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A girl I just can't have...

DGwar

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Posted: Thu Dec 06, 2012 5:36 pm

So within the last 3-4 months I've started falling hard for this girl. Last I knew she was bisexual and recently she came out of a very messed up breakup with this girl we both work with. I've been her friend for awhile now, and me and her even talked about dating.
All of a sudden she just seems so distant, and everyone's telling me she's a lesbian.
I guess I just don't know what to do. It seems every girl I fall for either isn't available, doesn't want me, or for the second time in my life, is a lesbian.
Honestly I just wish there was a way to know for sure.

Posted: Thu Dec 06, 2012 5:53 pm

Ask her if anything is bothering her that is causing her to seem distant. If you really want to be the one to have and hold her, tell her. (I know that isn't an easy thing to do) But what's there to gain from just sitting there wondering about her and never doing anything about it? Though you said she came out of a messed up relationship so maybe it'd be best to give her time.

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Kitten Rose73

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Posted: Thu Dec 06, 2012 6:21 pm

I hope that things get better for you

Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2012 8:17 am

Just continue to be her friend. I know from experiencing a bad break-up myself that I would stop talking to my guy friends if it seemed like they were starting to hit on me for at least six months after the break-up. Sometimes that's what a person needs more than a new boyfriend/girlfriend, and it'll win you more points in the long run. You don't want to pressure her so much that she rejects you out of annoyance.

Even if it does turn out that she's a lesbian, you can still be her friend. You can still make her happy by doing so.

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