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 Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2006 7:39 pm
i am 18 years old and i start college in a month. however, about a week ago i descovered i was pregnant. my bf wants a abortion, and i partly support that idea too. if i keep this kid, my due date will be March 1st. what would you think would be the best thing to do.
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2006 8:33 pm
I say let the child live. To even think of taking life before it is born is evil. Think, this child might be the one who discovers a cure for cancer, or some other disease.
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2006 9:04 pm
It's really up to what you want to do. If you think you can go to college and have a kid and still make enough money to live then go for it. I wouldn't really recommend it but it's your thing.
Personally, if I had to choose, I would either have an abortion or give it up for adoption. There are always more oppurtunities to have children in the future and while I don't really support abortion as birth control that much, the baby could "ruin" your life or your college career or at least make it twice as hard.
Really all up to you.
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2006 10:41 pm
It is esentially all up to you dear.
He cannot control you, and we cannot control you. This is a choice you have to make for yourself.
Can you provide this child with an enriching and stimulating environment to grow up in? If not, abortion or adoption is an option.
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Posted: Thu Jul 20, 2006 3:30 pm
Well ,do ur parents know about this?If they do,u can atleast give the child one chance in life.If u cannot handle the responsibility,then put it up for adoption.I am not u so its ur decision but i suggest to give it up for adoption if u cannot handle
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Posted: Fri Jul 21, 2006 4:08 pm
I'd say don't keep it, to do adoption or abortion is your decision because I really don't feel comfortable with telling someone which way to go.
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Posted: Sat Jul 22, 2006 7:47 pm
It is really up to you.If you don't want the baby i would suggest an abortion only because if you say you are going to adopt it out once you carry it for 9 months you may change your mind.Bear in mind this is just advice.The final decision is up to you.
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Posted: Tue Aug 01, 2006 3:54 am
The adoption system is terrible right now.
If you really want to go through pregnancy, well, that's your choice...
But abortion is a very emotional issue.
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Posted: Tue Aug 01, 2006 10:28 am
KageShujin I say let the child live. To even think of taking life before it is born is evil. Think, this child might be the one who discovers a cure for cancer, or some other disease. I agree killing the baby will only hurt you and kill the kid. Keep him or her and love them.
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Posted: Thu Aug 03, 2006 8:54 pm
Please don't abort the baby...
My mom was raped, and she got pregnant. She had just had a divorce and was a new christian trying to feed 2 growing boys. And now this.
She kept the child..and she had a beautiful baby girl named Alexa.
My big sissy.
I wouldn't be here if it wasn't for Alexa...and i love her so much. I would have died if it wasn't for her...please don't abort. If you must, give it up for adoption. My brother and his wife have been trying to have a child for 6 years...they can't. They would give anything to even have a child..
Don't throw that precious gift away.
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Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2006 5:32 pm
I did a huge research paper on this in school. Statistics show that the very vast majority of the women who abort become extremely depressed and regret it the minute they descide. While adoption would be a tougher choice than keeping it ('cause you see your child and instantly have feelings for it) it would be much much better knowing that you gave the child a chance to have the life it deserves.
Personally though, I would say keep it; the child is yours and it's your descision whether you want to keep it or not. But if you do, despite the hardships, it'll be much more worth it than you'd think.
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Posted: Thu Aug 10, 2006 2:08 pm
i decided to have it and i want to keep it but that boat has yet to sale.
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Posted: Thu Aug 10, 2006 8:35 pm
Spirit_of_Aphrodite i decided to have it and i want to keep it but that boat has yet to sale. Have it, as in abort? crying gonk Or as in keep the child? 3nodding 4laugh
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Posted: Sat Aug 12, 2006 2:38 pm
I think you should keep it. I think its wrong to take away life, especially a life that hasn't been born yet. Your baby has a heart now, and it can breathe. Its like murdering a small inocent child. Could you live with yourself for doing that?
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Posted: Thu Aug 17, 2006 4:29 pm
kuraichouwa Spirit_of_Aphrodite i decided to have it and i want to keep it but that boat has yet to sale. Have it, as in abort? crying gonk Or as in keep the child? 3nodding 4laugh as in keep.
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