Experimenting or just confused?

[noigel]

Okay I know this girl. Last year she "came out" as bisexual. She then started a secret "relationship" with her best friend because her friend was "experimenting." My friend even admitted to liking girls over boys and being the dominant partner too. But then this year now that her friend has moved away, she says she's straight and even talks down on homosexuality. She says whenever she sees a gay couple she feels uncomfortable and weird and that if she ever has a gay kid she would be disappointed....

I was just wonder, Why the sudden change? It seems like yesterday you were all rubbin up on your "girlfriend's" leg and buying her rings....Now this?

Is she now just suppressing her true feelings or was just involved in some harmless experimenting? What do you think.  

[TheLostAngel-Mika]

i think she's just hiding her true feelings. Maybe evrytime she sees a gay couple, she's reminded of her lost relationship  

[Kelai_Caberin]

Maybe she got s**t for being in that relationship and is now surpressing her feelings.  

[iLegoBlock]

Mabye she was just experimenting, and now she is ashamed about it, and doesnt like to be reminded.

Who knows?

 

[NocturnalPoemIX]

TheLostAngel-Mika

i think she's just hiding her true feelings. Maybe evrytime she sees a gay couple, she's reminded of her lost relationship

 

[cvbkfgbkjmgbcj]

it could be either....time will tell.  

[Princess Sumire]

The only way you're going to know is if she tells you.  

[Atrum_Anima]

From my experience, it seems that she's doing whatever she thinks is "cool" or trying to follow a trend. She's most likely being influenced by some other person who is part of a larger group of local trend-setters. "Yesterday, it was cool to experiment, but now it's gross, isn't it?"  

[eat more happy]

Why don't you ask her?

 

[DJ Arctic Wolf]

Maybe where she moved looks down on homosexuals so she tries to suppress her love so that she wont be ridiculed or attacked  

[Hugel]

Just ask her and don't reinforce her when she down plays anyone else.  

[FeenixPhyre18]

TheLostAngel-Mika

i think she's just hiding her true feelings. Maybe evrytime she sees a gay couple, she's reminded of her lost relationship

This.  

[Robotic Zamat]

eat more happy

Why don't you ask her?

Yup: there's an idea. You can speculate all you like, only she can tells what its really about...  

[Gaara_evil_cookie]

Atrum_Anima

From my experience, it seems that she's doing whatever she thinks is "cool" or trying to follow a trend. She's most likely being influenced by some other person who is part of a larger group of local trend-setters. "Yesterday, it was cool to experiment, but now it's gross, isn't it?"

I totally agree with this. I have seen this happen before ninja

I don't think it's about the "lost love" thing that a lot of people keep on saying.  

[AstridMiriam]

People change there minds alot its confusing.