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 Posted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 6:51 pm
I'm sixteen and never had a boyfriend, or girlfriend for that matter.
My friends have all had tons and yet I'm alone in the group with nobody.
I've never been asked and never really been bothered by it.
But when I switched schools I made new friends and felt even more left out.
I'm not the kind to throw myself at a guy
And maybe thats why I don't get asked out or anything.
If you know of any reason why or whatever,
I would appricate it.
~~Ami
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Posted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 8:54 pm
You're certainly not alone in the dateless world. I was sixteen when I got my first girlfriend, and I'm not ashamed of it at all. In fact, it's kind of nice looking back and seeing what type of immature drama I avoided in middle school. Just be patient and sooner or later you'll find yourself liking a nice young chap and well, one thing will lead to another...
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Posted: Mon May 01, 2006 3:51 am
Mmmkay. To tell you the truth,I'm 16 and I've probably had more boyfriends than you can shake a stick at... and i'm not very proud to say that. I feel like I've been around so you should be happy you don't feel that way. You don't need to have a boyfriend right now so don't go changin who you are just so a guy can notice you smile just remain who you are and some guy will come along and notice you for who you are, not for the person you're trying to be smile
that's the best I can do hehe. Good luck
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Posted: Mon May 01, 2006 6:35 am
Thank you both.
And I think I'll take your advice neko_san.
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Posted: Mon May 01, 2006 11:30 am
I got my first boyfriend when i was sixteen going onto seventeen. It's no big deal. I have a few friends who are 18/19 and still haven't had a boyfriend/girlfriend yet. It's probably for the best at the moment because sometimes relationships lead you into pain in the end, so this is probably saving you from that pain. But I also don't blame you for wanting to experience the whole deal. It will take time until you find the guy that's all. It took me some time. Just be patient everything will go your way soon.
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Posted: Tue May 09, 2006 1:07 pm
I was 17 when I finally got my first real bf. Yea i had one when I was 15 but that lasted 2 weeks..and of course middle school for like 2 weeks lol. I never really dated in HS. But I*ve been with him for 3 1/2 yrs..im 20 now. You'll find someone hun don't rush things!! I know it's hard when you're not outgoing towards the opposite sex..I never was. My advice..enjoy the single life and your friends as much as possible while you have it. Just use casual nonchalant flirting, smile at guys, make small talk..be friendly. You don't have to overdo it. They'll come to ya! give it time
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Posted: Wed May 10, 2006 3:32 pm
Thanks,
I never knew how many people are like me.
And I guess you guys are right
Thanks again.
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Posted: Wed May 10, 2006 8:20 pm
AmyLuBear I was 17 when I finally got my first real bf. Yea i had one when I was 15 but that lasted 2 weeks..and of course middle school for like 2 weeks lol. I never really dated in HS. But I*ve been with him for 3 1/2 yrs..im 20 now. You'll find someone hun don't rush things!! I know it's hard when you're not outgoing towards the opposite sex..I never was. My advice..enjoy the single life and your friends as much as possible while you have it. Just use casual nonchalant flirting, smile at guys, make small talk..be friendly. You don't have to overdo it. They'll come to ya! give it time I was 17 as well when I got my first real bf, before that there was crushes, and small realtionships but nothing really trulely there. So at 16 I wouldn't get too worried maybe it is just not your time yet. ...Hang in there it will all be fine..
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Posted: Wed Jun 28, 2006 8:13 pm
just remember that there is no time/age limit on when you should or shouldn't have had a boyfriend yet. things will happen in their own time and at the right time and if you try to rush it just because of what your friends have done or what you havent done yet then it could turn into something you will regret, because it wouldn't be real it would be an image of what you want to be real.
try not to think and stress so hard on it, most people I know who found the person they love found them not by looking or trying but by total surprise, they just had the patience to wait for that surprise rather than force it.
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Posted: Sat Jul 01, 2006 1:15 am
Me. 19 years old. Dateless. The farthest away I've been was when I got dumped by the girl I loved. Now I'm working so ******** hard to overcome this extreme shyness that's staggering my progress. I'm so shy, I'll have to give her a letter from me. And I just can't find a way to do so, because my classroom is full of inmature engineers who seem to be jealous, because I can get laid and they can't. xp
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Posted: Sat Jul 01, 2006 12:02 pm
I'm 16 and I don't have anybody. I'm waiting 'till I'm 18 because then I'll know if I'm truly ready for a relationship
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Posted: Sun Jul 02, 2006 11:34 am
What age you get a boyfriend/girlfriend shouldn't matter, my dear. Sometimes it is best to wait. I watched all my friends go through boyfriends like a pair of socks. I was very late for a lot of things, like my first kiss. It bothered me sometimes but now I have found someone and have been with them for almost a year. I am happy that I waited and found the right one.
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Posted: Sat Jul 08, 2006 8:53 pm
My boyfriends Cuz is 16 and has never had a girlfriend..
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Posted: Tue Jul 11, 2006 11:04 pm
I just happened to start to have a crush on a classmate, and from that experience, I can say something.
If you are to leave the dateless world, you first gotta analyze who do you like, who seems to be the person of your sexual preference you like most to hang out with, who is the one who makes you feel good when you had a bad day. Then start hanging out with them. Taking him or her to the cinema is too cliché and unoriginal: I'd rather take them to the theater.
And one word of advice: if your classroom is full of inmature people, do it anyway. Just think about it: inmature people can hardly ever get laid, by own experience. If you ask someone out for the theater, you'll be smearing all over their face that you can get laid and they can't. That's what I'm gonna do. I'll ask Alejandra her cell phone, because until Friday I won't know the theater schedules, then I'm calling her, and then we both go to the theater, and that's how a relationship will start.
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Posted: Wed Jul 12, 2006 8:12 am
Don't wish for relationships.. Just act normal and ask guys who you likeing like questions... about anything.. Or play teh truth game.. Most Mature relationships have sexual things with them so until you are stable and happy with you body I don't think you should be with anyone..
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