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[RavenBrighid]

Fall Out Bouy

ItsSpikeHere

Some people struggle with my preferred pronouns. sweatdrop Plus I have a hard time correcting people. Especially if they're gonna sit there and argue with me about it. I do have some friends who use them, and definitely some who have no problem using my preferred pronouns.
I'm doing pretty well, could have been a bit more productive today but all things considered i did ok. it's not completely over yet lol.

yeah i completely understand where you're coming from with that. i still have to go with he/him pronouns when around people i'm not really close to like teachers and classmates.
the main people i'm worried about with my pronouns are people who understand and are open about them, and close friends because i spend more time around them anyways.
i think everyone needs a lazy day now and then, so it's alright that you weren't extremely productive!
i hope you remembered to drink water today!

Yeah sometimes it's too much work to try to explain to certain people. And some people just can't seem to grasp it. Others I think just don't feel they should have to make any effort, but I've learned not to make too big a deal out of pronouns, and focus on more deliberate and more easily-remedied forms of misgendering. Even my own fiancee is new to all this and so I don't give her a hard time about pronouns, but if she calls me "boy" "man" or anything like that I do remind her.

I've been keeping well hydrated, thanks for asking. 3nodding

[RynDraik]

Fall Out Bouy

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-laughs- It's fine. No harm no foul.
I still get called ma'am alot and I try not
to say anything in public because I know
in my case most people just see my
chest and go for the obvious.

Alittle off topic. The pronouns you prefer,
if I misuse or misgender you I apologize
I'm not great with neutral pronouns.

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[RavenBrighid]

RynDraik

ItsSpikeHere

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Very true. By the way, nice to see another
pagan in here. -smiles- Makes three of us.

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Hehe of course smile I love meeting fellow Pagans.

[RavenBrighid]

White Wolf Kain

ItsSpikeHere

I'm doing pretty well, and yourself?

Decent enough, kind of a slow day. Been consolidating my things and preparing for a big move.

I have so much that I need to go through stuff wise it's overwhelming over here. sweatdrop It's hard when you live in an apartment with someone and you both are packrats in different ways lol.

[RynDraik]

ItsSpikeHere

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Same it's always interesting. My mate, Kain,
is too. So did you discover it on your own
or were you raised?

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[White Wolf Kain]

ItsSpikeHere

White Wolf Kain

ItsSpikeHere

I'm doing pretty well, and yourself?

Decent enough, kind of a slow day. Been consolidating my things and preparing for a big move.

I have so much that I need to go through stuff wise it's overwhelming over here. sweatdrop It's hard when you live in an apartment with someone and you both are packrats in different ways lol.

I move quite often so i usually keep what I own to a minimum, if I stay in one place for a long time i become a pack rat too lol

[RavenBrighid]

RynDraik

ItsSpikeHere

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Same it's always interesting. My mate, Kain,
is too. So did you discover it on your own
or were you raised?

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I discovered it through an ex, actually. She was Wiccan (by contemporary definition) and it intrigued me so I joined a local Witch and Pagan group, and that was the beginning of my journey. I was an atheist at the time.

[RavenBrighid]

White Wolf Kain

ItsSpikeHere

White Wolf Kain

ItsSpikeHere

I'm doing pretty well, and yourself?

Decent enough, kind of a slow day. Been consolidating my things and preparing for a big move.

I have so much that I need to go through stuff wise it's overwhelming over here. sweatdrop It's hard when you live in an apartment with someone and you both are packrats in different ways lol.

I move quite often so i usually keep what I own to a minimum, if I stay in one place for a long time i become a pack rat too lol

Yeah I think it's the fact that I'm a pagan so I tend to have a lot of that type of stuff, but I also have games and game consoles, movies, books, and other geeky stuff that takes up space, plus probably too many clothes. it gets overwhelming lol.

[White Wolf Kain]

ItsSpikeHere

Yeah I think it's the fact that I'm a pagan so I tend to have a lot of that type of stuff, but I also have games and game consoles, movies, books, and other geeky stuff that takes up space, plus probably too many clothes. it gets overwhelming lol.

Haha all my clothes fit in two loads in the washer. I don't own much razz

[RynDraik]

ItsSpikeHere

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That's cool. Sorry I'm really curious about
how other people get into the religion.
I was raised... so not much to say there. sweatdrop

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[RavenBrighid]

White Wolf Kain

ItsSpikeHere

Yeah I think it's the fact that I'm a pagan so I tend to have a lot of that type of stuff, but I also have games and game consoles, movies, books, and other geeky stuff that takes up space, plus probably too many clothes. it gets overwhelming lol.

Haha all my clothes fit in two loads in the washer. I don't own much razz

Yeah I.....have WAY more than that lol. Should probably get rid of some tbh.

[RavenBrighid]

RynDraik

ItsSpikeHere

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That's cool. Sorry I'm really curious about
how other people get into the religion.
I was raised... so not much to say there. sweatdrop

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I'm very comfortable talking about it, don't worry. 3nodding OMG i'm so upset though, Margot Adler passed away crying

[White Wolf Kain]

ItsSpikeHere

White Wolf Kain

ItsSpikeHere

Yeah I think it's the fact that I'm a pagan so I tend to have a lot of that type of stuff, but I also have games and game consoles, movies, books, and other geeky stuff that takes up space, plus probably too many clothes. it gets overwhelming lol.

Haha all my clothes fit in two loads in the washer. I don't own much razz

Yeah I.....have WAY more than that lol. Should probably get rid of some tbh.

I have about two weeks worth of clothes lol. As for everything else it's pretty much just my comics, my laptop, and my Alternative Press mags.

[RavenBrighid]

White Wolf Kain

ItsSpikeHere

White Wolf Kain

ItsSpikeHere

Yeah I think it's the fact that I'm a pagan so I tend to have a lot of that type of stuff, but I also have games and game consoles, movies, books, and other geeky stuff that takes up space, plus probably too many clothes. it gets overwhelming lol.

Haha all my clothes fit in two loads in the washer. I don't own much razz

Yeah I.....have WAY more than that lol. Should probably get rid of some tbh.

I have about two weeks worth of clothes lol. As for everything else it's pretty much just my comics, my laptop, and my Alternative Press mags.

I could learn from you. sweatdrop I really need to figure out what is useful to me and what isn't. I have a hard time letting go of stuff.

[RynDraik]

ItsSpikeHere

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Sorry...?
I'm not sure who that is.

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