Lost Sylvia
this is mainly a question for other MtFs but could still work for FtMs but, i was curious if any one else had a big hang up about wanting to get their voice changed before they really got into transitioning? like it feels like everytime i get in the most comfortable mindeset, and even dress abit more feminine, as soon as say something i go from semi-ugly real girl to fugly crossdresser and i hate that!!
Edit:: the last sentence didn't come out the way i wanted it...
Edit Dos:: Btw for all you FtMs out there, if your worried you don't really look guyish in jeans, get a pair that are slightly wider at the waist then your actual waist size and wear a belt, pretty much get a zipper boner 87% of the time.. somthing i hate but you guys might like better..
oh god i hate hate HATEEE how my voice gives me away, like, to the point where if im not having a good "voice day" (yeah it seems that it comes and goes, i am pre-everything) then i'll just stop talking and resort to communicating in nods and stuff, which makes me feel like a cartoon.
at the moment i think im a 60/40 in terms of passing (not in my favor...)
i know theres a thing for FTMs to do to deepen the voice but i have no idea about MTFs!! Good luck, and if all else fails just do what i do and dont talk unless you need to!