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 Posted: Wed Nov 07, 2007 4:04 pm
O__O'
scary dream....
if i was pregant.
i would give the baby
to adoption or a desprate
parent thats wanting to have
a child. ...erm watever.
theres this girl that was pregnant
when she was only 11 or 10 years
old. i dunno i think it was a rumor.
=/
DaniieDee
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Posted: Wed Nov 07, 2007 4:21 pm
Myah.
Scary.
If I got pregnant,
that would be awful.
13 years should not be pregnant.
Ever.
EVER.
Just no.
If I got pregnant right now (ha ha, like that would happen. I have issues with my v****a. I don't like anything being even close to being in it, not even tampons. No.) most likely I wouldn't get an abortion, not because I'm not Pro-Choice, but because it would have been my own fault, and I think it would be better to suffer the consequences.... and my mother would want to adopt it.
Yeah.
I have to say I agree with all of the people who said that if you got pregnant from being raped that abortion would be the right option.
I would not want to have the child of a man who did that.
But if you're stupid and just get pregnant,
then you should suffer.
But that's just me.
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Posted: Wed Nov 07, 2007 5:04 pm
I hear you calling and it's needles and pins
I want to hurt you just to hear you screaming my name
I never said that victims of rape should consider infertile parents. I'm just saying that abortion is the wrong choice. Of all the choices that are out there, that's one of the worst things you can do.
That child didn't commit the rape. The kid didn't crawl up inside someone's v****a and plant itself in there. The child is as much a victim as the mother. Killing it just because you don't want to carry it around for nine months is just as terrible as the rape.
It's horrible these days that human life is thought of in such low terms. It's not a parasite nor a symbol of some terrible deed done against you, it's a human.
I consider it a human at conception, so for me, all abortion is murder. So much takes place in the development during the first trimester. Development is taking place before the woman even realizes she is pregnant. So I don't buy "not human at conception." I'm sorry, but that even goes so far as to offend me.
I'm gonna get all kinds of hell for this, but I don't really care. That's the only one of my beliefs that I refuse to sway on. Every life is precious. Not just the ones who aren't an "inconvience."
Don't want to touch you but you're under my skin
I want to taste you but your lips are venomous poison
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Posted: Wed Nov 07, 2007 5:30 pm
  Oooh, last year I thought I was pregnant =O But I wasn't lawlz I didn't like, think lol >>;; I couldn't have got pregnant But my period was so late so I was like "holy craaaap" lawlz (I think it's funny, Because I was a complete dumb a** And didn't realize stuff) But teen pregnancy is bad D:< God... there's this girl, my age... maybe a year older (16 or 17) And she's pregnant... And it's so shocking because she was into sports And really active, and everything Everyone loved her (thought she was funny) She was just pretty awesome... But now she's pregnant, and it's like Woah wtf... And there was this other girl Was in my homeroom in 8th grade (year older) She gave birth, and I saw her with her child... And another girl... Cute shy girl, she got pregnant last year... And we haven't seen her around... I feel sorry for her... Seriously, they should chop of egg rolls and glue them back on after high school... People suffer so much with teen parents
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Posted: Wed Nov 07, 2007 6:16 pm
A few months ago I had a dream like that.
Except I didn't know who the father was.
And it scared the living s**t out of me.
I like, didn't even want to look at guys after that point.
I was scared shitless.
I think most of it is because,
I have three younger siblings,
two of which are under 5.
And I can't handle that.
Not yet at least.
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Posted: Wed Nov 07, 2007 6:22 pm
 Grin Evilly says: ABORTION.
D: <33
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Posted: Wed Nov 07, 2007 7:23 pm
&hearts&spades&diams&clubsI see a heated debate ahead. >_<; &hearts&spades&diams&clubs
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Posted: Wed Nov 07, 2007 7:41 pm
Like I said I'm pro-life except when it affects the life of the mother. Which is actually very rare nowadays. Even with rape, you can raise up that child to be a wonderful blessing to our world. Who knows that you may be killing the next great politician, or maybe the president who can change the world? You may be killing the next teacher who'll affect many lives, or the next janitor who inspires a kid to do something, IDK! This is true with all abortions, which is why I believe it should only be done in that one rare.
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Posted: Wed Nov 07, 2007 8:47 pm
I had a similar dream.
D':
Well, I lost my virginity this past monday to my loving boyfriend.
We used a condom, but since it was my first time, I'm all nervous that I'm preggerz.
I know I'm not, but still.
Natural woman thing, I guess.
So he keeps telling me that I'm not, and if I am, he'll take care of me and our child.
But if I get pregnant before I get married, I'm going to get an abortion.
There are already enough children in the world.
There is enough poverty in the world.
Who needs more of that?
Sorry if somebody doesn't agree with that.
But that's how I feel on the subject.
:]
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Posted: Thu Nov 08, 2007 12:29 pm
I'm sorry, but I really can't stand when people say it's not even human yet. Once fertilized into a zygote, the egg will, unless miscarriage but that's rare, become a child. Since when is there a set time when you are human? After the moment of conception, it's becoming a living breathing thin.
And the child simply isn't a product of rape. A thing. It's a human being. Soon to have thoughts. Feelings. Senses. Yes, rape is absolutely horrible, but since when is the innocent child horrible, too? He or she didn't cause the rape. It was as much as a victim as you were.
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Posted: Fri Nov 09, 2007 9:04 am
-What would you do if it happened to you?
I'm not a teenager. But I probably wouldn't keep the child. Depending on my status (if I'm married or not) would determine if I'd give it up for adoption or not.
-Abortion: pro choice/life? Pro choice, FTW.
-Anybody you know in this kind of situation? I had a lot of relatives get pregnant early. My mom was 18 when she got pregnant with my brother. Most of my aunts were about the same. But then it was expected. Today, people should be smarter. Women should be smart enough to know if they have a kid, it's hard to make the man stay and help. If people aren't able to deal with it, then they shouldn't be having sex to begin with. Oh, not to mention when girls get pregnant at young ages, they are more likely to get cancer as adults.
-How did the people around them react? Very mixed.
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Posted: Fri Nov 09, 2007 9:10 am
Teenage pregnacy is stupid, but whether or not to get an abortion, I don't no where I stand on that...
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Posted: Fri Nov 09, 2007 2:47 pm
I had a dream I was raped once...I was horrified and seriously considered abortion...all this in my dream, it was crazy. I'm very pro-choice because I don't want to control other people's decisions. But in my own situation I have no idea what I would do. Of course, I have no interest in having sex right now so that's not something I have to worry about at the moment. O.o
Two of my cousins got pregnant at 16 and 18. The 16 year old is now 23 and she's got two kids and is pregnant again. The father is a pot-head who doesn't have a job but she married him anyway and is probably way worse off. If the guy who gets you pregnant is a dead-beat with no job, marrying him is only going to make it worse than being a single mom. I can certainly tell any pregnant teens that! If you decide to keep the baby, don't make it worse for the child by sticking with a guy that isn't going to do what's best for it. If you're keeping the child, it's life comes first, yours second.
Adoption is actually the best choice in my opinion for single mothers who don't want to keep the baby. That way the child can get a home with parents who are ready to raise a child.
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Posted: Fri Nov 09, 2007 2:49 pm
OMG, TO AVOID A HEATED DEBATE, PLEASE READ!
And then, there's always abortion, but that's up to the individual and I won't try to convince anyone one way or the other. I'm also not going to get into a debate about it because I have before and no one ever changes their mind about abortion, so all of you who came here to debate abortion listen:
Pro-life people, you're never going to convince pro-choice people that abortion is wrong, no matter what you say about eggs and zygotes and life.
And pro-choice people, if the pro-life people say they think it's murder, you aren't going to convince them otherwise...think about it, you (I should hope) don't condone murder itself. If someone believes abortion is a type of murder, they aren't going to suddenly understand it as not.
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Posted: Fri Nov 09, 2007 4:14 pm
ZOMG. If your contraception fails, you're an idiot and you TOTALLY should be forced to have the child as a punishment for your idiocy. I mean, all people obviously have access to birth control and it works 100% of the time! Plus, the kid could turn out to be like a great leader or stop a war or something, you know? I mean, a pregnancy is expensive, especially without health insurance, but it makes it all better knowing I'm bringing another child into an already overpopulated world, especially when the only ones who actually can find adopted homes have to be white and healthy. Don't even mention the basic principle of bodily autonomy. Seriously, who cares about constitutionality?
Anyways, as a victim of rape and childhood sexual molestation, knowing that the child is also a victim of such a horrible crime makes me feel so much better. I'll have to stop taking anti-depressants because of the fetus's health - but why does mine matter? IT'S INNOCENT.
But even though I still value life, I still love meat. Yum.
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