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People can be strange sometimes, but I can understand the need for an emotionally stable man. Someone to be strong. Someone you show them what being firm is about. I console the comfort the one I cherish with all I have, but I'm sure you'll find the man you seek in time. There are plenty of unfeeling men out in the world, for you to have.

On a personal note, I find women like this to be very strange and very DENSE, and probably something I'll never fully comprehend...

There's a difference between being an emotional person and being an emotional manipulator. Women used to pretty much dominate it, but now men are starting to do it too. It's that "if you leave me I'll kill myself" crap that emotionally blackmails someone into staying in an unhealthy relationship.

And seriously, I understand what this woman is talking about. She would rather have someone straightforward than someone who uses devious tactics to prolong the relationship and use shitty "feminine" tactics of emotional blackmail and backstabbing self-esteem undermining.

But on the other hand, I understand that really, what she wants isn't just some unfeeling a*****e. But when faced with the two choices, it's a bit better to be with someone who uses "get you back" tactics that you don't care about.

That's my two cents anyway.