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-RandomRadRainbows- Vice Captain
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 Posted: Thu May 17, 2007 2:22 pm
i don't know if there's really any advice for this...im just lettin off some steam, feel free to comment.
i don't wanna go to sudbury. and because of this one incident like in january that my parents found out a few weeks ago (i took some alchohol when i was with nikki, dumb eh? i don't drink anymore. it's not worth it, and it worries jake) and so now im not allowed to stay home alone for the weekend cause they lost their trust and they want to punish me for what i did, but what my dad doesn't understand is that ive already learned from my mistake and im being punished enough at school where ive been shunned by a lot of people...not to mention they've been making comments to me about me bein a b***h to nikki apperantly and nikki and krista have been laughing at me behind my back (says phillip) and i don't know, school's such a lonely place for me. i live for the hope that weekends bring me, i can't afford to lose this one since this week's been so difficult on me and jake. he misses me a lot too and i don't like the fact that he's paying for my mistakes as well sad
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2007 2:32 pm
Ah, I see. Looks as though a lot of people care about you. I know it sucks when they try to punish you so harshly, but it does show how worried they are about you and want to do everythin' they can think of to make it seem so incredibly bad to drink so that you never try it again. If you were punished normally, like grounded or somethin', they might think you won't take it seriously. I mean, if everyone wasn't that harsh they'd think you wouldn't take it seriously since they all know that people drink a lot and not give a darn about what their peers and adults say, so they're stereotypin', which is bad but you can't really blame 'em.
As for you and Jake, sometimes you can't help but do somethin' that affects 'em too, but that's what love is all about, sharin' happiness and sharin' sadness. I'm sorry that you miss him so much, but the longer you wait the sweeter the reunitin' will be, and sometimes separation can make relationships better because when you're around someone constantly you tend to run out of umph too fast and then it's just sittin' there and starin' at one another with nothin' to say.
It's hard, and it must really suck and I apologize for that, but I'm sure that in time the trust will return and you'll be in Jake's arms again!
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-RandomRadRainbows- Vice Captain
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2007 2:44 pm
smile awe, yay, that cheered me up, i do agree that they have a valid reason to punish me like this, i just wish that they didn't have a reason to....i sincerely regret what i did, and i don't plan on eer doing something that stupid again, so it's just a bit upsetting that i can't make them believe me fully when i say that i won't do it again. as for jake, i do agree that seperation can be a good thing for a relationship, but i hate the fact that we don't have the option to be together when we need eachother there. after all, we're not allowed on the phone all the time so it's terrible when we feel like we need to talk to eachother or to hold each other but we can't. it's true, the longer we have to wait, the more i freak out when i do see him, like i actually run to the van every time smile thank you for your comments 3nodding heart much appreciated. sorry my posts are so long sweatdrop
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2007 2:58 pm
The longer the better! xd
And have you tried walkin' up to them calmly and calmly apologizin' and sayin' that you understand that what you did was wrong and you're glad that they care so much to punish you? Sometimes that'll get to 'em and they'll let you off earlier. xd
And I'm sure you both have probably had times similar to this, so perhaps rememberin' what you both said to one another can help, since I'm sure the talk would be similar anyway. You both are never really separated, only physically, but when you know a person for so long you just know what they will say or do and you can kind of be with them in your mind and act out in your head how things would be if you could talk with 'em or be with 'em, then it doesn't seem so bad. Or at least that's how I approach it, but my mind is a little out there. sweatdrop
It makes perfect sense to be upset though, I just hope it all ends soon!
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2007 3:03 pm
I've never really had problems with my parents, so I don't know about advice on that. I could pretty much do whatever I wanted as long as I didn't get cops involved. D:
As for being lonely at school, I've been there. Just find a different crowd than what you've been around before. They usually won't care so much about your past.
And not being able to see your boyfriend is tough. I'm currently going through that. Being away from him for periods of time just makes me much more excited to see him when I get the chance.
Eh
Just my views.
You have permission to tell me to shut it
O:
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2007 4:39 pm
Semok The longer the better! xd And have you tried walkin' up to them calmly and calmly apologizin' and sayin' that you understand that what you did was wrong and you're glad that they care so much to punish you? Sometimes that'll get to 'em and they'll let you off earlier. xd And I'm sure you both have probably had times similar to this, so perhaps rememberin' what you both said to one another can help, since I'm sure the talk would be similar anyway. You both are never really separated, only physically, but when you know a person for so long you just know what they will say or do and you can kind of be with them in your mind and act out in your head how things would be if you could talk with 'em or be with 'em, then it doesn't seem so bad. Or at least that's how I approach it, but my mind is a little out there. sweatdrop It makes perfect sense to be upset though, I just hope it all ends soon! well, i have apologized to them calmly, to be honest, i do kind of think i got let off easily, but i know deep down that ive learned my lesson and ive never been the kind to want to punish anyone if they intended on correcting themselves, but it makes sense with them, i know they still care, i just don't think they understand my mind sweatdrop . and what you said about being away from jake and knowing what he'd say or do makes perfect sense to me, we end up feeling better about it all eventually, especially when we write letters to eachother cause then we can still sort of communicate in a way, duno how to explain.
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-RandomRadRainbows- Vice Captain
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-RandomRadRainbows- Vice Captain
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2007 4:45 pm
ATorridLoveAffair I've never really had problems with my parents, so I don't know about advice on that. I could pretty much do whatever I wanted as long as I didn't get cops involved. D:
As for being lonely at school, I've been there. Just find a different crowd than what you've been around before. They usually won't care so much about your past.
And not being able to see your boyfriend is tough. I'm currently going through that. Being away from him for periods of time just makes me much more excited to see him when I get the chance.
Eh
Just my views.
You have permission to tell me to shut it
O: well, for school, i just sort of suck it up. i mean, there are people who don't mind me but they aren't really my FRIENDS either, like they'll say hi and how you doin and all this stuff but i know they don't really want to stay around much cause they've got their best friends and stuff...and i can't go to my cafeteria now cause i can't stand people looking at me, i usually go eat lunch with phil at peace garden cause that way i can be myself and stuff. it's just weird cause he's an odd guy and makes no sense (not in a good way either) he's unpredictable too. but it's manageable, as long as i can go home to my family and to my phone <3 (lol so i can call jake 3nodding heart ) i agree with the bf thing cause as i said before, when i don't see him for longer periods of time i nearly knock him over. there was this one time i hadn't seen him for a few weeks and nikki insisted that we go to her house when he was gonna be at my house in like 15 mins and we didn't have much time and i was walkin up the street near my house and he drived by and waved and i started sprinting and was laughing my butt off all the while but i wouldn't stop even though (srry i know this'll be tmi) i had a majour wedgie but i kept goin and nearly knocked him off his feet when we met up rofl
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2007 5:12 pm
I can see it from a parents point of view, I guess.
Where, even though my kid's apologized to me and said something of the sort of I won't do it again, or I know it's stupid, I would still be inclined to make them finish out the punishment.
Of course, I also know that a continued punishment after that, makes it more likely for a kid to rebel. At least, that's been my friends' experiences.
Ah, but, I would just finish out the time. However, that's mainly how apathy works its way into my life.
Now that I think about this, though...
It's kind of like this: As a parent, you trust your kid, you just don't necessarily trust their friends, or situations they might get themeselves into, but you trust them. Ah but say there's this hypothetical couple, and one half cheats on the other- in most cases it takes awhile to earn that trust back. In a lot of cases (some of them personal experiences), it might also make it seem like you don't know this person anymore... So if you think about it that way, perhaps your punishment is just a way for your parents to figure it out that you still are their little kid that they know and love and trust.
That didn't make sense...
Eh, who knows. I don't.
I don't even want to be a parent.
Relationship-wise, I'm getting vibes that say you're gonna be okay.
I mean, you have better communication with him, than I do with my best friends. : D
But I can relate, because me and my "mate" don't talk frequently, so I'm always excited when they email or log into messenger or something.
When I was at my last school, it was like that. Ugly situations arose- public school's around here aren't too friendly toward different people.
I was in that cafeteria a dozen times, and I went to that school for two years, and I just hung around with a bunch of bad news people, or other "outsiders" that I might not have anything much in common with, but we were there for each other.
I'd also say that being with another crowd works out well. They don't care, and you don't care, so you can just talk and hang out without worrying about things. And sometimes, they become good friends too.
But I'm sure I've taken a lot of your time. ^ ^;
Sorry. sweatdrop
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2007 5:28 pm
katev_92 Semok The longer the better! xd And have you tried walkin' up to them calmly and calmly apologizin' and sayin' that you understand that what you did was wrong and you're glad that they care so much to punish you? Sometimes that'll get to 'em and they'll let you off earlier. xd And I'm sure you both have probably had times similar to this, so perhaps rememberin' what you both said to one another can help, since I'm sure the talk would be similar anyway. You both are never really separated, only physically, but when you know a person for so long you just know what they will say or do and you can kind of be with them in your mind and act out in your head how things would be if you could talk with 'em or be with 'em, then it doesn't seem so bad. Or at least that's how I approach it, but my mind is a little out there. sweatdrop It makes perfect sense to be upset though, I just hope it all ends soon! well, i have apologized to them calmly, to be honest, i do kind of think i got let off easily, but i know deep down that ive learned my lesson and ive never been the kind to want to punish anyone if they intended on correcting themselves, but it makes sense with them, i know they still care, i just don't think they understand my mind sweatdrop . and what you said about being away from jake and knowing what he'd say or do makes perfect sense to me, we end up feeling better about it all eventually, especially when we write letters to eachother cause then we can still sort of communicate in a way, duno how to explain. Writin' letters is so much fun, makes you feel like you're in the old days! whee @RainbowJimmy: I never thought about the whole trustin' the kid but not the friends things, Thankies for the insight!
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2007 5:39 pm
I wish I could write letters.
But someones handwriting looks terrible.
D:
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2007 5:43 pm
ATorridLoveAffair I wish I could write letters.
But someones handwriting looks terrible.
D: Type it?
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2007 6:01 pm
I'm a terrible correspondant...
It's even an 80% chance I don't return an email for a week, if ever.
>>;
But, if I were a better correspondant, and I couldn't write, I totally would go for the typing.
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-RandomRadRainbows- Vice Captain
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Posted: Fri May 18, 2007 12:00 pm
@ rainbow: wasn't a waste of my time, it made a lot of sense, thanks smile
and ya, im not even goin to sudbury now so im super happy xd i know my parents still trust me, i think it's their way of insisting that they have authority over what i can do lol, ill let them punish me till they're ready to give me more freedom again 3nodding
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Posted: Sat May 19, 2007 6:01 pm
[♥]her bone structure screams... Hi.
I don't really have advice sorry, my brain is currently on hyper mdoe from rockstar eek
but the thing Phil was talking about is because one day at lunch Krista ad I were walking down the hall and she was like "what? wheres kaitlyn? I havn't seen her in a long time,does she even come to school?"
And I told her that you just don't eat lunch with us anymore cuz you've shunned me.
Then she said "oh...where does she eat then? in the bathroom in a stall?"(jokingly!)
And it was SO funny.
Sorry if that seems mean, I understand if you take it that way but its not meant to be taken that way sweatdrop ...touch her,touch her![♥]
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-RandomRadRainbows- Vice Captain
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Posted: Sun May 20, 2007 12:23 pm
i don't care anymore. ive seperated my school life and my real life. and sorry it this sounds really bitchy but your part of my school life. sure, school sucks while im there, but then i come home and im happy smile
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