Hi, i'm jan and i have an exboyfriend i'm still in love with. I had cheated on him twice, as a result of me not being comfortable in my ability to keep a relationship with my BPD. Even though we aren't together anymore we still love each other dearly. We are both bisexual and he thinks if i can clean up what i did by healing myself, we can try again. Any suggestions are helpful.
Posted: Tue Nov 19, 2013 7:48 pm
Leave him alone.
Stay single and work on yourself before you try to bring another person into your life.
Stay single and work on yourself before you try to bring another person into your life.
That;s also the best advice I could offer you at the moment, too. Just let it be and try working on yourself first, and then worry about relationships.