm just gonna start comparing them to the KKK since that seems to get the best response.

[Lucky~9~Lives]

A Mythic Angel

Lucky~9~Lives

A Mythic Angel

Lucky~9~Lives

A Mythic Angel

He even admits the thought of "Some c**k sucker drooling over him freaks him out." If he was truly comfortable with his own sexuality, this would be a non-issue. It freaks him out because somewhere, deep down, he has those same tendencies and urges.

The tendency to drool over himself?

Not himself, but these other men who "freak" him out.

Do people who are freaked out by the thought of being drooled over by cannibals have, somewhere, deep down, the tendency and urge to drool over cannibals?

false equivalency.
******** and eating are not the same thing

Do people who are freaked out by the thought of being drooled over by c**k sucking cannibals have, somewhere, deep down, the tendency and urge to drool over c**k sucking cannibals?

[A Mythic Angel]

Lucky~9~Lives

A Mythic Angel

Lucky~9~Lives

A Mythic Angel

Lucky~9~Lives

A Mythic Angel

He even admits the thought of "Some c**k sucker drooling over him freaks him out." If he was truly comfortable with his own sexuality, this would be a non-issue. It freaks him out because somewhere, deep down, he has those same tendencies and urges.

The tendency to drool over himself?

Not himself, but these other men who "freak" him out.

Do people who are freaked out by the thought of being drooled over by cannibals have, somewhere, deep down, the tendency and urge to drool over cannibals?

false equivalency.
******** and eating are not the same thing

Do people who are freaked out by the thought of being drooled over by c**k sucking cannibals have, somewhere, deep down, the tendency and urge to drool over c**k sucking cannibals?

You're still maintaining the false equivalency. Murdering and eating someone =/= sexual preference.

[Lucky~9~Lives]

A Mythic Angel

Lucky~9~Lives

A Mythic Angel

Lucky~9~Lives

A Mythic Angel

Not himself, but these other men who "freak" him out.

Do people who are freaked out by the thought of being drooled over by cannibals have, somewhere, deep down, the tendency and urge to drool over cannibals?

false equivalency.
******** and eating are not the same thing

Do people who are freaked out by the thought of being drooled over by c**k sucking cannibals have, somewhere, deep down, the tendency and urge to drool over c**k sucking cannibals?

You're still maintaining the false equivalency. Murdering and eating someone =/= sexual preference.

I'm pretty sure it can be.

[I AM R U]

A Mythic Angel

CuAnnan

laffett

so having some c**k sucker drooling at me in a homosexual frenzy freaks me the ******** out.

You have absolutely nothing to worry about on that regard.
And that you are worried about it is actually something you should address. Because if you were comfortable with your sexuality, the sexualities of others wouldn't bother you

He's showing typical signs of a text-book closet case.
It likely freaks him out because his own sexuality isn't as straight-forward as he thinks it is.
Something in him likely stirs when he talks to, or sees these gay men, and he doesn't understand it. It goes directly against his image that homosexuality is wrong.
Rather than trying to understand his own urges, he lashes out at those who are willing to express themselves.

For people like this, it's a defense mechanism. They figure, "Oh, I can't possibly be gay, I hate dem fags," while deep inside his loans are stirring. This type of person views homosexuality as abhorrent and does everything he can to deny the real him, because he's been trained to believe that anything not hetero is evil and sinful. He becomes incredibly uncomfortable around gay men because they turn him on. It's much easier for these people to hate than it is for them to accept themselves, because their true self is a mockery of everything they've been taught is right.

He even admits the thought of "Some c**k sucker drooling over him freaks him out." If he was truly comfortable with his own sexuality, this would be a non-issue. It freaks him out because somewhere, deep down, he has those same tendencies and urges.

laffett, the truth will set you free, and you'll be so much happier when you come to accept who you really are. I went through this myself when I was younger, and it can be incredibly scary, because you start to realize that it's not them you hate, but yourself for living this lie. You want to make them out to be monsters to validate yourself, but all you're doing is hurting yourself.

I'm sorry, but can you please not accuse someone who is homophobic of being a closeted gay? Whether they are or not is firstly none of your business, and your claim does nothing more than be mildly insulting in the same way that gay people are told they're mistaken about their sexuality (its just a phase, you see!).

Obviously I am not impressed with laffett's opinion, but instead of addressing it, you instead make this the fault of some, highly confused, self-hating gay man - which is likely not only incorrect, it avoids addressing the fact that straight (mostly male) bigots have created a stereotype of gay men as sexual predators seeking straight men to sexually assault, under the guise of 'he was really gay, he actually enjoyed it, he's just denying it!'

Chahklet

HMS Thunder Child

I really don't like people saying that the most virulent homophobes are actually gay because that allows straight people to convince themselves that homophobia is actually a gay problem instead of a straight one. Not a fan of that at all.

I agree even though I have seen self hating gays. But I think the point is to pick on them with the thing they hate most. Personally, I wouldn't do it. I'm just gonna start comparing them to the KKK since that seems to get the best response.

Self-hatred amongst gays is a symptom of homophobia, nothing more :/

[I AM R U]

Lucky~9~Lives

A Mythic Angel

Lucky~9~Lives

A Mythic Angel

Lucky~9~Lives

A Mythic Angel

Not himself, but these other men who "freak" him out.

Do people who are freaked out by the thought of being drooled over by cannibals have, somewhere, deep down, the tendency and urge to drool over cannibals?

false equivalency.
******** and eating are not the same thing

Do people who are freaked out by the thought of being drooled over by c**k sucking cannibals have, somewhere, deep down, the tendency and urge to drool over c**k sucking cannibals?

You're still maintaining the false equivalency. Murdering and eating someone =/= sexual preference.

I'm pretty sure it can be.

No, wouldn't it be a kink?