Picture time! Got three garden updates and one super secret bonus! Though if you saw my last post you can probably guess what it is.
Anywizzy, here are some plants.
The dragon fruit grew some more since the last time I showed it to you.
The okra grew some more okra. We ate the last batch. :Y
And the original dragon fruit is still growing among the wild berries. It kinda fell over because the base dissolved away. I'm surprised it lived. It got some pretty nasty frost rot last winter.
I thought about what I done and here's my observation:
I realized that what I have been doing is exactly what my dad is doing: He has been harassing my mom through the court system and this is infringing on a court agreement. What's worse is that my dad is expecting me to love him, which I cannot do as long as he's causing distress towards my mom.
How does this relate to what I did? I was harassing those who have me blocked and it's causing distress to their friends. I was also forcing them to at least tolerate me.
Because I vow to never ever be like my dad, which is a challenge as I grew up with his many bad habits and faulty knowledge on how the world works, I will never bother those again. If something like the incident comes up, I'll just get up and walk away until it passes as it's the right thing to do.
I hope to never ever leave my friends behind like that again: They are all I have left right now and I cannot afford to toss them away.
If you guys want some updates on what I have been doing since I was gone, holler.