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Doumanagi Dazaemon

PostPosted: Tue Nov 28, 2006 9:42 pm


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Yeah I often hear that many cultures overseas OUTSIDE the U.S. actually look upon dating down much more leniently. If you're confused "dating down" is when someone gets together and/or fools around with somebody younger than they are, usually CONSIDERABLY young!

I wanna know how Japan looks at it. How much younger or how far apart in age does the limit of 2 people getting together become viewed as largely unacceptable or inappropraite???

例え: How would a 20-year-old look dating a 16-year-old???

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 28, 2006 10:06 pm


Hmm, interesting topic, but I won't answer it since I don't know. sweatdrop

Clayra


littlewonder

PostPosted: Tue Nov 28, 2006 10:07 pm


I concur.
PostPosted: Tue Nov 28, 2006 10:31 pm


20 t0 16 is odd. 20 t0 18 is pretty exceptable. of course if the woman is older its a whole different story.

but if you dont have parents bugging you, and you dont care about what people whisper about when they get home, it doesnt really matter.

and a 20 year old and an 18 year can have all the sex they want. 18 years is legal sex age.

Aiko_589


BarakReider

PostPosted: Tue Nov 28, 2006 10:38 pm


Doumanagi Dazaemon
User Imageこの世を司るように出された・・・・・・・・・・・・

Yeah I often hear that many cultures overseas OUTSIDE the U.S. actually look upon dating down much more leniently. If you're confused "dating down" is when someone gets together and/or fools around with somebody younger than they are, usually CONSIDERABLY young!

I wanna know how Japan looks at it. How much younger or how far apart in age does the limit of 2 people getting together become viewed as largely unacceptable or inappropraite???

例え: How would a 20-year-old look dating a 16-year-old???

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I always thought it was called robing the cradle. Although usualy when a 20 year old dates a sixteen year old then the 20 year old is called a petifile *spelling*.
PostPosted: Wed Nov 29, 2006 2:06 am


BarakReider
Doumanagi Dazaemon
User Imageこの世を司るように出された・・・・・・・・・・・・

Yeah I often hear that many cultures overseas OUTSIDE the U.S. actually look upon dating down much more leniently. If you're confused "dating down" is when someone gets together and/or fools around with somebody younger than they are, usually CONSIDERABLY young!

I wanna know how Japan looks at it. How much younger or how far apart in age does the limit of 2 people getting together become viewed as largely unacceptable or inappropraite???

例え: How would a 20-year-old look dating a 16-year-old???

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I always thought it was called robing the cradle. Although usualy when a 20 year old dates a sixteen year old then the 20 year old is called a petifile *spelling*.


@spelling: *****... 3nodding

really? 4 years only? what if it's a 35-year-old dating a 31-year-old? Does it still look as inappropriate?

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Clayra

PostPosted: Wed Nov 29, 2006 8:44 am


well, even though it's only 4 years, for younger people (like me) dating an older guy above 4 years would be weird. But when I grow up, it will change. My dad is 14 years older than my mom
PostPosted: Wed Nov 29, 2006 8:07 pm


Aiko_589
20 t0 16 is odd. 20 t0 18 is pretty exceptable. of course if the woman is older its a whole different story.

but if you dont have parents bugging you, and you dont care about what people whisper about when they get home, it doesnt really matter.

and a 20 year old and an 18 year can have all the sex they want. 18 years is legal sex age.
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Technically 13, but with lots of regional laws bringing it up to 18 in most places.

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Aiko_589

PostPosted: Wed Nov 29, 2006 9:18 pm


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Aiko_589
20 t0 16 is odd. 20 t0 18 is pretty exceptable. of course if the woman is older its a whole different story.

but if you dont have parents bugging you, and you dont care about what people whisper about when they get home, it doesnt really matter.

and a 20 year old and an 18 year can have all the sex they want. 18 years is legal sex age.
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Technically 13, but with lots of regional laws bringing it up to 18 in most places.


technically 13, but as you mentioned regional laws.
PostPosted: Wed Nov 29, 2006 9:19 pm


Clayra
well, even though it's only 4 years, for younger people (like me) dating an older guy above 4 years would be weird. But when I grow up, it will change. My dad is 14 years older than my mom

so, when you re mom was 14 he was one?

thats eerie.

Aiko_589


Clayra

PostPosted: Thu Nov 30, 2006 8:23 am


Aiko_589
Clayra
well, even though it's only 4 years, for younger people (like me) dating an older guy above 4 years would be weird. But when I grow up, it will change. My dad is 14 years older than my mom

so, when you re mom was 14 he was one?

thats eerie.

the other way around. I wrote that my dad is 14 years older than my mom. But yeah, when you look at it that way, it's eerie.
PostPosted: Thu Nov 30, 2006 10:05 am



I usually like girls who are around 15-17 years old for some reason...

not to mention that I'm going to be 18 in Jan. =P~!

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Doumanagi Dazaemon

PostPosted: Thu Nov 30, 2006 7:37 pm


Tanaka Yuko

I usually like girls who are around 15-17 years old for some reason...

not to mention that I'm going to be 18 in Jan. =P~!

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Hey thats okay I guess, but not for ME! mrgreen With age the sky's the limit as long as she keeps herself looking good... and young enough! sweatdrop I'm 19, but I get a kick out of getting older gurls to chase after me... xd This one chick I play around with "inappropriately" is actually 34 years old! I love women that much and my eyes don't discriminate... 3nodding

Dating down just isn't all that... attractive to me! xp I like to be around "real" women that at least know how to act like they're really adult-minded... Any gurls under me, a lot of times, act to young and immaturely for my tastes... ninja

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