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Nitroxwolf
I don't see anything selfish about saving something's life. If your gonna get an abortion just to duck out of the pain, let me just say this, whatever pain you'll feel from pregnancy, you'll feel over a span of decades in emotional pain. This is without saying the chances of an abortion not going well, and you losing your chance to conceive another child, so theres also that. No I won't be in her shoes, but try to look at it from the father's perspective, you see someone else deciding if your child lives or dies, how would feel if that happened to you. Never being able to see him or her grow up? And who said that I am trying to force a woman into having a child, no never, I'm just saying that both, the mother and the father will have emotional problems for a long time if that happens. An Abortion isn't something that you can just walk off, and no pregnancy isn't either, but still it would be better to think that you gave something a chance at life, than just killing something before it even saw day.
I'm not here to argue with you on your pro-birth anti-woman bullshit, so quit beating around the bush and looking for excuses to compensate for your fetish of making women your breeding incubators. People do not get abortions because of pain, they get abortions because they don't want to be pregnant and they don't want to give birth. You make it sound as if every single woman who has an abortion will have emotional trauma from it, when they don't. http://imnotsorry.net is good proof of that. I personally would find it more traumatizing being forced to endure a pregnancy that you don't want, from a primitive, sadistic ******** who thinks he's obligated to use all women as his personal broodmare slaves. And even more emotional pain knowing that your child could be suffering in an orphanage, rotting in that hellhole until they're 18 with the thought of nobody loving them embedded into their brains. When a woman chooses to have an abortion, she is willingly accepting the risks of any complications that abortion may cause for her. Nobody forces women into having abortions, so there's no reason to force them into not having abortions either. And no, you see an independent person making choices on what's best for their bodies and their mental wellbeing, and not allowing primitive, misogynistic ******** like yourself to push them around like they're less of human beings just because they have a parasite growing inside of them. The potential for a child is not the same as an actual child. Let's suggest the woman miscarries or the child comes out stillborn? Then it's just a wasted opportunity.
And again, you still suggest that emotional damage is absolute in every single woman who has an abortion. You're just further proving how sheltered you are on this topic, quit getting your statistics from bullshit anti-choice sites that cater to your own opinion. An abortion is not something that you can walk off? I beg to differ. See the previous URL provided for more info.
We don't force people into donating kidneys, or blood, or bone marrow, we don't force people to shave their heads and donate all their hair to locks of love, therefore abortion should be considered no different. Nobody is obligated to give up a part of their body for the sake of another, be it in regards to that person's life or not.
Where did I say that I want a child, nowhere, exactly, I just said that if the complication rose up to where my partner was pregnant, I'd hope that she'd keep the baby. And where did I say that I like for women to have pain from pregnancies, I dont, and the way you're talking, you make it sound that the only reason that men want them to keep the baby is for them to feel the pain of having a child, no, that dumb as hell. Plus I'm not saying that I'm gonna force her to have the baby, its her final decision after all, I'm just hoping that she would think about all the options before the came up with a decision. Plus you're thinking that if as soon as the baby is born, it'll be taken away to an orphanage, no, What i'm saying that is if the father wants to raise the baby, and will take care of it, why not let him. You keep forgetting that i'm saying that.
And no, I'm not trying to force the woman to have the child, I'm just saying that it would be morally right to do it, and not just kill it right there. You're making this sound more like I'm trying to take away all of women's rights, no I'm not, I'm not setting men up on a pedastool above women. And I say again, I'm not saying that all women should have their babies, needless of what they say, I'm just saying that if the man wants to keep it, at least hear him out.