SinfulGuillotine
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- Posted: Sun, 26 Jan 2014 15:01:27 +0000
Corinthian_Vagabond
SinfulGuillotine
Well, see, my defence mechanism is not to take anything seriously. It's a lot more fun to laugh about something than it is to cry about it, so I much prefer to think of my misfortunes as some sort of cosmic punchline. But it's also what I do to avoid really dealing with the problem, and to make it less obvious to others that I'm avoiding the problem. To some degree, I think it's been helpful. It allows me to talk about uncomfortable subjects while maintaining a safe emotional distance, but after a certain point, it does begin to hinder real healing.
Also, probably because of all that, I personally feel that absolutely no subject is off-limits to joke about. Not because I don't realise the gravity of "srs bsns" subjects, but just because a lot of things are easier to talk about and think about when you don't take them too seriously. I'm sure it can make me appear horrifically insensitive, though, especially if heard out of context by someone who doesn't know me.
Is it just mental health professionals and strangers you do this with? Or is it the same way with your closefriends/lovers?
(And I'm totally going to reply to your PMs, I haven't forgotten, it's just that every time I've sat down to do it, I've gotten distracted and wandered off.)