About

Me?
I finally got tired of having an empty profile, but didn't know what to put in it, so I stole the idea from a dating site =x
Simple stuff, I'm 27, genderweirds (more at the bottom), a fantasy nerd, a computer user not a computer expert, I'm very affectionate and my friends are my life, and if you ever see me active on gaia, its because my friend life has slowed down or changed and it prompts me to try and find someone new to becomes friends or more with. I'm big into conversations with content to them, I don't like small talk. I'm an emotional person seeking relationships that are emotionally active, I keep a relatively small number of friends who I'm very attached to and pretty much don't talk to anyone else. I'm goofy, playful, silly, I love to make people smile, but I'm very capable of serious stuff. Honesty and openness is Extremely important for me, I don't lie about things, I'm open and straightforward as much as I can be, and people who are not open and forward and honest just do not interest me at all, I seriously just do not have time/energy for manipulators. I'm a simple person with complicated feelings.
Everyone calls me cute! I don't get it, but there it is. I'm probably cute, so that's a thing.
I'm weird, and I don't have much of a filter.
I live in Maryland, which is the center of the East Coast USA for those who don't know what/where that is. Eastern Standard Time.
I'm a bit of a lazy nerd, but I Want to be active, I love physical activities and going on walks.
Owl the Eyeless is my best friend, like my other half. We're not dating, but they're emotionally involved with me, we spend lots of time together, they're very important. This is non-negotiable.
What I'm doing with myself atm is...
I work part-time at an adult novelty store. I have several groups of friends who I see during the week, for gaming or hanging out. I spend a lot of time online talking with friends, and I have a bunch of interests that I'll spend my time on, reading writing and creating for the most part. I play a few select videogames and play tabletops with friends.
I'm skilled with...
Putting things off, sword fighting, dancing (not choreographing), I can use two whips at the same time, I have some mild drawing talent but I only ever use it for making maps for fantasy, I spend a good bit of time working on worldbuilding which could be used for writing or DMing in but I mostly just like it as a hobby, I know how to drive and I'm fairly good at that.
My favorite things are...
Fantasy! I'm a big fantasy nerd. Dungeons and Dragons (specifically the Forgotten Realms), Warcraft, Outlaw Star, Record of Lodoss War, Lord of the Rings, the Fable series, and Arthurian stuff all play a big part in how fantasy exists in my brain.
I generally gravitate toward fantasy for shows and movies, action and adventure and magic stuff, but I also enjoy scifi things. I'm a heathen, I prefer starwars 1 2 and 3 over 4-5-6-7, I just don't much care for the plight of the rebels and smugglers compared to the high action adventures of magical space knights embroiled in a galactic civil war.
My favorite games that I actually play are Path of Exile (hnnng over 3000 hours logged) Minecraft and Dungeons and Dragons. I have other games I really like but I haven't been playing them, things like Super Smash Bros 4, Mass Effect, Assassins Creed, Fable, Final Fantasy.
I love ALL types of music, if its quality I usually like it. I have a history of liking metal more than other types of music, but lately I've been really into 00's pop and classical. I think those examples should give you a good idea about the broadness of my tastes.
I like reading but I don't read a great variety of books, I typically gravitate toward longer series. I've read the Harry Potter series twice and also listened through its audiobooks. Aside from the latest two books, I've read all of the Legend of Drizzt series twice (Yes, all 45 books), when I was younger I read lord of the rings and the artemis fowl series but I was never able to get back into those. I've read a handfull of other D&D books as well, but that's pretty much it. Classics can suck it.
I really like superhero movies and TV shows but I'm not a hero nerd and I've Never been a super hero comic nerd.
I spend a lot of time thinking about...
I usually spend my time either nerding out about power-building things, toying around with ideas for writing and world building for fantasy, or thinking about my friends. I also think about psychology stuff (I have an AA in it, woo) with a focus on gender identity and sex stuff.
On a typical day off...
I either spend all day with friends or I spend the whole day at home on the computer.
Interested in me? Well you should know that...
Currently, I'm gender fluid. I spent the past 6 years before this one being bigender with two very clear gender identities, and this year I've been more of a confused hybrid person, that's still very much going on and it impacts my emotional and sexual things, so I'm not going to be the easiest person to keep track of. When I was bigender, I had my male identity which matched my physical form, tall male, and my female identity was short petite.
I'm not monogamous. I often keep close friends who I'm romantically involved with, and I'm not going to give them up for you. However, I'm very loyal, when I'm with someone, I'm with them. I'm not monogamous, but I'm probably only ever going to have One primary partner at a time, and then just very close friends on the side. I stay to my primary, they are my focus, I do not jump around.
I'm 27 but fairly young-souled, I get along with people between the ages of 22-30, I'm not interested in being romantic or overly intimate with 21 and younger.
I'm pansexual, I like everyone. Lately I've been more into boys and transgirls, and I'm not sure if that's just a coincidence or a preference.
I don't have time for dishonesty. If you have problems with lying about things, don't message me. I don't want to be in your web.
I live at home, but out of choice. I have a job and a car (that I own) I'm not stuck at home because of injury or family issues, its just cheaper not to live on my own.
If you're out of the area, know now that its not likely I'm going to move, I have roots in friends and family and theres nothing I'm running from. I'm not afraid of making plans to visit people.
I'm very slow to open up and warm up to people. I don't go looking for people to date, I look for friends who are available to date if things go well, relationships for me are a thing built on trust and that takes time to establish.
I have phases of focus, I'm not always going to be really focused on socializing, sometimes I'll be really into gaming or nerding out or watching shows, its just how I am, but I'm always staying in contact with people important to me so you will never Not be talking to me.
I'm not a furry but I've always had furry friends and I have a bit of a 'sona, suffice to say the "significant otter" thing is more than just a pun for me :3