Lady`Tikani
Witchling_Blaise
Lady`Tikani
Cogent Dream
As bad as it sounds, for girls, the more times you do it, the less attractive you become as a long-term partner. There's nothing wrong with premarital sex itself though.
Well this is pretty sexist.
No. It's a statement, that as awful and as "sexist" as it sounds, is complete and utter truth.
Anthropologically, we, as a society, rank sex high on our priority list. Though, some of us tend to repress or not acknowledge it more than others. Men can sleep with lots of women in any amount of time and still be saught after as a potential life or long term partner. They have skills and knowledge that is desirable in the bedroom. Women, however, are still thought of as proper and to either have pre-marital sex a few times, or just as many times as the examle set of men, are shunned for being, as society deems, sluts, or easy. Not to mention that men constantly go for younger women, if not for or during midlife crisis, to carve another notch on their poll, so to speak.
I have no idea where you got "anthropologically" from, but
biologically (which is what I think you were going for) human beings do prioritize sex, just as every other species does. It's important to keep the species alive. If you prefer your life-long partner, male or female, to not have slept with many people, that's okay. However, do not say that men can do a thing that women can't do. Socially women are viewed as "easy" or "slutty," you are right. But that mindset is wrong. It's wrong to view two people differently over the same actions because they are of a different sex. Saying things like "Men sleep around because they want to 'carve another notch on their
pole'" and that it is "complete and utter truth" that women are unattractive because they enjoy sex is bigoted and stupid. And reinforces sexism. So I would prefer if you didn't do that.
an·thro·pol·o·gy
[an-thruh-pol-uh-jee]
noun
1.
the science that deals with the origins, physical and cultural development, biological characteristics, and social customs and beliefs of humankind.
2.
the study of human beings' similarity to and divergence from other animals.
3.
the science of humans and their works.
4.
Also called philosophical anthropology. the study of the nature and essence of humankind.
I have the term right. I can see where you got confused. That's okay. And, I'd like to ask, where in my post did I say that "woman are unattractive because they enjoy sex"? I am a woman. I LOVE sex. I've had many partners, male and female and I am coming from an UNBIASED opinion. This is a touchy subject, no doubt about it, but it's a question that deserves answers from EVERYONE who feels the need to supply one.
Also, I don't support, or reinforce, sexism, as you so
kindly said. I am all about women kicking butt in things that men generally do. I'm working on my AS degree in Automotive Technology, thank you. I am all for women being empowered. I am just bringing to light how a learned mind should, in my opinion, respond: Logically.