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Being spoiled is one thing...prefering to play it safe and know responsiblity is another. Our older sister called us spoiled because we prefer to live a innocent sheltered life. Yes we go out when we want or have to and we know most naughty stuff they think we don't know. My oldest has three kids and another on the way and married(?) she's independent on her husband and prefers to do everything herself even though when it comes to electric and food bill she can use the help.
my second oldest has one kid, pinning over her ex-boyfriend who has two kids and a girlfriend, barely living on her own with no job constantly taking our mom's money and wants half of mine i get for babysitting (good money too! XD).
Now as much as i like to have fun like the next person, i prefer responsbilites and putting others who need help before my needs. Money isn't falling from the sky and mom needs all the help she can get with her health going down, so i give my money and time to her rather than going out having babies. Does that make us spoiled? Because we choose to be where our mother needs our help since no one else will? She gave birth to four of us and raised two of us well, i feel that i owe her as a daughter and will happily give back.