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How is it possible to state that you can be in love with out defining the words infatuation and love? How is humanly possible to state that you have emotional feelings towards those who you have not gotten to know on a spiritual basis? How is love possible when most people mistake infatuation for emotional attraction? Love in its self is an unexplainable emotion that brings two couple closer together. Love is also considered to be a mixture of emotional attraction and infatuation.
First of all, the difference between mere infatuation and emotional attraction is that one deals with emotions more the physical appearances. One understands how spiritual connection means more the looks and simple puppy love. A lot of people say it’s the emotions behind the physical attraction that draws “you” to that particular person. People can compare this type of attraction to the senses, in a way were they can feel the love, the connection and sense the soul attraction. An emotional attraction is considered to be the way two individuals feel about each other on a spiritual and emotional basis. All in all emotional attraction is the foundation or building blocks for a successful relation ship.
Secondly, if emotional attraction is the foundation for a successful relation ship, does infatuation have any say in how the relation ship unfolds? Infatuation or “puppy love” is what attracts a particular person to another individual. It’s the looks in to days society that young teenagers and even older adults look for before they even consider the others personality. A few people can state that infatuation plays a key role in building a good strong passionate relation ship. In some cases that can be true in others it’s the others personality and how they connect with you on an emotional level... Moreover, it is considered to be a poor excuse stating that admiration or affection for the others looks, can be a good way to start a relation ship. All in all though infatuation seems to be the big decagon breaker in weather or not to start a relation ship, both sides should take a closer look at how they connect as a whole, for all that glitters is not always gold.
In conclusion, if love is a mixture of emotions that brings two people closer together, and it is also a mixture of infatuation and emotional attraction. Then that leaves one remain question out in the open, how is love possible when most people mistake infatuation for emotional attraction?