Long Distance Relationsips (LDR) Support Thread

[Golden Teaspoon]

CatchEmAllXD

Yeah true... I have a consellor but we can badly afford for me to see her once a month..

Any chance you could just go talk to a school counselor? When I was depressed, I talked to mine 2 times a week.

[Sophisticated Simplicity]

CatchEmAllXD

I'm sure there's also hotlines you could call, it's free 1-800, I'm just not sure what you have available where you live because I live in Canada and if you are in the US it'd probably not be very helpful. Most of the time, they also have websites and instant messaging that you can use, and from my experience with them in the past, they are pretty helpful people. Not professional therapists of course, but pretty good teen counselors nonetheless.

[Faye Nova]

Yeah I know it's something called Kid's Help Phone.

[kittyloveely]

Thank you. I will see about that although I have tried before and I have never used an 800 number that doesn't charge I always get in trouble. And on the Internet I can never find.one.

Sophisticated Simplicity

CatchEmAllXD

I'm sure there's also hotlines you could call, it's free 1-800, I'm just not sure what you have available where you live because I live in Canada and if you are in the US it'd probably not be very helpful. Most of the time, they also have websites and instant messaging that you can use, and from my experience with them in the past, they are pretty helpful people. Not professional therapists of course, but pretty good teen counselors nonetheless.

[Sophisticated Simplicity]

CatchEmAllXD

Thank you. I will see about that although I have tried before and I have never used an 800 number that doesn't charge I always get in trouble. And on the Internet I can never find.one.

Sophisticated Simplicity

CatchEmAllXD

I'm sure there's also hotlines you could call, it's free 1-800, I'm just not sure what you have available where you live because I live in Canada and if you are in the US it'd probably not be very helpful. Most of the time, they also have websites and instant messaging that you can use, and from my experience with them in the past, they are pretty helpful people. Not professional therapists of course, but pretty good teen counselors nonetheless.

As Faye said, I know Canada's is called Kids Help Phone. I KNOW I've come across the American equivalence before, I just can't remember what it's called right now. sweatdrop I'm very sure that their website is still open to anyone though, and they'd probably also have the information for hotlines and such for teens in the US.

[kittyloveely]

I did actually. But I had to cut classes and I'm already worried about my grades. Thanks for the advice though.

Golden Romance

CatchEmAllXD

Yeah true... I have a consellor but we can badly afford for me to see her once a month..

Any chance you could just go talk to a school counselor? When I was depressed, I talked to mine 2 times a week.

[kittyloveely]

Its alright thank you.

Sophisticated Simplicity

CatchEmAllXD

Thank you. I will see about that although I have tried before and I have never used an 800 number that doesn't charge I always get in trouble. And on the Internet I can never find.one.

Sophisticated Simplicity

CatchEmAllXD

I'm sure there's also hotlines you could call, it's free 1-800, I'm just not sure what you have available where you live because I live in Canada and if you are in the US it'd probably not be very helpful. Most of the time, they also have websites and instant messaging that you can use, and from my experience with them in the past, they are pretty helpful people. Not professional therapists of course, but pretty good teen counselors nonetheless.

As Faye said, I know Canada's is called Kids Help Phone. I KNOW I've come across the American equivalence before, I just can't remember what it's called right now. sweatdrop I'm very sure that their website is still open to anyone though, and they'd probably also have the information for hotlines and such for teens in the US.

[The_Manly_Succubus]

CatchEmAllXD

I love the cosplay of Ibuki I love street fighter. You should try chun-li or one of the tekken characters. And your very beautiful btw smile

The_Manly_Succubus

Sophisticated Simplicity

The_Manly_Succubus

Sophisticated Simplicity

The_Manly_Succubus

Hey guys, been a long time! What's been hanging in here?

It's been a while indeed! How are you? Doing amazing cosplays as usual, I see. razz

Ha ha ha! Thanks! I've actually busted out a TON of cosplays lately. @.@ And wedding planning, the usual, hah! We moved out to the swamp, which isnt so bad, I suppose.

That's awesome! Pictures?
And how's the wedding planning going? Have you decided on a date yet? I can't remember if you said that before. sweatdrop

I wouldn't have, we debated about it for awhile, lol. Originally we planned Feb of next year, but his family wants it moved to the summer, so they can go to the riverwalk in San Antonio. I keep saying it'll be way too hot for that, and besides, it's our damn wedding. They keep pushing though. We might move it, we have no idea.

As for pictures,


Lydia Deetz from Beetlejuice


Ibuki from Street Figther


Scarlet Witch from Xmen/Avengers


Seung Mina from Soul Calibur 3


Lyndis from Fire Emblem

*A* Thank you so much!

[The_Manly_Succubus]

CatchEmAllXD

Thank you... but my home life is such a crap hole I have nothing to live for. Both my parents have cancer. I'm going to die anyhow. I don't want to go through that freaking hell. I get abused all the time and were losing our house. I just cant...

Kaelan Mochrie

CatchEmAllXD

<snips message>
I tried to vomit suicide and almost succeeded. I used to say how stupid people were. But its not just because of him. He was literally all the fmaily or friend I had. But were broken. We were weeks away from him visiting again. We both cant do it.
God, thank you for giving him to me. But why?

I would like to say, I am thankful you didn't end your life. I don't know you, but I have certainly been in those positions where I felt life didn't matter anymore and attempted to end it. Personally, I am glad I didn't. Even though the future gave even more heart break, I was able to make a lot of new friends and for a time, new loves.

I wish I had an answer for you. I have asked the heavens that very question. Even recently with a relationship that ended. What could I have done differently to have kept her? Am I just that royally screwed up that I won't ever fine happiness?

I don't honestly know how to answer your question. To me, its a mystery. Just know, there are people out there that do care. It may not make sense and probably never will, but please don't give up on life or love.

Hey yo, no. There's always something to live for, you dork. I mean, I felt the same way, I really did. And I lived it out and ya know what happened? I'm marrying the most amazing man in the world, I have a good job and I have a hobby that I love. Things like what you're dealing with are temporary, and your life is forever. You can make it work!

[kittyloveely]

Lol thank you and Congrats

The_Manly_Succubus

CatchEmAllXD

Thank you... but my home life is such a crap hole I have nothing to live for. Both my parents have cancer. I'm going to die anyhow. I don't want to go through that freaking hell. I get abused all the time and were losing our house. I just cant...

Kaelan Mochrie

CatchEmAllXD

<snips message>
I tried to vomit suicide and almost succeeded. I used to say how stupid people were. But its not just because of him. He was literally all the fmaily or friend I had. But were broken. We were weeks away from him visiting again. We both cant do it.
God, thank you for giving him to me. But why?

I would like to say, I am thankful you didn't end your life. I don't know you, but I have certainly been in those positions where I felt life didn't matter anymore and attempted to end it. Personally, I am glad I didn't. Even though the future gave even more heart break, I was able to make a lot of new friends and for a time, new loves.

I wish I had an answer for you. I have asked the heavens that very question. Even recently with a relationship that ended. What could I have done differently to have kept her? Am I just that royally screwed up that I won't ever fine happiness?

I don't honestly know how to answer your question. To me, its a mystery. Just know, there are people out there that do care. It may not make sense and probably never will, but please don't give up on life or love.

Hey yo, no. There's always something to live for, you dork. I mean, I felt the same way, I really did. And I lived it out and ya know what happened? I'm marrying the most amazing man in the world, I have a good job and I have a hobby that I love. Things like what you're dealing with are temporary, and your life is forever. You can make it work!

[Sammirah]

CatchEmAllXD

Thank you. I will see about that although I have tried before and I have never used an 800 number that doesn't charge I always get in trouble. And on the Internet I can never find.one.

Sophisticated Simplicity

CatchEmAllXD

I'm sure there's also hotlines you could call, it's free 1-800, I'm just not sure what you have available where you live because I live in Canada and if you are in the US it'd probably not be very helpful. Most of the time, they also have websites and instant messaging that you can use, and from my experience with them in the past, they are pretty helpful people. Not professional therapists of course, but pretty good teen counselors nonetheless.

I'm just jumping in, but depending where you are there could be low-cost or free counselling available in your community. I would ask around and find out what's available for people who can't afford it.

[kittyloveely]

I just don't have parents that care so I could get in trouble but thank you.

Sammirah

CatchEmAllXD

Thank you. I will see about that although I have tried before and I have never used an 800 number that doesn't charge I always get in trouble. And on the Internet I can never find.one.

Sophisticated Simplicity

CatchEmAllXD

I'm sure there's also hotlines you could call, it's free 1-800, I'm just not sure what you have available where you live because I live in Canada and if you are in the US it'd probably not be very helpful. Most of the time, they also have websites and instant messaging that you can use, and from my experience with them in the past, they are pretty helpful people. Not professional therapists of course, but pretty good teen counselors nonetheless.

I'm just jumping in, but depending where you are there could be low-cost or free counselling available in your community. I would ask around and find out what's available for people who can't afford it.

[Shadowed Prayer]

I'm getting out of on LDR and going into another one.. But the next one should only be 2 years at most.

[PINKV0DKA]

They do work out. I met my fiancee (now) online in 2001 on a random message board I made he was a random visitor. I was 15 then. I am now 27 and we are getting married on June 30th of this year thats about 50 days left.

It takes a lot of patience, some people I know that cant even do online dating they would rather see the person face to face. It was quite an adventure.