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 Posted: Sat Dec 29, 2007 3:05 pm
[ ] Well, bandos see each other most of the summer, during school in band class, and in after-school bands. You have more time to get to know other band kids. []
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Posted: Sat Dec 29, 2007 3:51 pm
When you spend time with people as much as you do your band, they become more of a family than just friends. You get close to them, and trust them. Sometimes crushes start to form with people in band, because you find it easy to find things you have n common. You get to where you miss them when you're apart, just like you would your own family. You worry when they're hurt, you cry when they leave forever crying . You grow stronger bonds with people who are more like you, and then that's when it starts. You begin to like them, their laugh, thier smile. Sometimes even the same gender. You look at their picture all night and rip your hair out, because you're confused. Sometimes they feel the same way. Either way, personally, I think that most of the time, relationships in band are stronger than other.
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Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2007 11:08 pm
because
most people
in a band
whether
it be school band
rock band
or any kind of band
they do it
usually at least
because they love music
its a big part of them
people in bands
realize
they have something big
in common
so tada!
however
my gfs
taste in music
sucks
i lvoes her anyways
but yeah
at least
tahts my own thoguhts on it
i wouldnt
listen to it though
havnt gotten any sleep
and all
tahts keepin me going
is the
ungodly amount
of sobe i drank =D
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Posted: Thu Dec 11, 2008 6:56 pm
Because you play the same music and march the same drill, so you can both have problems, and complain about people.
And you see them more hours a day than your family (even in high school band)
And band kids are naturally charming and loverly
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Posted: Fri Dec 12, 2008 4:12 am
i think there are so many band relationships because all of us in band have many things in common, and we're around eachother all the time.
i am actually currently dating someone who is not in band, and i have to admit that i was a little weird and difficult at first because he just doesn't understand what i'm talking about sometimes like someone in band would haha.
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Posted: Fri Dec 12, 2008 11:34 am
They're around each other a lot and that's what brings people close to each other. You begin to wonder... is it just a deep friendship or something more? Sometimes they wonder the same thing too and then everything just kinda falls into place. Being around people you have that much in common with, all the time, it's bound to make at least a few couples.
But since I'm not in band anymore it's easier to be with someone who isn't in band, because I don't do those events I used to look forward to so much. (My sweetheart is in choir though so that's still music)
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Posted: Fri Dec 12, 2008 1:36 pm
i dont know, but yet i would want to know tho......
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Posted: Sun Dec 14, 2008 6:07 pm
I have a couple reasons.
1) Most male band geeks play the piano.
Most female band geeks are hot for piano players.
2) Girls Love Musicians.
3) We have common interests
4) People say that similar taste in music is a huge ting in relationships....Most Band geeks just love music in general...
5) We see eachother a lot.
6)Band teaches us to work together and in unison...which probably strengthens our bonds with eachother in some odd magical way.... (this one is just a slight theory I've developed)
That's why we love eachother.
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Posted: Mon Dec 15, 2008 2:17 pm
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Posted: Mon Dec 15, 2008 3:10 pm
Geodesic Glycerin I have a couple reasons. 1) Most male band geeks play the piano. Most female band geeks are hot for piano players. 2) Girls Love Musicians. 3) We have common interests 4) People say that similar taste in music is a huge ting in relationships....Most Band geeks just love music in general... 5) We see eachother a lot. 6)Band teaches us to work together and in unison...which probably strengthens our bonds with eachother in some odd magical way.... (this one is just a slight theory I've developed) That's why we love eachother.
those are pretty intresting reasons!!!! =D
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Posted: Mon Dec 15, 2008 4:30 pm
Band loves happen all the time probably because of what everyone else says. We spend so much time together with the same interests and we end up liking each other than we had originally planned.
Something I've noticed though, is that a lot of times it ends up that a woodwind person dates a brass person. Its really weird how that works out. theres been several examples of that at my school.
its even the same with me. the guy I like plays baritone and I play sax. neutral
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Posted: Thu Dec 18, 2008 11:14 pm
beacuse you have the same weekend things most of the time.
you have a chance to talk a lot.
you see each other soooooo much
Personally, I'm a flute who's with an alto,
you spend so much time together, you forget about everyone else
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Posted: Thu Dec 18, 2008 11:16 pm
too true, piano's one of the best things a guy can play Geodesic Glycerin I have a couple reasons. 1) Most male band geeks play the piano. Most female band geeks are hot for piano players. 2) Girls Love Musicians. 3) We have common interests 4) People say that similar taste in music is a huge ting in relationships....Most Band geeks just love music in general... 5) We see eachother a lot. 6)Band teaches us to work together and in unison...which probably strengthens our bonds with eachother in some odd magical way.... (this one is just a slight theory I've developed) That's why we love eachother.
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Posted: Fri Dec 19, 2008 9:37 pm
I dunno, stockholm syndrome, maybe?or maybe its the fact that while you are in band (marching band particularly), it would be near impossible to date someone NOT in band.
Band takes up most, if not all of your free time, and you could never hang out with your bf or gf outside of school hours, and the outsider would never really understand your band jokes or really get the band rivalries, or anything like that.
I should know, band happened to my relationship (not that I regret it), and now it doesn't exist anymore.
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Posted: Fri Dec 19, 2008 9:40 pm
the reason is simply... that we are awesome :3
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