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- Posted: Fri, 16 Mar 2012 00:31:50 +0000
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So were supposed to be going to Mexico in December. I dont want to go. Were going with his parents, who are paying, and I will feel guilty forever. It will mean missing a weekend with Aden, taking time off work, and being inevitably bored. I dont travel and I have never wanted to go to Mexico. I just dont want to go.
Tyler said that hes going to make it a vacation Ill never forget...and said I HAVE to go, cause there are plans.
What would you ladies think if you were me?
Tyler said that hes going to make it a vacation Ill never forget...and said I HAVE to go, cause there are plans.
What would you ladies think if you were me?
Lurker, not a regular, but -- you can probably work out a visitation swap with Aden's dad, where you get a couple of days he normally gets and he gets that vacation time.
Even if you don't have any desire to go to Mexico, there's probably ways to make it not totally suck. What are some activities you enjoy doing in your free time? Can you schedule some of those in Mexico? There are lots of beaches in Mexico, so maybe you can just chill out and read a book on the beach.
Clearly, it's really important to Tyler, so I'd try and find a way of making it work. (I'm hesitant about reading anything into his insistence.)