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 Posted: Wed Jan 17, 2007 6:47 pm
C. Brothers... Ok, so once again I come to the Guild of Postivity and Negativity for help.
Ok so here is problem one.
1. Should I just tell my friends I'm gay? Wait before you start to post "If their true friends, they wont care." I'm sick and tired of that post, you guys have no idea how it effects certain people unless you're going through a situation like this.
Anyway, well, the gay guy that everyone thinks is hot, including me, want me to ask him out. I keep lying to them and telling them I'm straight. One of my friends questionaired me:
Friend: Come on go out with him, he's hot!
Me: No, I'm straight.
Friend: Really?
Me: Yes
Friend: Who do you like?!
Me: I'm not telling you.
Then she was like:
Friend: If I was gay, which I'm not, and a guy, which I'm not, I would go and jump on him!
(I just busted out laughing.)
Well the Saturday before, my friends and I were talking about him and me, she was saying he has a good radar and if I would go out with him; I told them no and denied any gay question they popped at me with the real answers.
See, some think I am gay, while others don't know, should I just tell them and get it over with?
Problem 2.
2. I'm having a hard time trying to find and outfit with My #0000FF Complex jacket.
Anyone wan to make an really cool outfit with no limits for me on tektek since you're all so sweet? heart
Problem 3
3. I had a third problem, but I forgot what it was. I'll think about it later, I think it had something to do with Gaia. Oh well, it will pop back into my head. 
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Posted: Wed Jan 17, 2007 6:48 pm
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Posted: Wed Jan 17, 2007 6:50 pm
I say don't tell them, but don't make an effort to hide it. If they ask, tell them. If that one guy asks you out and you want to go with him, go for it.
I'm no good at TekTek nor mind reading, so I can't help you with problems dos y tres. D:
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Posted: Wed Jan 17, 2007 6:50 pm
1 - Maybe they already know?
Just tell them when you feel comfortable,
or just blurt it out and hope for the best?
If you like Mr. Hawtman too, just ask him out!
2 - Off to tektek I go!
:D
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Posted: Wed Jan 17, 2007 6:53 pm
Do you call it solitude? Do you call it liberty?1. sin thinks at this point if you just tell them they wont beleve you.
So sin thinkies you should ask that hot guy who I want pictures of out, and just walk in holding hands with him one day.
actions>words When all the world turns away to leave you lonely
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Posted: Wed Jan 17, 2007 6:56 pm
Enter at......Your Own Risk
1. ummmm don't hide,but don't feel you have to shout it from the roof top.
2. I'll tek tek you if you tek tek me. umm just keep the goddess shoes and the laurels and maybe add the phoenix circlet. and go wild.
3.you wanted to know what pi+pi is and well I have no clue.
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Posted: Wed Jan 17, 2007 6:58 pm
Peles Tears Enter at......Your Own Risk
1. ummmm don't hide,but don't feel you have to shout it from the roof top.
2. I'll tek tek you if you tek tek me. umm just keep the goddess shoes and the laurels and maybe add the phoenix circlet. and go wild.
3.you wanted to know what pi+pi is and well I have no clue.
C. Brothers...
I shall tektek you!
Thanks everyone!
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Posted: Wed Jan 17, 2007 7:02 pm
I think you should tell them. It sounds to me like some of them already think you are, which means they probably would accept you. Good luck, I have no clue what coming out is like emotionally, but from the few people I know who have gone through it, it will be very hit or miss.
Good Luck and remember you have support here.
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Posted: Wed Jan 17, 2007 7:03 pm
Well, seeing as the way you put it they sort of know, or at least have a hunch, just do it. Courage can be hard to muster sometimes, but it depends if you want the happiness of freedom of sexuality or the happiness of fitting in? I just hope you can have both. In the world today, many people with your problem that don't tell that end up miserable. So they should accept it easily. Maybe wean them to the idea you are in some manner to? That's my advice. >>;
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Posted: Wed Jan 17, 2007 7:04 pm
••♥♥••gthb, it sounds to Toastie like they already suspect that you might be gay.
3nodding
And your one friend at least, thinks it's a good idea for you to go out with the hottie. :3
Toastie says go for it.
If all you get out of it is a cute boyfriend, and one really good best friend, that's alright.
Life's not so short that you can't make some new friends who aren't uncomfortable with your sexuality. :3
Toastie might tektek you later.
:3
Depends how she feels. Wallflower...
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Posted: Wed Jan 17, 2007 7:06 pm
.+:{}:+.
I dont think OUR guild is in the right to give advice XDD
If its bothering YOU so much that you think you should tell do it.
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Posted: Wed Jan 17, 2007 7:09 pm
I suppose it all boils down to one question...
Do you really want to keep part of yourself in the dark in order to keep friends that wouldn't accept you for YOU?
I know you're tired of the true friends line, but in all reality, if they'd not want to be your friend because of something like that...ask yourself, do you want to hide what you are to keep those friendships?
And I agree that some of them all ready see. You might be surprised; I think your friends will likely be more accepting than you think. ^^ Maybe not all of them...but it certainly sounds like some of them are.
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Posted: Wed Jan 17, 2007 7:13 pm
My advice is that none of us have a clue what you're going through and therefore any advice we give is bad advice.
Do what your heart tells you to do /cheesy
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Posted: Wed Jan 17, 2007 7:14 pm
I think you should tell HIM. Or give him one of those cute notes from elementary school
"Do you like me?
Yes No
CIRCLE ONE"
heart 4laugh
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Posted: Wed Jan 17, 2007 7:15 pm
inasanemonkey1230 I think you should tell HIM. Or give him one of those cute notes from elementary school "Do you like me? Yes No CIRCLE ONE" heart 4laugh C. Brothers...
XD I'd kill myself if I did or anyone did that for me.
Thanks all. Helped me lot.
Peles - Almost done.
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