I told my friend to get a prenup...

[Bunghole Atrocities]

Metroid Dread

i see this s**t too often
its turned me off marriage completely

What it should do is make you look at the state of gender roles.

[Metroid Dread]

M Grognon

Metroid Dread

i see this s**t too often
its turned me off marriage completely

What it should do is make you look at the state of gender roles.

do i need to check my privilege
do i need to save my rights

im never sure which extreme people are pushing me towards

[No Ur A Towel]

People who go into marriage usually do it for cultural, emotional, and/or family reasons. Those aren't usually very logical reasons so they idea of a prenup is going to clash with original foundation for the two getting married. If someone goes into marriage for lower tax rates or because being married is some benefit over just dating, then prenups shouldn't be a problem for the couple.
I don't care if people get married or not. I would like to see fairness on all levels, but that's not going to happen in our lifetime. lol

[xXMiss_CoffeeXx]

Prenups have nothing to do with child support. They made the child so no matter what it's their obligation to help take care of them.

[Bunghole Atrocities]

Metroid Dread

M Grognon

Metroid Dread

i see this s**t too often
its turned me off marriage completely

What it should do is make you look at the state of gender roles.

do i need to check my privilege
do i need to save my rights

im never sure which extreme people are pushing me towards

Rights and privileges are different from gender roles.
They may be added to a gender, but they're separate things (in my mind, at least)
I'm not pushing you to any extreme, I'm saying to really look at the state of both genders.

[Metroid Dread]

M Grognon

Metroid Dread

M Grognon

Metroid Dread

i see this s**t too often
its turned me off marriage completely

What it should do is make you look at the state of gender roles.

do i need to check my privilege
do i need to save my rights

im never sure which extreme people are pushing me towards

Rights and privileges are different from gender roles.
They may be added to a gender, but they're separate things (in my mind, at least)
I'm not pushing you to any extreme, I'm saying to really look at the state of both genders.

are women being ushered into a state of sloth and laziness expecting men to to take care of them
are men becoming too complacent with the amount of abuse theyll take in the name of not appearing sexist

im gonna hurl
emotion_puke

[Bunghole Atrocities]

Michelle Soulia

Prenups have nothing to do with child support. They made the child so no matter what it's their obligation to help take care of them.

There is no way to tell if the mother is even spending the money on the child.
Not to mention how little leeway there is for the father.
Also, men making child support/alimony payment are three times more likely to kill themselves.
Does that not sound like the system is in need of some tweaking?
Or are all these men deadbeats?

[xXMiss_CoffeeXx]

M Grognon

Michelle Soulia

Prenups have nothing to do with child support. They made the child so no matter what it's their obligation to help take care of them.

There is no way to tell if the mother is even spending the money on the child.
Not to mention how little leeway there is for the father.
Also, men making child support/alimony payment are three times more likely to kill themselves.
Does that not sound like the system is in need of some tweaking?
Or are all these men deadbeats?

A woman has to pay child support if the child is placed with the father. It's not just a man thing.

[Bunghole Atrocities]

Metroid Dread

are women being ushered into a state of sloth and laziness expecting men to to take care of them
are men becoming too complacent with the amount of abuse theyll take in the name of not appearing sexist

im gonna hurl
emotion_puke

You, sir, are too flippant for my taste.

[Bunghole Atrocities]

Michelle Soulia

M Grognon

Michelle Soulia

Prenups have nothing to do with child support. They made the child so no matter what it's their obligation to help take care of them.

There is no way to tell if the mother is even spending the money on the child.
Not to mention how little leeway there is for the father.
Also, men making child support/alimony payment are three times more likely to kill themselves.
Does that not sound like the system is in need of some tweaking?
Or are all these men deadbeats?

A woman has to pay child support if the child is placed with the father. It's not just a man thing.

Those cases don't even make up 10% of child support/alimony cases.
You really think there's equal treatment for men and women paying child support?

[Metroid Dread]

M Grognon

Metroid Dread

are women being ushered into a state of sloth and laziness expecting men to to take care of them
are men becoming too complacent with the amount of abuse theyll take in the name of not appearing sexist

im gonna hurl
emotion_puke

You, sir, are too flippant for my taste.

why cant we just come to a happy medium where everyone keeps their s**t and no one owes anyone anything they didnt take

[xXMiss_CoffeeXx]

M Grognon

Michelle Soulia

M Grognon

Michelle Soulia

Prenups have nothing to do with child support. They made the child so no matter what it's their obligation to help take care of them.

There is no way to tell if the mother is even spending the money on the child.
Not to mention how little leeway there is for the father.
Also, men making child support/alimony payment are three times more likely to kill themselves.
Does that not sound like the system is in need of some tweaking?
Or are all these men deadbeats?

A woman has to pay child support if the child is placed with the father. It's not just a man thing.

Those cases don't even make up 10% of child support/alimony cases.
You really think there's equal treatment for men and women paying child support?

Obviously men and woman aren't going to see eye to eye on it. I've seen my mother struggle to support us on her own. I've known men that don't get to see their kids regularly but pay child support. Every situation is different and I'm not going to say it's the same for everyone.

[Bunghole Atrocities]

Metroid Dread

M Grognon

Metroid Dread

are women being ushered into a state of sloth and laziness expecting men to to take care of them
are men becoming too complacent with the amount of abuse theyll take in the name of not appearing sexist

im gonna hurl
emotion_puke

You, sir, are too flippant for my taste.

why cant we just come to a happy medium where everyone keeps their s**t and no one owes anyone anything they didnt take

It's gonna sound cliche, but I blame feminism. lol

[and we crashed]

ya im not signing s**t unless im the 1 with all the money......

[Metroid Dread]

M Grognon

Metroid Dread

M Grognon

Metroid Dread

are women being ushered into a state of sloth and laziness expecting men to to take care of them
are men becoming too complacent with the amount of abuse theyll take in the name of not appearing sexist

im gonna hurl
emotion_puke

You, sir, are too flippant for my taste.

why cant we just come to a happy medium where everyone keeps their s**t and no one owes anyone anything they didnt take

It's gonna sound cliche, but I blame feminism. lol

as a whole or those members who see fit to scream persecution every time a gust of wind ruffles the hair of a pristine flawless woman?