I think I'm pretty okay at not getting worked up about any of it anymore. It was annoying at first, because I personally felt attacked being one of the developers, but I didn't like scream or rage. After the first month though, it was easy to deal with and sometimes we'd enjoy posting funniest fan posts on our internal fb like thing at the last company I was at.
I rarely get emotional from any game, movie, or show. I'll enjoy the deep thoughts and such put into the story, but I won't cry over it.
I consider the games I've worked on my babies, but have no attachments to the work itself. I have no problem throwing it all away and starting over. Just as I have no problem going into any game I'm playing now no matter what game it is and just starting over a new file and overwriting the old one.
On the other hand, when I become a mother of an actual human non-binary child, I'll be all emotional and love the heck out of my own baby. <3