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I blame myself for allowing myself to get hurt for loving, and not expecting to hurt, to be told that I was hated by the one person I found happiness in. My happiness was laid in the foundation of making the promise to make someone happy...but what do you do when that person tells you they hate you, because they love someone else?
My world came crumbling down, turned to dust, and disappeared along with my any hint of hope as it had been plucked away from my hand from the pain of being told that I'm hated by the one I love.
I still suffer the pain of losing someone I envisioned myself to be with in the future, and the only thing I can do is still keep my promise, but in a different way. If the one you love truly loves someone else, then I can only make that person happy by letting them be and just be happy with someone else. It would make a prison of my whole self to let the one I love find love with another man, but I can't be selfish, delve too much in my loss, or have potentially false hopes that I'll soon have my one love back again, and I must honor that friend and let her be happy.
It is the hardest thing I had to do since I still love her, to hold a smile and show people that everything is ok, but...I really gotta be happy for her. She changed my life, and I'll never forget her.
May God bring me back to my feet and give me the strength to hold myself up and do good.
Love you...