Ixithel
Me and my bf use pills, he pulls out. The doctor told me that the pill is effective enough that even if you had him c** inside you, you'd have a unlikely chance of getting pregnant. So taking that out of proportion since he doesn't spill his man seed in you... then whats the issue? You don't HAVE to use condoms to have safe sex. Condoms fail like anything else could. But intercourse is going to tempt fate no matter what you try to do.
The full idea of "safe sex" is to prevent against both pregnancy and STD's (which can be potentially fatal, either to ones health or to ones life) But yes, as I also said, even with contraception pregnancy is possible. (My sister has been on the pill, used condoms, had the implant, and still fell pregnant on each. Nuff said really.)
Ixithel
Do you blow him before sex? If so, then wouldn't that pull up the precum anyway?
And you know men ooze precum during sex so you might have a bit inside regardless. So yes, your vow is ridiculous and paranoid.
Although research shows that pre-c** is not as swimmer-filled as a full on orgasm, (aimed at the OP's following post), there is actually still a chance of there being active sperm in pre-c**. It's rare, yes, but still possible, to fall pregnant even using the withdrawal method (how do you think some teens and "surprised" couples/women fell pregnant? By believing that pre-c** isn't a pregnancy risk).
So I agree with this poster (and would've actually said this myself if they hadn't said it first).
Something to take note of. If your man is not circumcised (I don't particularly wish to know if he is or not, to be honest) showering would still be hygienic. Take your theory that urinating flushes out the c**. If he's not snipped, any sperm droplets are easily caught under the foreskin. Same would go for urine. Biggest health issue for men in this area with foreskin is not properly cleaning themselves.
If your man is circumcised then this isn't an issue. If he isn't, it can be an issue. Like I said, I don't wish to hear details.
As a random thought, why not get each other off without it being intercourse? Right now he's fine to masturbate but not up for sex, why not make that your intimate time, while you're going through a "dry spell"? And again Ix said it, explain how it's making you feel.