Shade7510
psychic stalker
Honestly, there are better places to go. Dozens of IRC channels, the StackExchange sites, Reddit, Hacker News, Quora....
i wouldn't disagree. but gaia is the only place i've found that's comfortable/easy to use(for me at least). plus it's the one of the few i've ever found and i found gaia just out of pure luck(if luck's what you want to call it).
I used to think forums like this were the best kind. But after years of using and meta-modding Slashdot, and spending several years answering questions on StackOverflow, and finding myself using Reddit, I came to prefer the format of threaded replies and community meta-moderation. I don't feel like this linear reply format has any value for technical discussion or for a question and answer format. It simply doesn't work.
Shade7510
i don't like the style of reddit but i'll probably find myself using it eventually, and 4chan usually just consists of shitposting or people who throw a fit the moment you disagree with them in the slightest...or both. (though i've mainly noticed that in /g/ and /v/)
Reddit is a place that works similarly to 4chan, but without the trash.
4chan is, of course, the a**-end of the Internet, were all of the feces collect and spew out.
Reddit has memes aplenty. There is no longer any need for 4chan, except perhaps for Reddit to move off-shore.
Shade7510
i can't say i've heard of IRC channels nor do i entirely grasp the concept. but i think i'm just over-thinking it.
IRC is what came before instant messages, and it is where the concept of chat grew to the mainstream before any other social community besides UseNet.
It's the best real-time chat protocol we have. I think it better, even, than Google Wave back when that was a thing. It's a protocol with problems, to be sure - no protocol this simple scales very well - but its implementation is agreeable.
Shade7510
psychic stalker
The fact that I've stayed on Gaia for so goddamn long at all is frustratingly astonishing. I don't even know why I click on the goddamn link in the first place. Every time I come back, I regret it.
i guess that'd depend on why you don't like it. perhaps the ignorance of others can eat away at you as time progresses. but it's always nice to help people. at least they learned something. but then again it's also important to put to good use what you've learned. which no one ever seems to do here.
And then there's the litany of trolls and ignorant wiseguys that come here spewing nonsense and passing it off as if it had intellectual value. And then the mods complain when we call them on their stupidity.
Seriously, ******** this place.
Shade7510
also, everyone also has their own unique identity which makes it easy to develop friends. but that's assuming your interested in making friends. anonymous forum sites would be more solely for plain discussion i suppose. in which case gaia would not be the most logical place to be.
Bulletin board-style forums are a difficult place to make friends. It's easier than the more anonymous fora, since they tend to be smaller and more personal, but it's impossible to actually carry on a discussion.
IRC is a better place to make friends, I think, since it's so direct and real-time. Discussion is secondary by its nature, and that makes it a lot easier to be personable. I've gotten to know and met people from IRC, but not from forums.
Shade7510
none-the-less gaia has a sort of uniqueness to it that attracts some and loses the interest of others. i've always found the way people react to gaia to be quite interesting.
I think the dress-up and the chatterbox meme are the biggest, most polarizing factors. I try not to care, and I've long ago stopped spending gold and GCash on anything, but it ends up serving only as a supplement to user names - which is nice.
But the quality of discussion here is so disappointingly poor - even the few times I've poked my head into the ED forums, looking for some intellectual discourse, I found only drivel, stupidity, trolling and asinine behavior.
I think the cathedral nature - to borrow from esr's metaphor - of bulletin boards tend to breed that. Fora should be more public, with the responsibility of moderation more spread out, so that it's easier to squelch out the stupidity and breed intelligent discourse, much as a bazaar breeds more creative output.
And note my choice of words: I don't believe that posts or threads should ever be deleted, and I don't think ignore lists should be anything more than purely one-sided. Bad behavior should be punished by silence, but not through deletion or muzzling; rather, through a mechanism where everyone can choose what parts of the conversation they want to see. They should be squelched, not silenced. Through that simple choice, being heard requires intelligent eloquence. As it should.