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 Posted: Thu Apr 06, 2006 4:57 pm
So, I was looking back at my sexual history and I have realised that most of the guys that I've been with in relationships and sexually, were virgins. The ones that were not tended to be different in many many ways, and most of them were negative.
I have realised that many non-virgin males have an "idea" about what they think pleasures ALL women, and they go off with this or that thing that pleasured their last partner (or that THEY seem to think is "cool") and ignore completely that WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT, and I AM NOT THE SAME AS THE LAST GIRL.
Do you think that virgin males tend to be more willing to experiment and communicate about what really makes their partners feel good, because they're not set in their ways, treating their partners as though women are simply different versions of the same thing?
I've found that with virgin males, I've been able to "train" them to do the things that really make me feel good, and they tend to be less close-minded about trying new things, especially when they haven't had actual experience. They also seem to be more verbal and clear about what they want from ME, since they can't say "oh, just give me a blow job like Cathy did it".
What do you think about male virgins? Do you think that they are better lovers than "experienced" men who seem to think that they know more about your body than you do?
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Posted: Thu Apr 06, 2006 5:47 pm
I'd tell you I'm an asset, but that wouldn't be too humble of me, nor would it be very convincing...
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Posted: Thu Apr 06, 2006 7:40 pm
Buahahaha. The problem is that the men you've dated that are not virgins... are not experienced. However, in my listening of women past, the only thing worse than a guy who thinks he knows everything about sex and is self serving in relationships is a guy who doesn't know how to work that s**t at all. You'd think it would be fairly simple, but between misconceptions in media and bizarre expectations you'd be surprised the amount of virgins that don't what goes in where.
It bothers me (and to a lesser extent, turns me on...) that you need to "train" your men though. You'd think lovemaking would be a mutual experience.
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Posted: Thu Apr 06, 2006 11:32 pm
I have to agree with Sethi, it's kind of scary on a certain level to think of girls "training" their men in their ideas of what good sex is. Especially given all women are different, meaning your first screw might lock you into certain patterns without your realizing it. T-T
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Posted: Fri Apr 07, 2006 6:57 pm
Hmm...it largely depends on the person. If they are a gentler, more caring breed, they will do their best to make sure their partner feel as good as they make them feel. The more pig headed ones THINK they know how to please their mate, and stick to that standard, and never bother to listen to their mate until it's too late. Most men will most likely fall between these two extremes.
Though I would hope to lean more towards the former, than the latter...
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Posted: Fri Apr 07, 2006 8:07 pm
Well, I can't say anything for I'm still a female virgin.
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Posted: Sun Apr 09, 2006 9:06 am
I think, at a certain point, with men who would both have the personality/physical appearance(which isn't as important), or whatever to have sex before, but don't just give off their virginity freely, there is a certain element of respect for their partners that men who are quicker to hand off their virginity might not have. It really depends though, as not all men who aren't virgins simply view women as their walking sex toys. Someone who is less concerned with sex and more with emotional *ahem* bondage* would likely make the better partner.
*More concerned with bonding with a person emotionally. Or, y'know, whatever.
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Posted: Sun Apr 09, 2006 1:42 pm
I think it's a more individual thing. Everytime I'm with a girl I rest my expectations. I have been with a girl that loved it soft and gentle right after dating a girl into Domination
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Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 1:05 pm
Men are like dogs, you just gotta train em. It may take some patience, but eventually they get the right tricks.
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Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 7:18 pm
Miang1490 Men are like dogs, you just gotta train em. It may take some patience, but eventually they get the right tricks. Dogs? I would prefer to think that some of them are like cats. Oh wait, thats women... *has been reading up on felines*
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Posted: Wed Apr 26, 2006 6:29 am
Miang1490 Men are like dogs, you just gotta train em. It may take some patience, but eventually they get the right tricks.
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Posted: Sun May 07, 2006 11:16 pm
heh Im still a virgin, but Ive been treated like a "dog" by women before.
Im willing to learn anything new if you teach me ^_~
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Posted: Tue May 09, 2006 7:06 am
Lord Vyce Miang1490 Men are like dogs, you just gotta train em. It may take some patience, but eventually they get the right tricks. I think of myself as a dog and a little kid. Not that it's relevant. But yeah, I think in a good relationship, both people would be concerned with the satisfaction of the other, with the expectancy that the other person would be concerned with them
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Posted: Tue May 09, 2006 3:32 pm
In my opinion, virgin males are an assest, but at the same time a pain-in-the-a**.
Why they are an asset- Since they have had very minimul sexual intercourse, they are more open-minded to what their partners want, and not of what they want. To put it quite simply, we are not-knowing, so we are willing do to as told.
Why they are a pain-in-the-a**- From my insite, most male virgins are also horny basatrds who want to get laid, because they feel it will help them 'be a manly man'. And for their partners, I can imagine that to be very annoying. Its one thing to be willing, but its another to want to 'tap dat' as many times as possible.
Thank you, and have a nice day! ^.~
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Posted: Sun Jul 02, 2006 3:51 pm
Being a virgin I have to say it's the person.
I think if you have someone who'll listen to you and someone you'll likely to stay with, they're more likely to care for your pleasure and to take into account what you want. As opposed to someone who thinks they know what you want and imposes that thought within the sex. OR hell, weither the person feels like trying something new, something that might make you both feel a great sense of pleasure.
I myself would sooner have only the woman orgasm then just me. Because that's just selfish.
But again, I'm a virgin.
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