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 Posted: Fri Jun 11, 2010 12:03 am
So my boyfriend broke up with me a few weeks ago, and I got over it within days. Or so I thought. Now sometimes, especially at night I can't get him off of my mind and I can't stop going over painful memories of us together, over and over. I don't like him anymore but the break up was a little embarresing because his "fan club" was practicaly passing around buckets of popcorn. I'm totally fine during the day or if I'm doing something, but as soon as my mind wanders he's there like a bad after taste after a wonderful drink.
I feel like I'm drowning in memories of 'us' and I'm to crippled by it to escape. Advice, hugs, and cookies much appreciated <3
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Posted: Fri Jun 11, 2010 6:10 am
Try forget and ignore ur painful memories by doing something u like. (hug)
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Posted: Fri Jun 11, 2010 7:20 am
Keep yourself occupied constantly. It helps a lot. I think you're just having aftershocks, like in an earthquake. They'll eventually go away. -GIVES YOU BIG HUG-
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Posted: Fri Jun 11, 2010 9:47 pm
*hands lots of peanut buttery chocolate chip cookies and hugs* Try calling a friend and talking to her (or him, I guess)? Not only will talking to her (or him) take your mind off your ex, she (or he xD) might be able to help you deal with the memories better. Best of luck. heart
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Posted: Fri Jun 11, 2010 10:13 pm
Think of all of his bad qualities and you'll miss him less and less. Then in time you'll stop thinking about him.
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Posted: Fri Jun 11, 2010 10:32 pm
-gives a cookie- aww im sorry that happend.its happend to me to so just member yur not alone in this sooner or later the more yu jus chill the more he'll slip out of yur mind. yu said when ever yur mind wanders yu end up thinkin about him, well when yu do jus try to think of how much better off yu'll be without him.(: its his loss not yurs.
yu know what i did sinced my ex kept slippin into my mind?, i jus started a journal, i wrote down all the memories i had of us together nd those thoughts of him jus faded now they're all in a journal.(: if i ever wanna remember all i do is read it..i dont know if that'll help yu but it helped me.(:
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Posted: Sat Jun 12, 2010 4:18 am
*gives truckloads of cookies and gives hug :]* ((I don't really have any advice Dx)) (im not good with advice unless its walking into a tree...)
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