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 Posted: Tue Jun 30, 2009 8:56 pm
Ok, let's just say I have about 10 months worth of pent up anger and frustration. Wanna know why? ...
BECAUSE OF JUST ONE MAN!
~+~ STORY TIME ~+~
At the time I met this ex, I was currently seeing someone else. He was too, so we were just friends for awhile. Then, the guy I was currently seeing dumped me and almost at the same time, he dumped the girl he was dating...
Well, over time, we became closer. I loved him with my entire being, I imagined us having kids and getting married (not necessarily in that order, lulz) and other things like that.
Finally, three days before our six month anniversary, he decides to break it off because he accused me of cheating. And you guys know me, I'm not the type who would EVER do that. He did it to cover his own butt because I come to find out that the entire time he was seeing me, he was also seeing someone else.
Bet'cha were expecting a happy ending, huh? I just really need to let this out, the anger and frustrations in my body are starting to get out of control. He completely ruined me, I haven't been the same since he dumped me. The poem I have in the guild is actually inspired by him dumping me... It's been almost a year and I'm still afraid to open up my heart to someone else.
In a way, he killed the old me. The new me is colder and also more vulnerable... But apparently I'm strong enough to deal with it.
Let's just say this ex better hope I never meet him in a dark alley somewhere... =w=
Thanks for letting me rant!
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Posted: Tue Jun 30, 2009 9:13 pm
Im not going to start *Realy* eney tipe of dateing till i can suport myself job,house,car,tv,phone so on eney one who starts eney suner than that is setting up for a dezaster.
As for *whats hes name* sounds like he wasent realy ready to settle down or he was extreamly stuped for leving you. If a girl wanted me like that thare would be no leanth i would go for her weather it would be time, money, space, nothing. some people just arnt rased rite. I wish you good luck
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Posted: Wed Jul 01, 2009 5:47 am
I know this is random but just open a window and sit next to it when you're real angry. I used to get real stressed and angry (I still kinda get stressed) But for me the idea of opening a window and just sitting next to it helps me fore some reason.
I can't explain it, just try it.
As for your boyfriend thing, the same thing happened to me. I was happily going out with someone, and I went to his 'insert site name here' and it said he was going out with someone else. When I found out I asked him about it, he denied it, then moved to Virgina with that person.
I flipped s**t. That same day my sister shattered her leg.
So I can relate to that pain.
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Posted: Wed Jul 01, 2009 4:45 pm
My story.
I was see this girl. I loved her SOOO much.
We were at our 2 month anniversary. My friend got a PS2 that day.
So he call me over, and i show up 15 early.
I walk into his room...and catch him having sex with my girl.
I trashed his room, broke his PS2, beat the s**t out of him and left.
as for my ex....never saw her again.
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Posted: Wed Jul 01, 2009 7:23 pm
DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAANNNNNNNNNNNGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG.
Ouch. So. Because this is becoming a pity-me-party, I'm going to lighten the mood. With a story that is utterly hilarious to me. Now, anyway. So, a little background, to help you understand. My last boyfriend and I dated for a very short period of time. Four months, I believe. I can't quite remember. But it was a slightly brutal breakup. All of the gang knew all about it. But a bit over a year ago, I was just getting into a relationship with my current girlfriend, and I wanted to throw a party to bring back the old gang for one last night. I still spoke to my ex, still considered him a friend, so he, along with a bunch of my other friends came.
During the party, my friends were playing around, as they always do at my house, and they were sitting behind the chair in my corner of my living room. So I gave it a little thought, but not much when I spotted my ex and one of my considered best friends went to sit behind the chair. What I find funny now, was that when I looked over about an hour I see my ex looking right at me, obviously trying to get my attention, and turn and start making out with my friend.
Wow. God, I don't know why, but it's just hilarious. Now. Back then, it really sucked.
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Posted: Thu Jul 02, 2009 2:14 pm
Seems a lot of boys nowadays are idiots, no? *sigh* Whatever happened to the decent men? I know they're out there. Hard to find, though...
I can't personally relate to your story, Azu, but my little sister went through the exact same thing. Her online ex cheated on her with a girl from his area, accused my sis of cheating (she was talking to his former best friend, who at the time was just a friend to her, too), and brought half of his twerpy friends on dA on the offensive against my sis, calling her names like 'slut' and 'whore', among other foul names. My sister is none of these; she's too busy with debate camp and school to be.
Can't tell you how bad that pissed me off. I personally went and attacked him back on the dA journal he was whining in for hurting my sister the way he did. Brought me down to his level, but better me than her.
*gives you a big hug and cookies* These things do take time to heal. Longer than what seems fair if they're dragged out. You'll be okay, Azu. ^v^ I know you will.
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Posted: Sat Jul 04, 2009 10:02 pm
*gives everyone a group hug*
I'm SO sorry my sex is so messed up! I promise that there ARE decent males out there! I swear it!
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Posted: Sun Jul 05, 2009 8:22 pm
If you say so Atsu... stare
*Hugs everyone*
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Posted: Wed Jul 15, 2009 10:34 pm
As has been shown by numerous people, a lot of guys around just don't know how to cope very well. That's the nice way of saying it, here's the other way; Tons of a-holes around these days.
Me? I'm 13. Can't relate in anyway. I know I'm hell-a young, but I can understand the situation.
Need a virtual shoulder to cry on? I don't bite.
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