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- Posted: Sun, 14 Oct 2012 08:17:08 +0000
MemoriesOfGreen
Hi, you can call me MoG. I've been a self-harmer since 2006. It's been an off-and-on struggle. I just never really learned to cope well with acknowledging my feelings or sharing when I'm in serious pain. I had a mental breakdown after my parents divorce because of the stress surrounding it. I just remember burning out and feeling like I could hardly get out of bed on the morning I first hurt myself. To make a long story short, I was in so much emotional pain that the only thing I kept thinking was that I'd rather someone break both my legs than to feel that depressed. Stupid me, I thought that cutting would release endorphins or something. After that I just relied on physical pain to help me with my anger and my deep depression.
Fortunately, I found a good counselor who is helping me learn better techniques to deal with my anxiety and depression. So far it's helping, but I still get the urge to hurt myself so I'd say I'm a work in progress.
Fortunately, I found a good counselor who is helping me learn better techniques to deal with my anxiety and depression. So far it's helping, but I still get the urge to hurt myself so I'd say I'm a work in progress.
Hi MoG. It's great that you found a good counselor who's helping you. You are NOT stupid because you were cutting. You did it because you are deeply hurt inside & can't let go of the pain within. Relying on physical pain isn't good either if it means hurting yourself more. You can rely on yourself. Replace negative thinking into realistic thinking. Talk to a close friend about how you feel or express yourself by writing it into a journal or personal diary. If you're angry or depressed, take a moment to calm yourself & distract yourself from the feeling. You can listen to music or read a book. You can control it, just don't let it control you.