What's your deal breaker? (everyone)

[Leowna]

Jahosefat

Lupina Blackwing

Jahosefat

Lupina Blackwing

Jahosefat

you're not a guy you don't get it. Guys don't want their girlfriend enjoying themselves with any other guy, it's a selfish compulsion. Also you can never really trust anybody, do you know how many people think they'll never cheat and do? Or how many cheat and never admit it?

Please pay attention to the part I have bolded for you and realize how stupid and selfish you sound. kthnxbai

geez your clever it's kind of what I said my self. kthnxbai? grow up

Yet you try to justify it. Can't you just admit to your silliness?
Nah, I dun wanna grow up.

kayy you win, you're like the 6th person to quote me didn't realise I was so controversial

Well, were you not basically saying, "I know this is selfish and it shows an insecurity on my part, but she doesn't deserve to be trusted!"
Or was I just hearing things.

[GuardianAngel122]

If she didnt like porn / didnt like it if I watched porn.

[No Ur A Towel]

If she can't stand up for her own beliefs without giving in to peer pressure, smoking, cheating, ignorance, and vanity.
I don't care if she's not able to break down the effects of gravity on time, but I would like her to understand basic intellectual topics. Also, I have always preferred girls that didn't spend ample amounts of time with make-up. If someone can't love how you look without it, then you shouldn't waste your time with them. Cheating and smoking are self explanatory.

[Jahosefat]

Lupina Blackwing

Jahosefat

Lupina Blackwing

Jahosefat

Lupina Blackwing

Jahosefat

you're not a guy you don't get it. Guys don't want their girlfriend enjoying themselves with any other guy, it's a selfish compulsion. Also you can never really trust anybody, do you know how many people think they'll never cheat and do? Or how many cheat and never admit it?

Please pay attention to the part I have bolded for you and realize how stupid and selfish you sound. kthnxbai

geez your clever it's kind of what I said my self. kthnxbai? grow up

Yet you try to justify it. Can't you just admit to your silliness?
Nah, I dun wanna grow up.

kayy you win, you're like the 6th person to quote me didn't realise I was so controversial

Well, were you not basically saying, "I know this is selfish and it shows an insecurity on my part, but she doesn't deserve to be trusted!"
Or was I just hearing things.

the term would be misinterpreting this because you weren't "hearing" anything from me. Also yes I was saying it was selfish that's what a selfish compulsion refers to. You're like a parrot, since you took it upon yourself to read my posts, why don't you read the rest of them with the conversations I had with people prior to you and it'll answer all your questions about me.

[DustQueen]

Drugs, Lying, Cheating, Making me feel Cheap, being rude in public, Being on sexual overdrive, having no goals, being a jerk, being a cliche male stereotype, belittling me or things I care about, Lack of normal hygiene, having a narrow/sexist view of women or making jokes about it, and I'm sure a few other things that SHOULD be obvious.

[Leowna]

Jahosefat

Lupina Blackwing

Jahosefat

Lupina Blackwing

Jahosefat

geez your clever it's kind of what I said my self. kthnxbai? grow up

Yet you try to justify it. Can't you just admit to your silliness?
Nah, I dun wanna grow up.

kayy you win, you're like the 6th person to quote me didn't realise I was so controversial

Well, were you not basically saying, "I know this is selfish and it shows an insecurity on my part, but she doesn't deserve to be trusted!"
Or was I just hearing things.

the term would be misinterpreting this because you weren't "hearing" anything from me. Also yes I was saying it was selfish that's what a selfish compulsion refers to. You're like a parrot, since you took it upon yourself to read my posts, why don't you read the rest of them with the conversations I had with people prior to you and it'll answer all your questions about me.

Wow, seriously? It's called figurative language, you dolt. Of course I'm not literally hearing you.

I did read all the posts. And you do nothing but try to justify your stance even after being told how selfish it is.
"Oh, people cheat"
Yeah, but is that an excuse to be an insecure jackass?
No, no it is not.

[Jahosefat]

Lupina Blackwing

Jahosefat

Lupina Blackwing

Jahosefat

Lupina Blackwing

Jahosefat

geez your clever it's kind of what I said my self. kthnxbai? grow up

Yet you try to justify it. Can't you just admit to your silliness?
Nah, I dun wanna grow up.

kayy you win, you're like the 6th person to quote me didn't realise I was so controversial

Well, were you not basically saying, "I know this is selfish and it shows an insecurity on my part, but she doesn't deserve to be trusted!"
Or was I just hearing things.

the term would be misinterpreting this because you weren't "hearing" anything from me. Also yes I was saying it was selfish that's what a selfish compulsion refers to. You're like a parrot, since you took it upon yourself to read my posts, why don't you read the rest of them with the conversations I had with people prior to you and it'll answer all your questions about me.

Wow, seriously? It's called figurative language, you dolt. Of course I'm not literally hearing you.

I did read all the posts. And you do nothing but try to justify your stance even after being told how selfish it is.
"Oh, people cheat"
Yeah, but is that an excuse to be an insecure jackass?
No, no it is not.

hyprocrite much? here you are trying to impose your opinion on me. If someone tells you something you're supposed to conform to it right? yea, exactly.

[Leowna]

Jahosefat

Lupina Blackwing

Jahosefat

Lupina Blackwing

Jahosefat

kayy you win, you're like the 6th person to quote me didn't realise I was so controversial

Well, were you not basically saying, "I know this is selfish and it shows an insecurity on my part, but she doesn't deserve to be trusted!"
Or was I just hearing things.

the term would be misinterpreting this because you weren't "hearing" anything from me. Also yes I was saying it was selfish that's what a selfish compulsion refers to. You're like a parrot, since you took it upon yourself to read my posts, why don't you read the rest of them with the conversations I had with people prior to you and it'll answer all your questions about me.

Wow, seriously? It's called figurative language, you dolt. Of course I'm not literally hearing you.

I did read all the posts. And you do nothing but try to justify your stance even after being told how selfish it is.
"Oh, people cheat"
Yeah, but is that an excuse to be an insecure jackass?
No, no it is not.

hyprocrite much? here you are trying to impose your opinion on me. If someone tells you something you're supposed to conform to it right? yea, exactly.

hey, I'm not the one who is bothered by the fact that my hypothetical partner is hanging out with too many people of the opposite gender. rolleyes

Never said you had to conform, but good luck finding a girl who would be willing to put up with that. Js.

[Jahosefat]

Lupina Blackwing

Jahosefat

Lupina Blackwing

Jahosefat

Lupina Blackwing

Jahosefat

kayy you win, you're like the 6th person to quote me didn't realise I was so controversial

Well, were you not basically saying, "I know this is selfish and it shows an insecurity on my part, but she doesn't deserve to be trusted!"
Or was I just hearing things.

the term would be misinterpreting this because you weren't "hearing" anything from me. Also yes I was saying it was selfish that's what a selfish compulsion refers to. You're like a parrot, since you took it upon yourself to read my posts, why don't you read the rest of them with the conversations I had with people prior to you and it'll answer all your questions about me.

Wow, seriously? It's called figurative language, you dolt. Of course I'm not literally hearing you.

I did read all the posts. And you do nothing but try to justify your stance even after being told how selfish it is.
"Oh, people cheat"
Yeah, but is that an excuse to be an insecure jackass?
No, no it is not.

hyprocrite much? here you are trying to impose your opinion on me. If someone tells you something you're supposed to conform to it right? yea, exactly.

hey, I'm not the one who is bothered by the fact that my hypothetical partner is hanging out with too many people of the opposite gender. rolleyes

Never said you had to conform, but good luck finding a girl who would be willing to put up with that. Js.

I was just answering the question, and I bet you get laid plenty smile . I have expressed that to a girl before and she toned it down, same as I. Once you're in a relationship you have to be considerate and make some sacrifices.

[Leowna]

Jahosefat

Lupina Blackwing

Jahosefat

Lupina Blackwing

Jahosefat

the term would be misinterpreting this because you weren't "hearing" anything from me. Also yes I was saying it was selfish that's what a selfish compulsion refers to. You're like a parrot, since you took it upon yourself to read my posts, why don't you read the rest of them with the conversations I had with people prior to you and it'll answer all your questions about me.

Wow, seriously? It's called figurative language, you dolt. Of course I'm not literally hearing you.

I did read all the posts. And you do nothing but try to justify your stance even after being told how selfish it is.
"Oh, people cheat"
Yeah, but is that an excuse to be an insecure jackass?
No, no it is not.

hyprocrite much? here you are trying to impose your opinion on me. If someone tells you something you're supposed to conform to it right? yea, exactly.

hey, I'm not the one who is bothered by the fact that my hypothetical partner is hanging out with too many people of the opposite gender. rolleyes

Never said you had to conform, but good luck finding a girl who would be willing to put up with that. Js.

I was just answering the question, and I bet you get laid plenty smile . I have expressed that to a girl before and she toned it down, same as I. Once you're in a relationship you have to be considerate and make some sacrifices.

But her friends were probably there before you. Why should you be prioritized all of a sudden? You're not the center of her life, you know. At least, you shouldn't be. And she shouldn't be the center of your life either. Otherwise it just becomes unhealthy.

Again, this is just an opinion. I should probably say that because i tend to say things as if they are fact.

[intothesunsetdearest]

MeltingOrgasms

intothesunsetdearest

bad sex.. i just can't deal with that if there;s no chance of improvement.. and someone who doesn't like to speculate.

I understand but don't give up so easily next time, everyone learns differently. biggrin

True.. 3 years is a long time, but i went about it the wrong way.
got what i deserved.

[Ven Loraine]

Bad hygiene.

If someone looks and smells like s**t, I won't touch them. talk2hand

[Desideraht]

What is wrong with him asking her to pick him up? I mean guys are expected to pick girls up. I'm not a girl so I can't say what I'd do if I was a girl but I am gay and if I was the only person with a car, I would be picking him up and driving us around.

I would break up with a person over:
- Lies/deception/dishonesty/hiding things from me
- Cheating/fraternizing with others
- Violence/abuse
- Addiction
- Apathy/laziness
- Immaturity
- Stagnation (i.e. doing nothing with their life, no goals/ambition)
- Unaddressed illness (physical or mental)
- A drastic change in personality
- Poor hygiene
- Lack of independence/easily influenced by others
- Poor work ethic/irresponsible
- Converted to theism/a religion (I need an atheistic partner)
- Ignoring/avoiding me
- Not giving equal effort into the relationship
- Lack of compassion/empathy
- Not listening/communicating
- Irresponsible with money
- Not wanting to get married
- Not wanting to have kids and/or inability to accept that we may not be able to produce children*

(*Basically I want kids, but might not always. I also might not be able to conceive. My partner needs to be open to it but not have their heart too set on it either.)

There's probably more but yeah, that covers most of it.
Yeah my BF has to meet some pretty high standards, lol.

[Jet Lagged]

OP, your friend seems a little immature about the car thing. Unless he's using her for it, which makes her actions understandable.
Hm so, my own deal breakers?
Bad hygiene, homophobic, sexist, close-minded, lack of sympathy, uses recreational drugs (infrequent smoking is okay), insensitive and religious bigotism.

[Winter June]

Pseudo-Onkelos

She may as well leave him if the person she supposedly loves is a hassle for her.

This. If she thought he was the lazy-leeching type might as well move on.

My main deal breaker is if they're:
- Too emotional/illogical
- Dramatic/two-faced/manipulative
- Whiny/insecure