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 Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 5:50 am
My boyfriend lives in texas, but his mom lives in japan. The past week he has been in japan with his mother. He was suppose to come to pennsylvania this weekend; I was suppose to pick him up. My dad had a bad feeling I guess, so he wouldn't take me to the air port to pick up my boyfriend unless he called first. He never called though. I became really worried and angry. What if he was waiting at the airport or something, kept running through my head. I called all my friends and practically yelled at them from freaking out so much. As time passed I decided to call my boyfriends dad. When I called his dad he had no clue who I was. He also informed me that Josh was in Iowa right now, with his best friend, who just so happens to be a girl. So you do the math...
Thank God I didn't go to the airport, but it still hurts and he still stood me up. You'll see that it doesn't say I love shadow2022003 in my sig anymore, well, that's because that was my boyfriends username on gaia. He and I were suppose to go to college together, he wanted to see me. I wanted to see him, but obviously he's a jerk.
I'm pretty upset right now, but I'm a strong person and I've been heart broken before. The plus side is.. I was able to sell the silver promise ring he "bought" me here on gaia.. more gold for me!
The bad side.. is I have been betrayed and I've been betrayed too many times in my life..
The question is... is there any good guys in this world? and if so... why do I get stuck with jerky guys?
signed,
skygray
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Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 8:19 am
I'm very sorry that your boyfriend stood you up. Are you sure that this other girl is his girlfriend? It's true that he didn't come to see you, but is IS possible for girls and guys to be just friends.
You will find the right guy eventually. There are still some decent men in this world even if it doesn't seem that way.
Just hang in there and love will find you.
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Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 9:06 am
That is probably the worst possible thing that any guy could do. To disappoint someone like that is terrible. But. I want you to talk to him. I mean, I know things look horrible, but what if it isn't what you think? You said yourself that his father doesn't know you, so it isn't likely you have a good view of the situation. Wait until you hear from your boyfriend before letting your broken heart shattered.
If it turns out that he really did just stand you up, abandon his plans for someone else, then you will have to move on. Do you know how to recover from this?
And yes, there are many great guys in the world. I would think that up until recently, you believed you had one. Any guy can be good in a certain light. Maybe you didn't know him as well as you thought? But there will always be someone else out there; you will find love again if it is what you want. Be receptive to new things.
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Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 12:30 pm
he went to Iowa.. I live in pennsylvania.. and he went to iowa to be with his best friend.. who is a girl.. i dont' think there is much to explain.. especially since i did some investigating and saw that he wrote a message to his best friend on myspace saying i can't wait to see you the 21rst... even though he said he would come and see me this weekend...
he still has yet to communicate with me.. so i don't think he's going to
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Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 6:14 pm
ok that super sucks! I can't really explain his actions, because well I'm not in his mind kind of thing but I can assure you that not ALL guys are like that. Not all guys are idiots xD. You just seem to have bad luck and run in to the wrong ones? But hold in there cuz one day you'll meet the guy for you.
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Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 4:35 am
Each guy will have his own faults. It's finding the faults that are compatible with you that is going to be the difficult part.
That said, I'll just quickly recite my usual protocol for finding a right partner: you don't find love, it finds you.
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Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 4:46 pm
latest:
He told me it was his fault. but i shouldn't of reacted the way i did.. at one point i became weak and tried to get him back.. but than he just said sayonnarra to me.. and left.. he also made a bunch of lies saying well there was no signal on my cell phone.. or.. i didn't have time to call or something stupid like that..
I cried some more after all of that.. but im actually ok now...
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Posted: Mon Apr 24, 2006 6:19 am
You know I have actully asked my self the exact opositite of that question.
Are there any girls out there that actualliy would like me? If so why am I stuck with the cheating once?
XD
But um...yea.. All my background expiriences with relationships ended up really badly. In both accounts I was dumped to go out with someone else biggrin Isn't that fun. =-sarcastly-=
Now the reason I say this is because I know how it feels >.< but being a guy >.> that kind of hurted >.< i try to be a good guy i really do. I'm trying to be a moddle Bf for my beautiful Gf XD but case in point the most i can tell you is yes there a good guys out there, and there really hard to find but there out there. you don't nessasarly have to fish for them more of let them come to you, and yes it does seem tierd of whaiting but that's basacly what i did. I kind of gave up in serching untill i found the right one so yea... x.x it's dificult to say the least but you shall get there ^_^ everyone does you just have to decide eather to go with it or just let it go
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Posted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 4:40 am
Yep. That was pretty cruel, and stupid.
There are good men in this world, so don't be completely bummed out. Sad thing is, they're hard to find and get ahold of. It's guys like that who give males a bad name. Society is all up for guys like that nowaday.
I'd give you advice with my past experiences, but they aren't very good ones.
At all.
So, you just have to keep an eye out. One will waddle his way to you one day. :3
By the way, that man was an a**. D:<
Makes me snarl a bit inside.
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