i have reached a new level of boredom. i went to the gd section of this site, and posted this beit of sap because i'm wondering what i should do about him. here it is:
o.k like most here i have a relationship problem, but i't soo complicated i'm getting confuesed, and hurt because of my stupidity. but maybe i can get advice from strangers to help me out. well here it goes.
around november of 2004, i met some of my brothers friends, and in the end we all became best friends, well one of them was a guy that i didn't really think to much about untill i found out that he sort of had a little crush on me. i felt it was shocking that someone could like me, so didn't act too much on it, plus he had a girl he liked that clamed him as cuddle buddy; but then he started to act realy really sweet, and started doing the smallest things to show he cares. it was so nice to know that someone could care about me like someone specail rather then a friend, so naturally i started to like him back.
that girl seemed to act more an more like she was just a friend, but still on her birthday he gave her a $300 arawens pendent because he liked her, he was just flirting with me, but it hurt. not just because i liked him, but because that very same day she got a boyfriend, and didn't bother to tell him untill i bitched her out for not doing so before the pendent was given to her. after she did he was crushed, but he still treated her like a friend.
later she move, and came back to visit, some how we ended up having a party at my place, and he acted...i don't know how to describe it...nicer. in a flirtish nature, but still as friends. like how a couple should act. needless to say the other girl was upset for me taking her 'cuddle buddy' for a single night even though he would jump off a cliff if she asked. after eveyrone but him left i went out to say good by to him and we ended up kissing. it was the best feeling i ever had in my life, and i wish he would kiss me like he did, again, but more on that later.
next week when we got together like we always did he started acting like a boyfriend, and cuddling up to me for no reason, and naturally i didn't mind. later i invited him over to discuss what was going on, were we just cuddle buddies, or going out, you know get the tecnical things out of the way well...when i invited him over we eneded up making out, but got nothing resolved. these make out sessions have become much much more.....sexual. in short, i nearly lost my virginity three times.
after a bit we decided that we needed to stop, and i don't think i ever cried so much before that point. i agreed and we didn't see each other for a month, but the moment he saw me next things went back to the way they were before we decided to stop. agian i didn't conplain, but got severly confused.
that happend two more times, and each time same result.
on another note he got back in contact with a friend of his. one that he carries a picture of in his wallet. he loves her, but he said it'd never work out, but it didn't matter because he still loved her, he called her his dream girl once, anyways he got back in contack with her, and ended up going to see her, and i don't know what happend, but now he talks about her non stop. she gave him a necklace as well, and when i realised how much he loves her, and that he got a necklace for her i rememberd the pendent he gave the girl before.
((btw she is a slut, that uses every guy around her and throws them away after she done, never satisfied unless all the men in the room are paying attention only to her))
i want to get that pendent back for him because he needs to give it to someone that he loves, not a slut like that other girl. but i think the c**t lost it, and if she did i'll kill her for it (truth be told not sure how much of a hyperpoly that is)
well as this all has been going on me and the guy have been getting more physical, and i've been one the pill for 4 months because of it. i discovered i love him, and have told him, i think that was around december of this year, but he doen't seem to be wanting to see me, but it seems more like he's coming over because he feels obligated, not because he really wants to see me. that or its the make out sessions. i seem to do all the work, and he doesn't try to please me ever. this has gone on for about a year and a half, and i don't think i'm asking to much to get kissed ever now an then am i? but he doesn't like kissing, and he doesn't even seem like he want to be around me much anymore.
as i said i'm taking the pill, but i'm still a virgin, and for some reason i want to sleep with him to show him that i really do trust him, and everything, but i don't want to yet because i don't think i'll mean anything to him. just another girl that was with once. i don't want to be that to him, and that's why we haven't had sex. i can't bring myself to tell him how i feel about this, but i will....hopefully this weekend.
i want to give up on him, and forget the idea of a relationship with him, but i can bring myself to let him go.
edit: on other notes i'm 17 he's 20, i'm still a virgin, but plan to talk about what the hell is going on to him this weekend. we have never started to go out, and i don't think he plans to with me. i want to tell him how i'm feeling, but i don't know if it would be worth it, a waste of breth, or if i should.
so if any one reads this pm me the awnser instead of leaving a comment. i don't ceck the comments often
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