I've been reading your posts on LI forum and I wanted to tell you how much your words impressed me when you were helping others (like the girls that got used by the guy she liked). I think you're a wonderful person and I hope things get better between you and your girlfriend!
I liked your comments about slut shaming in the Life Issues thread. Finally, someone gets it! I don't understand why the other girl was having such a hard time realizing that casual sex doesn't make you a bad person. Ugh.
Hey, don't worry about those who are arguing against you and labeling you falsely. Some people, when they hear in-home or nursing care, they automatically jump to negligence and abandonment. There are more of us supporting you and giving you good advice, that we hope you are able to do, to help out your homelife. We understand you love both your brother and father but we also understand how unrealistic the situation is and how demanding your brother's needs are. I worked for a nursing home and in-home care, none of the patients I worked with were angry about where they were, family visited and we offered friendly, safe environments for get-togethers, and the care for said patients were what the families would expect.
If you ever need more support, advice or anything, please comment or message me. I am happy to help.