yes i am talking about robertson anyway
In interpersonal communication class yesterday, the chapter is on listening but this think with listening is directly related to relationships one possible connection is when people want "unconditional love" which can be understood in many different ways, but i like the way the professor described it someone listening, who does not necessarily want something in return
they will not try to solve every problem you complain about when people do that it makes you feel inferior and lowers self esteem
but when they are willing to take their own time and just listen to you without interrupting and actually caring it feels good, it is an extreme self esteem boost
this wanting to be listened to, and the relationship that results can be considered unconditional love, no conditions set, nothing set to trade, just two people enjoying each other's company
this high caused me to want to be as close to him as possible but it confused me when my sister did not support me being with him when it seemed so good for me she made me mad at her that is why i finally broke her control he helped me break it
I blamed her for making me break up with him but it is not her fault it was my decision to make
It is not that elaine was trying to take something i loved she just did not understand but now she has forced herself to understand she is no longer as controlling
now she has changed but i feel i may not be able to change it is not fair for me to make her be more conscious of feelings but then to be a hypocrite and not give her the same thought sometimes i wonder if i really am just a worthless person
but...
i dont know why i keep complaining about my sister the point of this was to express why i think it was a good thing to have met him and why i do not see it as being wrong that i still hang out with him this entry is more for me than anyone else i just have trouble understanding why things happen the way they do
dang i can not get this song out of my head: Papa Roach-Forever
Fay Da Way · Wed Oct 22, 2008 @ 02:35pm · 0 Comments |