Sexy Sirens Song
yeah everyone wants me to break up with him. even my parents AND his parents said im better off being a single mother and they would help.
Idk im too nice i guess. I really cant stand him but i cant stand the thought of taking his child away from him and his baby not having him around for a dad. but i know he would be a terrible dad since he's not very responsible and we fight none stop. he's a jerk and an a*****e but i just stick around :/
Only YOU can make you happy, and if you'r not happy, your baby is not going to be happy. If his parents think you're better off then I would listen to them and the rest of your support group, they are here for you and while we may not all think it now, seeing things from the outside make it easier for them to judge and see what's best for you. Putting that sort of stress on your mind and body is not a good thing, it's bad.
He could still see your child if he wishes, but if a guy is telling you flat out you're not attractive to him, honey - I really hate to say this but he's probably never going to think you are again. Especially if you've sent him pictures of your girlies.
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You have to make the right choice not only for you but for your child. The tough questions of : do you want your baby to look up to a man like that? Do you want your child to get some of his antics and sayings and mannerisms? Do you want to be a woman who ends up taking care of her child and her man when you both should be taking care of your baby? It's not fair to you and you DO deserve better. There are other men out there who would love to be a daddy figure for your little one. Your support group helps you out.
I was raised by grandparents, aunts and uncles and my mom. There were a few good guys in my mom's life and I learned different things and I respect those guys. My real dad wasn't around but his family was and still is and that's all that matter is that there was family there looking out for everyone.
You don't need a guy who treats you like that, how is he going to treat your kiddo?