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 Posted: Sat Sep 22, 2012 7:53 pm
yea. dryness. not sexy. it just started happening recently, I've never ever ever had a problem with this, (before this started being a thing I used to get like...really wet. like hoover dam ******** me now wet.) but recently whenever Rob and I are gettin' ready have sex, no matter how aroused I am, it just...it's a desert. I thought maybe he just wasn't hitting the right spots, which is the most idiotic thing to think, so last night I tried getting myself off in between sex because a) he felt bad and b) I wanted to get off, but...nothing. huge orgasm but nothing. still dry, still not the hoover dam, still couldn't have real sex.
the only nonmedical reasons I can think of is the fact that sexually I'm not so attracted to guys. I mean, don't get me wrong, I love all kinds of sex with a man or a woman but it generally does take a little longer for me to be all set with guys. buuuuutt I've been having sex with Rob for a while now and this is just a recent thing. plus the whole still being dry even when I masturbate.
can someone or all ladies just start spewing reasons or answers or something because it's so disheartening and embarrassing and I just wanna please my man and myself. and lube makes me want to puke.
FIND SOLUTIONS GO I AM SO CODEPENDENT WITH THE LADIES FORUM
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Posted: Sat Sep 22, 2012 8:13 pm
Hm, I'd talk to your gyno (if you have one) about it. I have no idea why that would happen for no mental (such as you didn't want to) reason.
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Posted: Sat Sep 22, 2012 9:27 pm
Sounds more hormonal. Pay attention to where you are in your cycle. I bet you will start to see a pattern right before you get your period.
Even if not, it could be a hormone shift. Our bodies do that every few years. There's a reason lubes are such a lucrative business. Just be sure to always have some on hand for moments like this.
I'm always dry. I have to use lube every single time or it's not getting in there, regardless of how aroused I am. It has nothing to do with being attracted. It's just a thing our bodies do.
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Posted: Sun Sep 23, 2012 1:03 am
Yeah, I have that too, a lot. Even when I do get wet, it's usually really not enough for sex. Then sometimes I gush and it's really super watery. We just use lube when I can't.
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Posted: Wed Sep 26, 2012 8:37 pm
Are you on birth control?
That can affect your slippery slopeee
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Posted: Sat Sep 29, 2012 6:25 pm
I'm seconding Arianah on it largely depends on your hormones and where you are in terms of that cycle. And hormonal birth control can mess with that too,. Honestly, few people can self-lube enough for marathon sexing all the time, and one thing I've noticed as in the course of my relationship, if it's longterm, as we move from lust to love, similar things will happen. I think what you're dealing with is super natural and I would recommend just buying some lube. There's nothing "wrong" with you.
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