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I jus don't understand why you just go up to that person and talk to out and if you don't care then fuxk it it's over and done with...

Well for a couple of weeks this whole thing has been going on between my friends and if you ask me I think it's pretty childish because of how this thing has been going on. I just wish they would just calmly sit down and talk to each other before things get physical. My friends seem to think that this new girl is trying to pull one of my other friends away from us. This girl is obbsessed with my friend that she even got her hair done like hers and when I was walking down the hall the other day I was gonna say hi to ther thinkin she was my friend but it wasn't her lol. So now this new girl has beef with my other friends and people that have nothing to do with it are gettin involed confused for what reason, I don't know. I don't consider myslef playing both sides of the fence but I'm cool with everyone so I'm staying out of this one. The most I can do is give advice. I felt really bad for my friend when she got low blowed in an argument and she ended up crying. She doesn't normally cry so I know what was said was really out of line. When I got to study hall and talk to her about what she said she didn't really feel bad and I just sat there speechless. *Sighs* It jus sucks how people can't learn to grow the fuxk up and stop actin glike there in 4th grade again over stupid a** drama that could easy be solved over talkin and gettin out how you feel without yelling and arguing. SMH If I had a problem with someone I would want to talk it out but if we keep goin in circles theres not point to being friends again. For someone not willing to aploigize when there in the wrong is on them. I feel it just makes them look more and more immature. I recently got into a situation with someone who never admits there wrongs but its so funny how she thinks shes gonna find the perfect man RME when her azz can't even admit when she's wrong. Shes too stuck up to realize that relationships take two people and that you can't blame all the shyt that goes on, on him so therefore that's how bad relationships get started and don't work out.