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Report | 05/21/2017 2:15 pm

Fractured_Unity

bc she's terrified to so much as mention me as to avoid upsetting him.
when we dated, she complained to him about what was making her upset (which were NOT things I was doing incorrectly, but rather worries that she never voiced to me) so his understanding of me is mostly negative as a result. she never BOTHERED to tell him the good stuff. and, he assumes that bc I am the age I am, and we met online, I'm not trustworthy.

Report | 05/21/2017 2:12 pm

Fractured_Unity

yes, I know.
but in this instance, it'd be far easier and more prudent for her to try and "sell" me to him, so to speak. since they have the frequent contact. if she wants me in her life, she should be trying to bridge said gap. it's not really my place to do so, especially considering he's on the other side of the country, and they talk frequently.

Report | 05/21/2017 2:07 pm

Fractured_Unity

it's not really an option. besides, I believe he dislikes me so strongly just for being around her that he wouldn't WANT to get to know me.

Report | 05/21/2017 2:03 pm

Fractured_Unity

in this case, it's more her parroting her father's worries. bc he doesn't know me, he assumes the worst. y'know, despite her actually knowing me and knowing better.

Report | 05/17/2017 5:16 pm

Fractured_Unity

to be fair, neither do comments from people who don't understand the circumstances or the context. (just saying, I don't get this way over nothing anymore.)
I'm suffering due to a ridiculous situation and mindset on the part of another person. and they cling to fear over being happy. at my expense. so yes, I've kinda learned I'm of minimal importance if being worried is more important than me and the happiness this person has ADMITTED to me giving them.

Report | 05/16/2017 4:56 pm

Fractured_Unity

sweatdrop
the joke of it is, I also took a pic w/o any size reference, so people would assume it's a normal sized die. then I show that second pic (this one) and it blows their mind when they see the difference in expected scale.

Report | 05/16/2017 4:53 pm

Fractured_Unity

this. (it's my own image, so no need to worry)

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the die.

Report | 03/19/2017 3:53 pm

Simply Keira

It's always good to see you online. Hope everything is going well for you!

Report | 03/18/2017 3:27 pm

Simply Keira

YW!
I just happened to see you online, which is rare for me. biggrin

Report | 03/14/2017 12:49 pm

Agent_Yevon

Awe inspiring Avatar, as always.
Also, check your post.

Report | 02/18/2017 6:34 pm

Fractured_Unity

you know me, semi-important is about as important as I can ever be.

Report | 01/15/2017 2:44 pm

Fractured_Unity

well, I have the first, third, and fourth of those things. not so much sunshine though, but I'll buy a grow lamp. emotion_awesome
I guess so. sweatdrop

thanks, I hope so too! ttyl.

Report | 01/15/2017 2:26 pm

Fractured_Unity

social anxiety doesn't really come into play if I know the person. honestly, we just joked around a lot, played video games, and talked. it felt good, like a long-term close friendship despite it being only a few hours of time spent in person. we were friends for six months or so before dating, and dated for nearly two months before meeting.
mostly a timing thing. how busy one party is vs the amount of time allowable for conversation. too much work, not enough time.

Report | 01/15/2017 2:15 pm

Fractured_Unity

there is at her house though. it's a state route. tractor-trailers pass at all times of day. pfft, bike. lol

that seems kinda insulting tbh. gonk
we got along perfectly, were happy together, and there was nothing wrong between us. it was mostly a fear and logistics thing...and there's still a chance we can make it work again./
well...that's true. but, it is what it is. sound and distraction kills me, and they're nothing but sound and distraction.

surprised

Report | 01/15/2017 1:59 pm

Fractured_Unity

don't tell me what to do! you're not my mom! *runs into traffic barefoot*

the relationship status? it's better than it seems. besides, what good does being upset do?
or if you meant the family situation, well, I'm just used to it and trapped by it.

burning_eyes

Report | 01/15/2017 1:47 pm

Fractured_Unity

I'm plenty growed up! can even cross the street by myself! scream
nope, we broke up back before Christmas. we're still close, but not together anymore.

not possible, sadly. it's either stay here and be miserable with some privacy, or be home and be miserable with no privacy.

sweatdrop

Report | 01/15/2017 1:41 pm

Fractured_Unity

yep, and the second. tbh, the breakup had nothing to do with me or how I acted/didn't act. it was due to stress and worry on her part.
her apartment. nope, no family nearby. her mother lives about half an hour away.

indeed.
no, she and my entire family are paranoid about everything. always have been. it's...impossible to be nice to her. she infuriates me on a daily basis.

gonk

Report | 01/14/2017 5:00 pm

Fractured_Unity

it's reasonable though. not much of a strain either, bc the actual route is really simple. almost a straight line.
yep, that was the first visit, over Thanksgiving.
true, but hard to think like that in the moment. especially when starving, cold, tired, and bored. sweatdrop

freezing rain's probably the most dangerous weather type too. sheer ice, nothing to give traction like snow. usually results in downed trees and power lines too.
that, and she's just cowardly about everything. excessive, needless, senseless worry.

yeah, you do need a new tactic. gonk
okay, ttyl.

Report | 01/14/2017 4:11 pm

Fractured_Unity

you sent it, I was just away. making my grandmother panic.
she's terrified everything's a solid sheet of ice out there. I walked down and got the mail, against her wishes.

Report | 01/14/2017 4:10 pm

Fractured_Unity

about 45 minutes away. and we know the area well. in the city, and we used to live in the city. plus, my mother works in that specific area.

week of Winter. lol
we had snow, and now have freezing rain.

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