MarigoldMari
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- Posted: Tue, 06 Jan 2015 00:18:17 +0000
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MarigoldMari
Unfortunately as far as surgeries, meds, and therapists go, I have no advice on that really or even know that much about the process to help you find some type of way to get it going. And I'm not good at advice really, (honestly this is kind of a dumb reply and I apologize for that in advanced) but I just wanted you to know that personally coming from some one head banging confused and irritated about their gender, been frequently abused and ignored by my peers about such "taboo" topics, and on and off suicidal thoughts since as early as I can remember, I am here if you need someone to talk to. I know, heard that one before. As have I. But honestly I'm not here to tell you how I "know how you feel" because I don't. I am not you nor can I say anything about your life as if I do know. But you need someone to pm when you're feeling angry, or pretend I am someone else and you just want to write the biggest hate letter ever without a response please do not hesitate to do so. A friend use to help me out this way. I would write to her as if she were my journal, I did not want a response because I didn't want advice, just to get my voice heard. So knowing my words counted some where and someone was reading them, made me feel a bit better at the same time feeling like I was writing alone. If that makes any sense. As for whatever small type of advice, (well, more like suggestions or questions ) is there any way you could escape your stalker? Will the police.other authority, or any family member or anyone could or would do anything to help the situation? There has got to be some way for you to escape him, or send him away. Also, are you yourself happy with where you are? Someone I once knew ended up moving to a completely different state to start off new, she had a really hard time living in Texas and just needed to go somewhere where she felt like she didn't have to pretend (mtf). I am not a regular in this thread I actually just discovered it, hoping to find some type of well, not answers I guess, but some type of feeling of...for lack of a better word.."okayness". Anyways, sorry about this rabble. Like I said, if you need someone to listen or whatever, count me in.
As for my abuser, police will not do something unless an attack has already been made, and in some cases unless there has been two or three attacks. That's stalker law. Even if we've had a history of abuse. There's no preventative law. My family won't help me because my abuser is my family, my older brother. My parents are on his side, and if I did call the police on him (as I have in the past) they would be very upset. It is important to me to have a family, so I don't know what to do about it. I've lost them before. I have gone into a domestic violence shelter to hide from him before, though, so if I really feel threatened (like if he says he's coming) I'll go to the same domestic violence shelter for the duration of his threats. Its about all I can do. I just remembered I can do that, so thanks for spurring that thought.
I hope you become a regular of this thread. We need good people here. I am a regular (been here for years), so I can vouch that this a very good place. You'll make like-minded friends here. We'll help you out as much as we can. I will, too.
