Welcome to Gaia! :: View User's Journal | Gaia Journals

 
 

View User's Journal

Report This Entry Subscribe to this Journal
A day in the life of Princess Orphelia
What's happening next as far as treatment goes.

Please if you're going to read this, be kind enough to comment, as I'm trying to reach a record amount of well wishes. Read bottom of this journal entry. sweatdrop

After confirming that mum was going to have Radiation Therapy, and the dates being set to start. We've had a change of plan. After visiting so many doctors and being told, that it's best to go ahead and have Chemotherapy. That's what we've decided.

The Doctors - being a Professor of Oncology and a Professor of Radiology, plus our own family doctor all advised us to do Chemotherapy to prevent this stupid disease from spreading further in the future. sweatdrop

So after making further inquiries and booking in for Chemotherapy. Mum begins her treatments as of next Thursday 7th of April. One week from today. It's gonna be a 16 week treatment course, once a week. Along with Herceptim (not sure of spelling) once every two weeks, for nine months.

In between all these treatments, we'll be going to see doctors and doing regular checkups, including tests.

But it does not end there, because after Chemo, she'll need to ongo further treatments of Radiation Therapy. 6 weeks, every day of it. sweatdrop

My poor mum, being her age, and the weak soul that she is. I'm praying that she'll be able to handle all this. I do so feel very sorry for her, and I know she'll suffer during this, but thinking long term, it's all for the best.

Even though my time is limited now, as I'd like to spend quality time with her. So I log in for a bit each day, just to check on things. I know that once she starts all these treatments, my time will even more so limited. In fact, it might not happen at all.

I'm going to miss so many events on here during that time I'm away, like Easter. However, it boils down to family first. Gaia will always be here for me, no matter what. I'll also certainly miss all the wonderful friends that I chat to on a regular basis, but our friendship will also always be there, no matter what.

As far as work goes, I've got wait and see how much time I can have off, to accompany my mum during this crisis. As far as I know, they pretty understanding, but when I tell them that I want 9 months off without pay, I hope I don't lose my job in process of it. Wish me luck, in hoping they'd understand my situation and let me have that time off. gonk

Mum and I, are all we have, and she is more important to me than anything else.

I'd also like to say, thank you to everyone who has wished mum a speedy recovery. And I'm aiming at doing something special for her, if I can have your help in making that possible. This will certainly brighten up her day.

If everyone that reads this, can please please post in here well wishes for mum, I'd like to make a record of this, and bring her in here and show her how many prayers are there for her. So post away, and help me reach a good amount of replies.

Much love to everyone.
~Orphie. heart


Princess-Orphelia
Community Member
  • [07/05/13 10:58am]
  • [11/29/12 04:49am]
  • [11/03/12 05:48am]
  • [02/19/12 04:45am]
  • [09/03/11 10:06am]
  • [05/05/11 09:53am]
  • [04/20/11 06:01am]
  • [04/06/11 03:21am]
  • [03/30/11 11:54pm]
  • [03/12/11 01:07am]




  • User Comments: [49]
    sportsfan666
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 12:41am


    Hey Orphie's Mommy 4laugh

    I hope that you get better soon, and that you know that everyone here is praying for you heart


    ADreamForTheDead
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 01:47am


    Get well soon Orphies Mom. ^^ heart


    sachara
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 01:48am


    heart I wish your mum the best~ heart


    Elegant Walnut
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 01:51am


    To Orphie's mum ~ my thoughts and prayers are with you as you begin this journey.. be strong and you'll pull thru..Wishing you a speedy recovery


    Harvey_Kinkle
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 01:53am


    Sending you and your mum prayers and good wishes at this time of great challenge


    I Took Your Cookie
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 01:54am


    Hello Orphie's Mom. I'd like to greet you, get well soon, please! I too, am sick and I just read Orphie's journal entry, it made me worry, worry, worry. I pray for you to get well soon, I pray for you to be strong. I may be far far away from you, but I support you. I pray for you. I believe in you. So get well soon, please! God bless you and your family. heart


    Auriga La Shock
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 01:59am


    Hey Orphie's Mum heart

    Stay strong and I hope everything works out well (and fast) for you heart heart


    ShadowedPorcelain
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 01:59am


    You'll be in my prayers. I hope for the best.


    Felinophile
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 02:03am


    User Image
    and another each day until you are well again


    dariene11
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 02:15am


    crying crying get well soon orphie's mom we all pryin 4 ya stay stong stay positive and trust your daughter she's an awesome 1


    xtenipurix
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 02:18am


    I hope that the treatments go well and that your mother gets better.

    May the both of you have the strength to be strong. You'll be in my wishes.


    HavenneShadow
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 02:20am


    Blessings be upon you. May your way be sure.


    aryanayushi
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 02:25am


    Hi Orphie's mum heart
    My thoughts and prayers are with you I know that you are strong like Orphie and you'll pull through.Wishing you a speedy recovery heart


    Kornii
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 02:34am


    I hope that your mum has a full recovery and best of wishes to both of you!~


    Winged Tree Nymph
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 03:04am


    I pray for a speedy recovery, and remission (I believe that's the term when the cancer ends up stopping from spreading) My thoughts are with you as well Orphie <3


    User Image

    User Image
    Muruko
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 03:12am


    heart heart Best wishes from me Orphie. Hope all goes well! heart heart


    Sakeyaki
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 03:16am


    Please get well soon, Orphie's mom! We're all keeping you in our thoughts.


    felinophiles alter ego
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 03:20am


    to orphies mom, i just had a little talk with the Lord and he said rest assured that all is well, i will be talking to him about you again wink heart


    PinkSpartans
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 03:57am


    Saying a prayer for you each day, Orphie's mum. Hope you'll have a speedy recovery


    DuneMech
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 04:29am


    Get well soon orphie's mom. We'll be waiting to hear the good news about your recovery. Orphie's Mom and Orphie! FIGHTING!


    Anesia
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 05:12am


    heart When things get hard just look at your daughter and remember all the reasons you are here and all the reasons you want to be. Don't ever give up because life is worth fighting for. I pray for you to have a speedy recovery and to be surrounded by those who love you heart


    David2074
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 05:28am


    Orphie,
    My best to both your mom and you during a very trying time for both of you.
    I went through something sort of similar with my mother about three years ago. It was bonding but also emotionally very hard. My prayers are with both of you.
    David


    Anagha Rose
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 05:36am


    heart I wish you and your mom the very best! =) heart


    Vaelria
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 06:27am


    hey hun i miss you and i hope for a full recovery for your mum <3


    Muirine
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 08:33am


    Your both in my family's and my prayers.


    kawakuma
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 08:36am


    Hello Orphie's mum,

    I wish you the very best recovery, you have much support from your lovely daughter and everyone here. Please get well soon. heart


    gosts
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 08:47am


    Orphie's mommy, GOOD LUCK! You are in my thoughts and prayers. May you have a speedy recovery. heart


    Chatons
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 09:52am


    User Image

    Wishing you well. heart


    Aerixas
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 10:03am


    Hello Orphie's mum!
    May you have a speedy recovery!
    SPEAKING OF SAYING THE WEIRDEST THINGS IN THE WEIRDEST MOMENTS, ROCK ON, HURHURHUR.
    (that may have been a little sudden but really, you sound like such a great mum :B )


    Stray Khatt
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 10:28am


    Hello Orphie's Mom.

    I'm Orphie's online kitteh, and it made me very sad to hear about your health condition.
    I wish you the very best for your treatments and hope for a speedy recovery.
    However, since such a great and strong person like Orphie must have a likewise great and strong mother, I'm sure that you - together with your daughter - can handle this.

    My best wishes to both of you, and good luck for Orphie in matters of her job.


    Mystic Starfire
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 10:40am


    Wishing you a speedy recovery. My prayers are with you both at this time.

    ~Mystic - New Zealand


    Loquita_de_Indiana
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 03:11pm


    I hope everything works out great in the end for your mom!


    User444555
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 06:40pm


    I really hope everything works works out.
    (sorry If this is a little awkward, I'm not the best at communicating online)


    tetetetofu
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 06:44pm


    Get well soon! Stay Strong!


    miss jackie ohh
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 07:36pm


    User Image

    Stay strong. Your family loves you. I wish you well.


    VacantGaze
    Community Member





    Thu Mar 31, 2011 @ 11:58pm


    I give my best wishes to you Orphie's mum ^..^
    Stay strong.
    this scary path but as long as your loved (which obviously you are! you will be fine).
    FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT YAY!!


    kristaggart22
    Community Member





    Fri Apr 01, 2011 @ 03:45am


    I hope everything goes as smooth and easily as possible. Your both in my thoughts. heart


    Crystalized Eyes
    Community Member





    Fri Apr 01, 2011 @ 06:24am


    To Orphie's Mum,
    I hope you have a speedy recovery. Get well soon! Keep fighting! :]

    ~CrystalizedEyes<3


    shuichi_22
    Community Member





    Fri Apr 01, 2011 @ 06:33am


    Stay strong Ophelia, same goes to your family members!

    Get well soon Ophelia's mom. Get well soon. heart


    Zombitchie
    Community Member





    Fri Apr 01, 2011 @ 08:24am


    Very sorry to hear about your mom. Cancer is a hard thing for any family to go through, my aunt survived ovarian and stomach cancer but fought through it.
    Best wishes to you your mom!


    iNk_mAy
    Community Member





    Fri Apr 01, 2011 @ 08:25am


    My hands are clasped in prayer...Even though I do not know you or yours I do know the following:
    Family is everything.
    Even random hope and prayers are blessings.
    What its like to worry for your mother.
    My own mother was in a horrible accident four years ago and as she fought for life I fought to remain sane and hopeful. I had a younger sister and a father. My Dad had nevr cried in front of us but when he finally had the courage to bring us to see her he cried uncontrolably seing the feeding and oxygen tubes.
    My mother lives today. She walks and lives a normal life with just some extra hardware.
    I truly believe if not for the prayers and hope people instilled upon her she would not have made it.
    So I pray for you and yours random stranger.
    Remain strong. Retain hope in your heart.
    Love really does conquor all. Nothing can defeat its instillment in humanity.
    heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart heart


    bethany0426
    Community Member





    Fri Apr 01, 2011 @ 02:17pm


    I wish your mother and you the very best and will keep you in my prayers heart


    potchari
    Community Member





    Fri Apr 01, 2011 @ 06:30pm


    I pray for your mother. heart heart
    Get well soon, mami!!!


    kahaki kiari
    Community Member





    Sat Apr 02, 2011 @ 01:51pm


    Hey, Orphie's mama.

    I hope you will get better and beat this cancer! My mom's boss had the same cancer and she beat it! Get well! We shall all pray for you!


    Arrelkay428
    Community Member





    Mon Apr 04, 2011 @ 07:57am


    To GrandMum: heart
    Wishing you a speedy recovery.
    I included you in my prayers, praying this disease won't spread any further.
    Hoping you will get through with all this process well and safe.
    May the good Lord be with you always, like Mum Orphie . heart
    Lots of love to you both!
    -Huggles- heart


    Princess-Orphelia
    Community Member





    Wed Apr 06, 2011 @ 03:12am


    Hey guys,

    Thanks so much for all your lovely wishes. My mum was pleased to see so many. This really brightened up her day.

    She told me to tell everyone that she wishes good luck and lots of love and hugs, to everyone. heart

    We both hope that you got a lovely little something, as this was her idea.

    Thanks again, and God bless you all.

    See you very soon. And remember to keep smiling, because a smile is what makes your day. And always remember that.

    I'm so going to miss you all. But I'll be back. Not sure when, but I'll be back.

    Hugs and love
    Orphie. heart


    Matriarch-of-fire
    Community Member





    Wed Apr 06, 2011 @ 04:45am


    Saying a prayer for you , Orphie's mum. Hope you'll have a speedy recovery heart


    Morphileus
    Community Member





    Wed Apr 27, 2011 @ 05:32am


    hope she'll recover unlike my couz'


    ScarredRavens
    Community Member





    Sat Dec 10, 2011 @ 04:24am


    I hope that your mom gets better soon and kicks cancer's butt~!


    User Comments: [49]
     
     
    Manage Your Items
    Other Stuff
    Get GCash
    Offers
    Get Items
    More Items
    Where Everyone Hangs Out
    Other Community Areas
    Virtual Spaces
    Fun Stuff
    Gaia's Games
    Mini-Games
    Play with GCash
    Play with Platinum